Gloria Steinem Instagram – Though this New York Times headline is from January 10, 1993, it remains true today. Last week I met Dr. Adva Gutman-Tirosh, an orthopedic surgeon, whose sister, Tamar, was recently murdered. A sobering truth in these and all times of war: rape continues to be used as a weapon of war. Adva shared with me that when she finally saw photos of her late sister, her first thought was, “At least her pants are on.” Those are and have been the realities of war, but they don’t have to be.