Leah Remini Instagram – One of the questions I get asked the most (besides “where is Shelly Miscavige?”) is “Why did you stay in Scientology for so long?” To understand trauma bonding, I found this book, “The Betrayal Bond”, by Dr. Patrick Carnes, to be heartbreaking and revealing. This book helped to answer questions as to why someone would stay in any sort of abusive relationship (romantic, friendship, a cult) and be exploited and manipulated. #mondayreset