Honest conversations give you the clearest indication of whether a relationship is one where you can grow and flourish.
If you have a loving, respectful partner, you will be able to have an honest conversation and notice:
🗣️ They don’t rush to label or criticize you. (For example: “You’re so high-maintenance!”)
❌ They don’t reject constructive criticism.
🫶 They are able to make space for what you feel without trying to avoid negative emotions.
👫 They stay on the same team as you, even if you disagree.
When you make loving honesty a regular part of a healthy relationship, it only brings you closer.
Don’t let the attention you’re getting showered with now distract you from their intentions—or their lack thereof.
Never let anyone diminish your personal value, or make you feel “not good enough.”
Part of your value lies in the rich experiences you’ll encounter throughout your life. These are unique to you and no one can ever take their value away from you. ❤️
BTW, if you want support in reconnecting to your value so you can get back out there, but you’re not sure where to start, I have a free training happening LIVE next week (March 19) called “The Love Life Reset,” and you can secure your spot on the event now by heading over to LoveLifeTraining.com
I hope you’re having a beautiful day today x
Happy International Women’s Day to all of the incredible women out there who make our lives better each and every day. I owe a huge debt to the women in my life. I can’t begin to describe the ways you have impacted my life.
– I was raised by an incredible mother who to this day is one of my best friends in the world and greatest inspirations.
– My life was changed by an extraordinary woman who would go on to be my wife. @theaudreyhussey I learn from you all the time and I owe so much to the energy you’ve brought into my life.
– I have spent 17 years of my life now working with women all across the world, which has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. Thank you for the kindness, the love, the support, and the wisdom you have all given me, and continue to give me wherever I am in the world. I’m so grateful to each and every one of you.
Sending you all so much love today. Thank you for all that you do. I’m so deeply grateful, not only for your presence in my life, but for your presence in the world. ❤️
Have you ever dated someone who seems really into you . . . only for you to find yourself in a dead-end situationship where you just want to scream, “What are we?!” every time you’re together?
Turns out there is a solution for this (and you don’t need to be a mind reader).
In today’s video, I’ll show you some simple ways you can find out what your future would look like with someone—even early on in dating. You can watch the full video on my YouTube channel now or by heading over to MatthewHussey.com/Blog.
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
Are you in a season of your dating life where you want to get back out there, but feel held back by past hurt and mistakes? I promise you’re not alone . . .
If you’re ready to learn how to conquer those fears in early dating and reinvent your approach to finding love again, don’t miss the Love Life Reset with me on Tuesday, March 19.
This free training is only happening live once, and it’s going to be incredibly valuable.
Join me next week and let’s do love better! Head over to LoveLifeTraining.com to reserve your spot or comment RESET below, and I’ll DM you all the details.
When we’re dating someone who doesn’t know what they want, we’ll often appropriate their excuse and use vague language like “we’re just having fun” or “let’s see what happens.” This can feel like a comfort in the moment, but it can also be a way of avoiding having the hard conversation we’re afraid to have because we don’t trust that the answer will be what we want to hear.
In other words, we worry the party will end if we express our needs or standards.
Have you ever done this? Let me know what you think in the comments. I love reading them!
We often hear, “Pay more attention to their actions than their words.” But the truth is, in relationships, both matter.
Don’t forget to claim your spot in my free event next week, ”The Love Life Reset.” ❤️ You can do so at LoveLifeTraining.com
Be sure to watch my new video on my YouTube channel NOW to learn how you can tell the difference between someone who will continue to string you along and someone who’s good relationship material. (Link in bio)
Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back?
Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more.
This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new video, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable.
You can watch the full video on my YouTube channel now (link in bio) or by heading over to MatthewHussey.com/blog
In the wake of a painful breakup, it’s important to be honest with ourselves about the dynamic we experienced in our relationship. Did our partner truly embrace our imperfections? Were they genuinely there when we needed them the most? And, importantly, did their actions reflect our core values?
