JR Bourne Instagram – ”ALONENESS AND LONELINESS ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS” #Repost @__nitch ・・・ Nick Cave // “I am sorry I have taken so long to answer this question… I have carried it with me all this time, wanting to answer, but never quite knowing how… Aloneness and loneliness are two very different things… I spend much of my time alone; I always have. I have learnt that being alone, as bereft as it perhaps feels to some, is busy with meaning and disclosure. For me, it is an essential place that intensifies the essence of oneself, in all its rampant need. It is the site of demons and sudden angels and raw truths; a quiet, haunted place and a place of unforeseen understandings. A place of unmasking and unveiling. It can be industrious or melancholic or frightening, sometimes all at the same time, yet within it there is a feeling of a latent promise that holds great power…aloneness holds moments that tremble on the brink of revelation and great change. And then there is loneliness, which is aloneness without choice, an enforced condition that yearns for recognition, to be seen and to be heard… It struck me that your question didn’t have to be answered, but simply acknowledged; that to reach out to you, as you reached out to me, could in itself be the answer and, perhaps, a remedy…to say to you, you are not alone, we are here, and that we, a multitude, are thinking of you.”