A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
A simple adjustment that makes a significant difference in our children’s: Emotional Intelligence Emotional Regulation Skills Trust Compassion Independence Longterm problem solving ability Empowerment Awareness
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
So often children are simply trying to share what matters to them, to feel seen and heard and because of years of the conditioning that children are to be “seen (different kind of seen here, ᴖ̈ ) and not heard” we have this subconscious program running that constantly ruptures the daily opportunities for connection that our children put right into our hands if we aren’t aware. Conscious parenting isn’t about being “nice” and talking in a sweet performative voice and not being dysregulated… It is so much more about the authenticity piece. The listening piece. The curiosity. When we do this, everything shifts not just for our children but for ourselves as we realize our point of view has always mattered too, and so have we as people.
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Tantrums are just a big 🚩 for us to slow down, evaluate our environment, consider our child’s perspective and needs— disconnection, punitive measures, joining the chaos ourselves and modeling erratic, out of control behavior for them to learn from all make the situation so much harder for everyone & can even perpetuate the very cause of the initial tantrum. I have a few YouTube videos all about tantrums that I recommend checking out & would love to know your thoughts in the comments!
Even if you’re not directly making these statements, our children are always looking for cues and communication from us regarding how hard or easy it is for their needs (especially the need for connection) to be met— What are you communicating? Whatever it is, your children might, like us adults, spend their whole life subconsciously pointing it out to themselves. Whether it serves them to or not… definitely whether it is true or not too. I recommend my mellow moments on my website if you need a hand regulating your emotions or re-writing your inner voice with my affirmations, ☁️ www.themellowmama.org
I took a poll once to see how we all viewed our parents and the average person said they wouldn’t describe their parents as “happy” people— which broke my heart & made me think… “would my children describe me that way one day when they’re grown up?” “what does playful, happiness, joy… look and feel and sound like in our daily lives?” I listed some things that help me that aren’t elaborate, or doing a goofy little TikTok dance with my best friend on a rare fun night out— being playful and lighthearted is a state of being that we can easily find ourselves slipping away from as exhausted, overstimulated parents. But it’s ironically what can really save us too and create the sense of peace, calm and presence that we’re really longing for. Would you describe your this way? (If not, remember that they were most likely your blueprint for how to live life & view it! Be mindful of how that impacts your state of being.)