There’s a natural tendency to paint a perfect picture of the past—to hold on to the good and overlook the painful moments. However, it’s often the case that the truth of our experience diverges significantly from the idyllic memories we cling to, and our ability to be balanced when looking back at the relationship is key to recovering from heartbreak.
Thank you so much to my dear friend, @doctorramani. This conversation was incredible.
Are you ready to get back out there and hit “Reset” on your love life journey? I have a free live training happening NEXT TUESDAY (March 19) that will help you tremendously. Head over to LoveLifeTraining.com now for all the details on how you can secure your spot on the live event for free.
Have you ever wanted to hit the “reset” button on your love life?
Whether you feel like nothing’s been working in your love life, or you never thought you’d be single again but now find yourself in that situation in a later season of life, during my free one-hour training on Tuesday, March 19, I’m going to be:
Providing you with a gentle but powerful approach to hitting “reset” in this area.
Turning fear and disappointment back into positivity in your love life.
Giving you a fresh approach to finding the love you’ve always wanted (even if you can’t STAND the idea of dating).
You’ll learn how to find quality people, create something real and lasting, and stop disappointment and the fear of rejection from getting in the way of you finding love.
Join me live TOMORROW, and let’s do love better! Head over to LoveLifeTraining.com or comment RESET below and I’ll DM you all the details.
Thank you so much to @robdialjr for joining me and Audrey on the Love Life podcast for this amazing conversation. If you want to watch the full interview with Rob, head over to my YouTube channel or tune in to my podcast, Love Life with Matthew Hussey wherever you like to watch podcasts (link in bio)
Answering questions together live! Comment RESET if you want to join us on Tuesday for the “Love Life Reset”, March 19th 11am PT. For anyone who wants to find love this year this event is a must. And it’s FREE!
I’ll be showing you an approach for your love life that will help you get back out there in gentle ways that don’t destroy your peace in the process, and give you back a sense of optimism about your love life!
The Love Life Reset is happening Tuesday March 19th at 11am PT. Comment “RESET” below or go to www.lovelifetraining.com to register. Registering takes 20 seconds and the entire event is FREE! See you there!!
Next week I’m doing a big live event called “The Love Life Reset” . . . and I need your help!
I want to make it as valuable to you as possible, so there are a couple things I would love for you to do . . .
✍️ Drop a comment below with a question/topic you’d like me to cover during the event.
👍 Upvote your favorite question posted by someone else so I can see which ones are the most popular.
And that’s it!
By the way, for anyone wondering how to sign up, this event is totally free, and you can get all the information you need at lovelifetraining.com
You can also get a direct sign-up link by dropping the word RESET below in the comments.
See you next week; I can’t WAIT!
☄️Comment RESET and I’ll send you all the details to my free event “The Love Life Reset”☄️
I went live answering questions about getting back out there, which happens to be the topic of this free training happening on Tuesday.
For more info you can go to LoveLifeTraining.com ❤️
My buddy @trentshelton just released a brand new book I’m so excited about this week: “Protect Your Peace: Nine Unapologetic Principles For Thriving in a Chaotic World”. I can’t wait to read it myself, I love themes Trent is covering in this book, they are so relevant and so important for all of us in these times. I’m waiting for my copy to show up in the mail! You can visit www.TrentShelton.com to order your copy today, as they are available right now!
⭐ Comment RESET and I’ll send you all the details to attend my free event “The Love Life Reset” happening tomorrow ⭐
@theaudreyhussey and I are hanging out, answering your questions together live! There’s still time to join us for the “Love Life Reset” tomorrow, Tuesday March 19th at 11am PT. For anyone who wants to find love this year this event is a must. And it’s FREE!
If you’re ready to overcome your fear of rejection and reinvent your approach to dating in a sustainable way, you don’t want to miss this live training.
Comment “RESET” below or go to LoveLifeTraining.com to register. Registering takes 20 seconds and the entire event is FREE! See you there!
