#HappyPrideMonth . Celebrate your love. Celebrate your kink. Celebrate your self. . Ruin someone’s day by being so fabulous and happy and uniquely you.(🤣🙄💁🏽♀️) . Shine light on the vibrant parts of who you are and feel your joy. . I wish you nothing but glitter and love and freedom. Happy Pride, you filthy animals! 💋 . #nastynerd #pride #pridemonth #pride🌈 #lesbian #lesbiansofinstgram #lesbianstyle #jag #wmma #itgetsbetter #ɪɴsᴛᴀɢᴏᴏᴅ #callmebyyourname
✨Happy #Sungay✨ . New Love, New Era 💋 . Read about our love story on @theadvocatemag . Grateful for your love @jagatt 😘 . Photo: @jameslawphoto Makeup: @beautybyerick Hair: @machinedarine . #lifeafterdivorce #itgetsbetter #gaygirlsofinstagram #wmma #bellator #ufc #xfc #younetflix #searchpartymax #lesbianvisibility #happilyeverafter
✨Happy #Sungay✨ . New Love, New Era 💋 . Read about our love story on @theadvocatemag . Grateful for your love @jagatt 😘 . Photo: @jameslawphoto Makeup: @beautybyerick Hair: @machinedarine . #lifeafterdivorce #itgetsbetter #gaygirlsofinstagram #wmma #bellator #ufc #xfc #younetflix #searchpartymax #lesbianvisibility #happilyeverafter
This #pridemonth @jagatt and I are #proudandpresent 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 . Enjoying a sweltering day together in our @lululemon w/ my other favorite girl, Candy Alizé (like the liquor 🤣 #iykyk) . Spread love 💕 . #lesbianpride #itgetsbetter #loveislove #loveyourself #dogmoms #dogmomsofinstagram #lululemon
This #pridemonth @jagatt and I are #proudandpresent 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 . Enjoying a sweltering day together in our @lululemon w/ my other favorite girl, Candy Alizé (like the liquor 🤣 #iykyk) . Spread love 💕 . #lesbianpride #itgetsbetter #loveislove #loveyourself #dogmoms #dogmomsofinstagram #lululemon
This week, don’t feed the animals. . 💈💄📸: @beautybyerick . #mondaymotivation #mondaymood #gaypride #gaygirlsofinstagram #attitudeiseverything #dontfeedtheanimals #emilykingmusic
Bed head… in Barcelona. . . During my social media hiatus I traveled to Barcelona, Spain and got my entire 👏🏾 life👏🏾 . . I took this when I woke up (in the sexiest hotel: Room Mate Carla) and realized I ate pasta and bread two nights in a row and still looked like this 👀 In America, after pasta I always look 4 months pregnant for at least 24 hours 🙇🏽♀️🤣 And that @fournaturalshair was keeping me curl carefree (5 day old #washandgo ) 💁🏽♀️ . . Anyway, I’m missing that city… what are some of your favorite cities? Domestic and international ✨
#tbt to when I was obsessed with lifting heavy weights in expensive shoes 💪🏽💋 . . @ianspanier easily one of my favorite shoots! And for those who doubt: you know those weights were real! . . Photographer: @ianspanier Body suit: Ivy Park Shoes: Louboutin
#tbt to when I was obsessed with lifting heavy weights in expensive shoes 💪🏽💋 . . @ianspanier easily one of my favorite shoots! And for those who doubt: you know those weights were real! . . Photographer: @ianspanier Body suit: Ivy Park Shoes: Louboutin
Wyd💋 . . What did you do this weekend? Tell me only using emojis, I wanna guess 🤗
Say so 💋 . . Me, shot by me
#bts and #tbt . Multitasking yesterday @sagaftrafound panel and catching up on the latest #you novel from @carolinekepnes (thanks for sending!!!😘) . …now let’s see what it says about Sherry Conrad, hmmmm 🤓✨ . Hey #younetflix fans, are you looking forward to Season 3???? Drop some emoji’s in the comments!! 🤗🤗 . #louboutinheels #longnaturalhair #type4hair #fournaturals #invisiblefemme #gaygirlsofinstagram #zoommeetings #youloveme #btsnetflix #blackgirlmagic
Missed me? 😉 . . I missed you too! I took a little posting hiatus and came back to a whole pandemic 😳🙈 . . How have you all been? I want to chat with you today so comment and let me know how this lockdown has been for you? . . Tag someone you’ve been leaning on during this time. Let them know you appreciate them ✨😘 . . #quarantine #stayhome #peace #love #2020 #covid19 #socialdistancing #socialmediadistancing #covid_19 #reunion #losangeles #theinvisiblefemme #gaygirlgang
Happy Mother’s Day😉😘🐶
Anyone have any idea what I’m doing here? 😂⠀ ⠀
I felt that ✨ . . #repost @lightworkerslounge
