Ass update- Didn’t workout all week or drink water. Just partied and slept in Mexico. Normalizing loving our bodies with or without working out is my jam. Normalize the freedom of celebrating our bodies without accepting the shame that some people try to project onto you when you are free and naked. Being naked doesn’t mean that you are inviting sexual comments from men and it doesn’t always mean that you are “thirsty” 😝 Especially when your man is hot AF already. 👑 Expressing your joy in feeling free and uninhibited is real freedom and in my case after giving birth, many miscarriages, thyroid disease and healing through childhood trauma it feels like the ultimate accomplishment. I hid my body in my youth before I gave birth as I wanted to prove my talent and my brains were my focus. But then, I started to hide my accomplishments & my truly spectacular story too in order to downplay my life. Why? To be liked. Ridiculous that I felt I had to choose or to prove something. It does make it even more fun & satisfying to celebrate my body now yet if I had to do it again? I wouldn’t have hid my body ever… just to prove that I was more than just that. As if just being ourselves isn’t enough. It is enough and little did I know that unhappy people would try to minimize my hard work & amazing accomplishments anyway. SO listen girls…🙄 Fuck what anyone else tells you that loving your body means or how to do it correctly. Tell your story! Tell the truth about what he put you through. You don’t have to carry that pain alone. Brag about your life & your accomplishments! I’m here for it!!! I’m Not taking anything for granted ever again in order to please the un-pleaseable humans. Some people will always talk shit about you as they are jealous of your freedom AND they quite simply have too much time on their hands with no meaningful/joyful life of their own keeping them busy. If you have to downplay yourself around a dude or a group. Dump them. Leave the empty Space. Keep dancing, keep laughing, share your life story and your accomplishments with secure people cause those that mind DON’T matter and those that matter don’t mind. 👁and always.. go were the light is……
Headed to see dad. #TeamGreen @dancingabc
So many incredible things have happened in my life after having the guts to leave a small town and an abusive upbringing. Here is one of them….. When I met Meryl Streep it was in her dressing room backstage at a play she was doing. I was dating a writer/director for 6 years after Kass was born and Meryl was the star of his latest movie. We had a great time with her that night never discussing business. Later that night when we got home we had already received an email from Meryl. She said what a great time she had and then said “If I’m not mistaken… Without her glasses on, your girlfriend portrays Sam Marquez on the show we watch every week.” (😳) “My family and I always say after each show, Well she’s the best actress” 🤯 Then she wrote “Whatever you do Ben, don’t fuck this one up” 😝 Yes, I fainted. Yes I framed the email and yes I went on to learn many things from Meryl. One- Don’t watch yourself on camera. Two- try to do every take differently Three- Stand for and with other women. Always. Four – she was right, Ben was in fact going to fuck up our relationship 😝 but all of THOSE details are for my book. My first book won’t be a memoir for now, out of respect for my son’s privacy but it will be about “Love” I’m so excited to share so many amazing stories with you all as truly I hope these stories will help you to know that we all deserve pure love in our lives. So just for today? Don’t ever ever give up. I love you Meryl and I love all of you, my female tribe. #ImWithYouSister #chickmafia Thx for this pic I’ve never seen @vanessamarcil.fans @sweetlikez I appreciate you. 🦋👑
So many incredible things have happened in my life after having the guts to leave a small town and an abusive upbringing. Here is one of them….. When I met Meryl Streep it was in her dressing room backstage at a play she was doing. I was dating a writer/director for 6 years after Kass was born and Meryl was the star of his latest movie. We had a great time with her that night never discussing business. Later that night when we got home we had already received an email from Meryl. She said what a great time she had and then said “If I’m not mistaken… Without her glasses on, your girlfriend portrays Sam Marquez on the show we watch every week.” (😳) “My family and I always say after each show, Well she’s the best actress” 🤯 Then she wrote “Whatever you do Ben, don’t fuck this one up” 😝 Yes, I fainted. Yes I framed the email and yes I went on to learn many things from Meryl. One- Don’t watch yourself on camera. Two- try to do every take differently Three- Stand for and with other women. Always. Four – she was right, Ben was in fact going to fuck up our relationship 😝 but all of THOSE details are for my book. My first book won’t be a memoir for now, out of respect for my son’s privacy but it will be about “Love” I’m so excited to share so many amazing stories with you all as truly I hope these stories will help you to know that we all deserve pure love in our lives. So just for today? Don’t ever ever give up. I love you Meryl and I love all of you, my female tribe. #ImWithYouSister #chickmafia Thx for this pic I’ve never seen @vanessamarcil.fans @sweetlikez I appreciate you. 🦋👑
