Stalling or … human? 🥹 Even if your child is taking a little more time than usual, or than what is convenient for you… getting curious about needs as opposed to implying shame/the notion that your child is trying to manipulate you is going to get you so much closer to collaboration and the best part of all, connection. Is this a new adjustment/mindset for you?
Even if you’re not directly making these statements, our children are always looking for cues and communication from us regarding how hard or easy it is for their needs (especially the need for connection) to be met— What are you communicating? Whatever it is, your children might, like us adults, spend their whole life subconsciously pointing it out to themselves. Whether it serves them to or not… definitely whether it is true or not too. I recommend my mellow moments on my website if you need a hand regulating your emotions or re-writing your inner voice with my affirmations, ☁️ www.themellowmama.org
Even if you’re not directly making these statements, our children are always looking for cues and communication from us regarding how hard or easy it is for their needs (especially the need for connection) to be met— What are you communicating? Whatever it is, your children might, like us adults, spend their whole life subconsciously pointing it out to themselves. Whether it serves them to or not… definitely whether it is true or not too. I recommend my mellow moments on my website if you need a hand regulating your emotions or re-writing your inner voice with my affirmations, ☁️ www.themellowmama.org
Even if you’re not directly making these statements, our children are always looking for cues and communication from us regarding how hard or easy it is for their needs (especially the need for connection) to be met— What are you communicating? Whatever it is, your children might, like us adults, spend their whole life subconsciously pointing it out to themselves. Whether it serves them to or not… definitely whether it is true or not too. I recommend my mellow moments on my website if you need a hand regulating your emotions or re-writing your inner voice with my affirmations, ☁️ www.themellowmama.org
Try to keep this in mind the next time you feel frustrated, worn out or just over whatever little bit more your child is requesting— Think of their sweet voice saying: “Thank you for the comfort” “Thank you for making me laugh” “Thank you for making my world brighter/more fun.” “Thank you for making me feel safe.” “Thank you for knowing my favorite things.” “Thank you for always being there.” “Thank you for listening.” “Thank you.”
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
Makin’ progress out there? 😌 Listen to my podcast episodes on the Ego and Pain body if you haven’t already!