#tbt to that time I got all dressed up to appear on @nochesconplatanito only to compete against @jthanprime in the best Velcro competition EVER!! . . Who do you think won?? Me or @jthanprime 😉🤗💪🏽 . . #cameraroll #noches #losangeles #Velcro #ncisnola #lethalweapon #2020 #theinvisiblefemme #gaygirlgang #platanito #gameshow #games #latenight
#tbt to that time I got all dressed up to appear on @nochesconplatanito only to compete against @jthanprime in the best Velcro competition EVER!! . . Who do you think won?? Me or @jthanprime 😉🤗💪🏽 . . #cameraroll #noches #losangeles #Velcro #ncisnola #lethalweapon #2020 #theinvisiblefemme #gaygirlgang #platanito #gameshow #games #latenight
Repeat after me: Amor Fati! . Amor Fati is Latin for “love of fate” or “love of one’s fate”. It is used to describe an attitude in which one sees everything that happens in one’s life, including suffering and loss, as good or, at the very least, necessary. This is one of the principles of Stoic philosophy . According to Stoicism’s teachings, as social beings, the path to eudaimonia (happiness, or blessedness) is found in accepting the moment as it presents itself, by not allowing oneself to be controlled by the desire for pleasure or by the fear of pain, by using one’s mind to understand the world and to do one’s part in nature’s plan, and by working together and treating others fairly and justly. . Set backs, rejection, failure and pain are all necessary parts of the dance of life. Because of my Amor Fati practice, I no longer ask “Why is this happening?” or “How could this happen to me?”. Now I wonder “What is this teaching me?” or “How can I learn from this?”. . Life is happening through us, not to us. I hope you’re getting your cha-cha on this week. And don’t get stuck on the back foot friends 😘😘 . #repost @badassboz Thank you for this post ✨✨ . #itgetsbetter #stoicism #stoicphilosophy #stoicmindset #stoicquotes #lovelifequotes #growthmindset #eternaloptimist #gaygirlsofinstagram
Hey sis. 🧡I hope you know how special you are. Don’t forget it. 👑#QueenMentality ⠀ ⠀ 🎥: @FourNaturalsHair⠀ ⠀
Major 🔑🔑🔑 . . #repost @lightworkerslounge . .
This poem is one of tools that has saved my life. . My first suicidal ideation was at 8. I landed on this as a last resort. My childhood was full of abuse, neglect and by 8 I had figured cutting my wrists would change things. . The next period of time that I struggled with this was at 12. By that point my mom had become a Christian and I thought her taking religion would change things. When it didn’t, the pain of the disappointment was unbearable. Once again I believed ending my life was my only viable option. . At 15, I was so despondent but sure that my life was better over, I shared my thoughts with another teen. I shared how angry I was with my family. How hurt I was. That my thoughts were so dark. And you know what she told me: Killing myself would only let them win. I let that be my fuel to keep living, “I’ll show them” was the fuel I ran on. And I achieved. I got out of my family system, I traveled the world at 17, got into Juilliard, was a presidential scholar… all with this giant hole in my heart. . Eventually, achieving things left me feeling as empty and meaningless as I did when I was a child. And once again, in my 20’s I was struggling again. . I’ve been in therapy for 12 years and I’ve still had these moments. But the longer I’ve chosen life, and to TRULY live – because that’s what I’ve learned from my depression/anxiety and suicidal ideation: I can not afford to live inauthentically. All of these methods of suicide are just as painful as whatever emotional anguish I’ve been in. I choose inspiration when I struggle with circumstances that trigger my anxiety. Because those anxious lies say there’s only one way out. But when I look to the left and right of me, when I listen to other people’s stories of making it out of situations, I realize I have infinite choice. . You never know what’s behind someone’s smile. The darkness that they’ve faced. It feels like a gift when I know that choosing to live has brought other people joy. Choose life friends. Choose life no matter how hard it seems. . I love you. #mentalhealthawarenessmonth
