I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
I never wanted to be a mom.
I never thought about having a family, or even growing old. When I did have moments where I envisioned my future it was always Samantha from SATC, but make it fat. So much of my life was spent in survival mode, and being a young, single mom wasn’t my first, second or even third choice.
Becoming a mom at 20 was a wild ride 😵💫 I loved my oldest, provided for him, but emotionally showing up was a struggle. How do you care for a literal human being when you don’t know how to care for yourself? By the time Bowie came along, I felt more confident as a parent, and in who I was. Healing, age, privilege and to be honest- cannabis, has helped me be a better mom to both my boys. Forgiving myself for mistakes I wouldn’t have made if I knew better was freeing as well.
My children live in a home where we keep no secrets, they know about consent, body autonomy, protecting Black and trans folks, and that nothing is off limits to talk about. When they look back at their childhoods, I hope they understand I did my best, and that I’m actually way cooler than they realized. 🥸
I never wanted to be a mom, but I’m so glad I’m one ❤️ and equally as glad that I have two amazing moms! 😭
Whatever kinda mom you are, even if you are reparenting your own damn self, I’m proud of you. If you’re mourning today, I love you. Today is such a mixed bag for so many and I hope you were able to be kind to yourself whatever it looks like for you. #mothersday #latergram #forgiveness #healing
Moving my body daily in nature. Friends who show tf up. Buying myself flowers. Prioritizing what prioritizes me. Soft girl era. Boundaries. Sunshine on my skin. Finally giving myself more than what I give others 🫶 West Hollywood, California
Moving my body daily in nature. Friends who show tf up. Buying myself flowers. Prioritizing what prioritizes me. Soft girl era. Boundaries. Sunshine on my skin. Finally giving myself more than what I give others 🫶 West Hollywood, California
Moving my body daily in nature. Friends who show tf up. Buying myself flowers. Prioritizing what prioritizes me. Soft girl era. Boundaries. Sunshine on my skin. Finally giving myself more than what I give others 🫶 West Hollywood, California
Moving my body daily in nature. Friends who show tf up. Buying myself flowers. Prioritizing what prioritizes me. Soft girl era. Boundaries. Sunshine on my skin. Finally giving myself more than what I give others 🫶 West Hollywood, California
Moving my body daily in nature. Friends who show tf up. Buying myself flowers. Prioritizing what prioritizes me. Soft girl era. Boundaries. Sunshine on my skin. Finally giving myself more than what I give others 🫶 West Hollywood, California
Yesterday we raised over 500k for @dragisntdangerous!!! 🥳 The room was so full of love, laughter & big hair! Thanks to everyone who called in ☎️ & donated, I loved laughing & crying with y’all! Drag isn’t dangerous, LGBTQIA folks aren’t the issue- hate is. Please continue to spread the word, vote in your local elections & love each other more than ever 🫶💖 #dragisnotacrime #dragisntdangerous #lgbtrights #transrightsarehumanrights #queerpride
music is kaytranda- I don’t own this song, IG was being weird 🙃 Los Angeles, California
we are sick of this. It is not just about trans people. Or drag performers. It is a systematic subjugation of all LGBTQ people. The terrorism of religious fascism in America has to end. Please join us today for the @dragisntdangerous telethon to not only raise awareness, but raise money we can use to make a difference. Whether that be helping out of work drag performers in red states or political lobbying, we will put our collective pink dollars to work! #dragisntdangerous #dragisnotacrime #blacktranslivesmatter Los Angeles, California
we are sick of this. It is not just about trans people. Or drag performers. It is a systematic subjugation of all LGBTQ people. The terrorism of religious fascism in America has to end. Please join us today for the @dragisntdangerous telethon to not only raise awareness, but raise money we can use to make a difference. Whether that be helping out of work drag performers in red states or political lobbying, we will put our collective pink dollars to work! #dragisntdangerous #dragisnotacrime #blacktranslivesmatter Los Angeles, California
we are sick of this. It is not just about trans people. Or drag performers. It is a systematic subjugation of all LGBTQ people. The terrorism of religious fascism in America has to end. Please join us today for the @dragisntdangerous telethon to not only raise awareness, but raise money we can use to make a difference. Whether that be helping out of work drag performers in red states or political lobbying, we will put our collective pink dollars to work! #dragisntdangerous #dragisnotacrime #blacktranslivesmatter Los Angeles, California
i’m so sorry
Gagged over this glam!!! Thank you @ninawest for inviting us to @hairsprayontour! My stepmom was the perfect date ➕ my glam team did their magic 🪄 & she got her hair & makeup done for the 1st time🥹 You must go see Hairspray while it’s in town, Nina & the entire cast are phenomenal! I loved seeing everyone dressed up for the theater & the cherry on top was having my dear friend @rickilake with us to celebrate! I’m in awe that so many of my hero’s became my friends & I get to be who I am today because of them!