So many incredible things have happened in my life after having the guts to leave a small town and an abusive upbringing. Here is one of them….. When I met Meryl Streep it was in her dressing room backstage at a play she was doing. I was dating a writer/director for 6 years after Kass was born and Meryl was the star of his latest movie. We had a great time with her that night never discussing business. Later that night when we got home we had already received an email from Meryl. She said what a great time she had and then said “If I’m not mistaken… Without her glasses on, your girlfriend portrays Sam Marquez on the show we watch every week.” (😳) “My family and I always say after each show, Well she’s the best actress” 🤯 Then she wrote “Whatever you do Ben, don’t fuck this one up” 😝 Yes, I fainted. Yes I framed the email and yes I went on to learn many things from Meryl. One- Don’t watch yourself on camera. Two- try to do every take differently Three- Stand for and with other women. Always. Four – she was right, Ben was in fact going to fuck up our relationship 😝 but all of THOSE details are for my book. My first book won’t be a memoir for now, out of respect for my son’s privacy but it will be about “Love” I’m so excited to share so many amazing stories with you all as truly I hope these stories will help you to know that we all deserve pure love in our lives. So just for today? Don’t ever ever give up. I love you Meryl and I love all of you, my female tribe. #ImWithYouSister #chickmafia Thx for this pic I’ve never seen @vanessamarcil.fans @sweetlikez I appreciate you. 🦋👑
So many incredible things have happened in my life after having the guts to leave a small town and an abusive upbringing. Here is one of them….. When I met Meryl Streep it was in her dressing room backstage at a play she was doing. I was dating a writer/director for 6 years after Kass was born and Meryl was the star of his latest movie. We had a great time with her that night never discussing business. Later that night when we got home we had already received an email from Meryl. She said what a great time she had and then said “If I’m not mistaken… Without her glasses on, your girlfriend portrays Sam Marquez on the show we watch every week.” (😳) “My family and I always say after each show, Well she’s the best actress” 🤯 Then she wrote “Whatever you do Ben, don’t fuck this one up” 😝 Yes, I fainted. Yes I framed the email and yes I went on to learn many things from Meryl. One- Don’t watch yourself on camera. Two- try to do every take differently Three- Stand for and with other women. Always. Four – she was right, Ben was in fact going to fuck up our relationship 😝 but all of THOSE details are for my book. My first book won’t be a memoir for now, out of respect for my son’s privacy but it will be about “Love” I’m so excited to share so many amazing stories with you all as truly I hope these stories will help you to know that we all deserve pure love in our lives. So just for today? Don’t ever ever give up. I love you Meryl and I love all of you, my female tribe. #ImWithYouSister #chickmafia Thx for this pic I’ve never seen @vanessamarcil.fans @sweetlikez I appreciate you. 🦋👑
So many incredible things have happened in my life after having the guts to leave a small town and an abusive upbringing. Here is one of them….. When I met Meryl Streep it was in her dressing room backstage at a play she was doing. I was dating a writer/director for 6 years after Kass was born and Meryl was the star of his latest movie. We had a great time with her that night never discussing business. Later that night when we got home we had already received an email from Meryl. She said what a great time she had and then said “If I’m not mistaken… Without her glasses on, your girlfriend portrays Sam Marquez on the show we watch every week.” (😳) “My family and I always say after each show, Well she’s the best actress” 🤯 Then she wrote “Whatever you do Ben, don’t fuck this one up” 😝 Yes, I fainted. Yes I framed the email and yes I went on to learn many things from Meryl. One- Don’t watch yourself on camera. Two- try to do every take differently Three- Stand for and with other women. Always. Four – she was right, Ben was in fact going to fuck up our relationship 😝 but all of THOSE details are for my book. My first book won’t be a memoir for now, out of respect for my son’s privacy but it will be about “Love” I’m so excited to share so many amazing stories with you all as truly I hope these stories will help you to know that we all deserve pure love in our lives. So just for today? Don’t ever ever give up. I love you Meryl and I love all of you, my female tribe. #ImWithYouSister #chickmafia Thx for this pic I’ve never seen @vanessamarcil.fans @sweetlikez I appreciate you. 🦋👑
KassMoney in Manhattan. He lived on planes as a kid. 🙏🏽 I was pregnant with @kassius_marcil_green on sept 11 2001 I lived between NYC, Upstate NY, Brooklyn and Hollywood. I was headed to the airport to catch my flight to JFK with Kass in my belly when we got word. All of our lives changed forever in that unfathomable moment. As my son prepares to turn 20 we feel the depth of how lucky we are to have our lives. How heartbroken we are for the victims. How proud we are of our heroes. How deeply we love our city. The greatest city in the world, NYC. Love yourself, so that we can love each other. Before it’s too late. #Neverforget #911 I lived in the west village for awhile hence the #scoop bag. If you know you know….. I love you NYC
Some days I want to die just to laugh with you again. It’s been another year since you’ve flown free and still my heart aches for you bunny. Until we meet again…..#BunnyBunny
“Wear your hair down, do your make up and put on your contacts” But…then it takes me an hour to get ready. Fuck that. 😝 #choosehappiness #letsgo! #Notunlesssomeonespayingme #BitchpleaseimnotBrendaeveryday #nothingtoprove #chickmafia
g’mar chatima tova 🙏🏽 @casablancacareyes
ASS UPDATE- Haven’t worked out or stretched in TWO weeks now. Normalize rest & investing in your girlfriends. Wifeys for life. What’s yo ass update? I want to know as #ImWithYouSister #IDOmissScotttstretchingmetho @scottloganflex
That wifey life……
#chickmafia
Gagoo locked herself in @kassius_marcil_green electric car. Bag? @dior #FamilyDay #GBH #punkrockkid
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.
It is the anniversary of my father’s death. Kassius’ grandfather. Pete Ortiz was a ferociously abusive & violent man. Living with him for 17 years formed my young life in many ways. I don’t miss him yet I grieve over what could have been for my mother and for us. For my children. For him. What a beautiful family to lose. 🙏🏽 Rest In Peace finally Pete.