Andrew Gillum Instagram – A Steel Magnolia … a genteel woman who demonstrates uncommon fortitude.   Our final salute for Women’s History Month is none other than, the brilliant R. Jai Gillum.   R. Jai is the Director of Foundation Affairs at the Florida Dental Association, where she works with dentists across the state of Florida to provide access to free dental aid for those who might not otherwise be able to afford care. A few weeks ago R. Jai and her team wrapped up their annual community event where they helped over 1,400 people and provided almost $1.8 million dollars in free dental services.     In addition to her professional career, R. Jai is the mother to our three children, Jackson, Davis, and Caroline. More recently, R. Jai went back to school to get her second graduate degree, this time from George Washington University.   Many people credit me for being the involved and “political” person in our family. But it should be known that R. Jai beat me to that plate. She was Miss Sophomore on the FAMU Royal Court, served as a student senator, led student protests, and served as vice president of the FAMU Student Government Association. She volunteers for everything! She was in the Junior League, served as Chair of the County Public Library Foundation, is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., the Links International, Jack and Jill and so much more.   Simply put, R. Jai is the best of us.     Life hasn’t been a bed of roses for her, but through it all she perseveres. At my lowest point, R. Jai decided to demonstrate for me the definition of the word, grace. I thought I knew its meaning before; but that was pity, maybe sympathy. What she taught me, was true grace.   R. Jai, I don’t know how you do it, but we are all blessed to witness your radiance and example. Thank you for being my mentor.   When challenged by a stranger online, R. Jai replied to the person, “the first thing you need to know about me, is that I’m not you, and the rest will make sense.”   Love you always, Jai.