Lastly, lil friendly reminder that Fat/Plus Size representation is just as important as ever & the fat girl can (& does!!!) get her dream man/person/career/life while looking flawless while doing so 💅 💖!
thank you to @marianamcgrathmakeup & @antoinemartinez for dreamiest glam on me & @mayelypaez & Antoine for making my stepmom feel even more beautiful! 🫶
#hairspraymusical #hairspray #hairspraythemusical #broadway #60sfashion #60smakeup #60shair Dolby Theatre, Hollywood
Gagged over this glam!!! Thank you @ninawest for inviting us to @hairsprayontour! My stepmom was the perfect date ➕ my glam team did their magic 🪄 & she got her hair & makeup done for the 1st time🥹 You must go see Hairspray while it’s in town, Nina & the entire cast are phenomenal! I loved seeing everyone dressed up for the theater & the cherry on top was having my dear friend @rickilake with us to celebrate! I’m in awe that so many of my hero’s became my friends & I get to be who I am today because of them!
Lastly, lil friendly reminder that Fat/Plus Size representation is just as important as ever & the fat girl can (& does!!!) get her dream man/person/career/life while looking flawless while doing so 💅 💖!
thank you to @marianamcgrathmakeup & @antoinemartinez for dreamiest glam on me & @mayelypaez & Antoine for making my stepmom feel even more beautiful! 🫶
#hairspraymusical #hairspray #hairspraythemusical #broadway #60sfashion #60smakeup #60shair Dolby Theatre, Hollywood
Gagged over this glam!!! Thank you @ninawest for inviting us to @hairsprayontour! My stepmom was the perfect date ➕ my glam team did their magic 🪄 & she got her hair & makeup done for the 1st time🥹 You must go see Hairspray while it’s in town, Nina & the entire cast are phenomenal! I loved seeing everyone dressed up for the theater & the cherry on top was having my dear friend @rickilake with us to celebrate! I’m in awe that so many of my hero’s became my friends & I get to be who I am today because of them!
Lastly, lil friendly reminder that Fat/Plus Size representation is just as important as ever & the fat girl can (& does!!!) get her dream man/person/career/life while looking flawless while doing so 💅 💖!
thank you to @marianamcgrathmakeup & @antoinemartinez for dreamiest glam on me & @mayelypaez & Antoine for making my stepmom feel even more beautiful! 🫶
#hairspraymusical #hairspray #hairspraythemusical #broadway #60sfashion #60smakeup #60shair Dolby Theatre, Hollywood
Gagged over this glam!!! Thank you @ninawest for inviting us to @hairsprayontour! My stepmom was the perfect date ➕ my glam team did their magic 🪄 & she got her hair & makeup done for the 1st time🥹 You must go see Hairspray while it’s in town, Nina & the entire cast are phenomenal! I loved seeing everyone dressed up for the theater & the cherry on top was having my dear friend @rickilake with us to celebrate! I’m in awe that so many of my hero’s became my friends & I get to be who I am today because of them!
Lastly, lil friendly reminder that Fat/Plus Size representation is just as important as ever & the fat girl can (& does!!!) get her dream man/person/career/life while looking flawless while doing so 💅 💖!
thank you to @marianamcgrathmakeup & @antoinemartinez for dreamiest glam on me & @mayelypaez & Antoine for making my stepmom feel even more beautiful! 🫶
#hairspraymusical #hairspray #hairspraythemusical #broadway #60sfashion #60smakeup #60shair Dolby Theatre, Hollywood
