Guess who’s in town this week!? BD Wong @wongbd! Senior Editor @lancooks and BD Wong pair up to show us how to make Har Gow (Crystal Shrimp Dumplings). Full recipe at the link in our bio. #LunarNewYear
I promise this is actually not a “re-create the photo” post. Saturday Richert & I were in Palm Springs, hanging out by the pool in the sun, and I asked Richert to take some pics of me working on something new, a crochet project (which I’ll post about later). Today (Wednesday) I’m with my mom in San Francisco, just helping her organize things a little ’cause she’s moving. I’m finding all these photos I’ve never seen before and scanning them, and some of them are a bunch of pics of my family when I was a kid at Santa Cruz beach, where we went often and had lots of great times; great memories. And several of the pictures are of me working on a lanyard, in the sun; I was really into lanyards when I was a kid partly ’cause when I went to summer camp the crafts were the only thing that held my interest. I have always made things with my hands and my mind. My favorite projects are the mentally stimulating undertakings, particularly in fiber arts. I like dashing off simple things but I also looove making BIG projects that other people don’t have the skill or patience for, like @westknits patterns. When I’m knitting, or writing, I can go into a zone for hours and be shocked when I snap out of it and look at the clock. I found this picture of me at the beach and I went ‘wait a second…’ and eventually I remembered and pulled up the picture Richert took 4 days before. Isn’t that kinda amazing? Part of the parenting process is pondering how much of your child’s identity is determined by your parenting, and how much of it is Just There. Queer people have launched a revolutionary movement over time that urges the world to understand that we were Born This Way. I look at these two pictures side by side and I feel so many cool things, but I think the main one is this sense of peacefulness and reassurance, a confirmation that, over the half a century of time between these two photographs, I’ve understood more and more who I am at my core, and while I began the journey unsure of who and what I was, as many of us are, I now feel rather victorious, because clearly, all this time, I have been Spot On Right. I hope everyone can look at themselves then and now and feel that. B U
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO GRANT CHANG ONE OF MY FAVORITE PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD. I love ya @hipcatg boy have we had some good times on and off set. #grantrose @whoismrrobot
If you have the right recipe, Pork Dumplings can be as much fun to make as they are to eat – case in point: @wongbd and @lancooks making them together✨🥟 #LunarNewYear
Get gussied up and go somewhere fancy. Even if ya don’t have a #valentine, treat yourself special and give yourself all kinds of the love. Buy something that makes ya smile! Our Healing Economy can be your valentine! Happy Valentine’s Day, lovers. I love ya. I stan ya. There is good to be found everywhere in this crazy difficult world. I wish you a bucketload of it. I wish you peace from all your turmoil. I wish you something unexpected to make you smile when sh*t feels bad. I wish you peaceful deep breaths and blue sky and healing tears and your favorite song playing at just the right moment and chocolate or whipped cream or sexy strangers randomly paying for your coffee or baby versions of all animals and the presence of children who give you hope but surprisingly are not annoying. ❤️ Here is that picture y’all asked for of me giving myself a blow.
I don’t usually like spoilers but how can I resist. This was on the rack and they said do you wanna try that on and i said under no circumstances would I ever not wanna try that on. BIG DATA, a new play by #KateAtwell is in rehearsal and world premieres MidFebruary. And I’m kind of a pig in it. @actsanfrancisco #bigdata
Happy #lunarnewyear everybody! I’m wishing everybody a prosperous and healthy new year full of joy and extremely pleasant surprises. #gunghayfatchoy Let’s be happy and kind and share what we have. ❤️ tshirt by @sumofishdesign I LOVE IT. #goniners
Merry Christmas ya filthy animals.
@wongbd and the unfiltered Palm Springs sky. Not hot here though, boo. Taken with iPhone47
Congratulations @constancewu for being honored last night with the @apexforyouth Inspiration Award. #ApexForYouth is a dynamic non-profit org serving the myriad needs of our most precious, talented, valuable, vulnerable, and underserved AAPI youth, in many aspects of their day to day lives; everything from academic to counseling to mentorship to mental health to athletics. The work they’re doing is remarkable and very worthwhile, and how they’re bringing together the #AAPI community to pitch in to this mission is what Family’s all about. Tonight @constancewu exemplifies their spirit of communicating one’s challenges in hopes of it validating and helping others, as well as embodying this year’s theme: #DREAMOUTLOUD
The first day of school is not the same without the donuts. @bobsdonuts does not deliver, but it sure delivers. @actsanfrancisco #bigdata #bigwednesday #offtotheraces
This is a Legitimate Intellectual Event at a sophisticated Manhattan Venue at which I have the honor of facilitating a conversation with this incredible role model activist author and icon. It is a legitimate cultural and literary event, the kind that @symphonyspace is well known for…but something also tells me it’s going to be very, very *naughty*. Cause one of the two of us is going to make sure of it. A standard ticket will also get you a copy of George’s new book, which we are celebrating, and you can grab it on the Symphony Space dot org site. Have I whet your appetite? Good. Come thirsty. Oh, my.
“OK we’re having another #3GenerationMeal tonight.” #TacoMonday #MargaritaMonday
Finally we find out what BD really stands for. Deep in tech for this doozy of a play by @kadatt directed by @actsanfrancisco Artistic Director @pammac900 The World Premiere of a very funny and very powerful play-of-the-current-moment-we’re-living in. Loving everything about this experience. And what a handsome and stylish production. Get your buns in a seat, San Francisco! PERFORMANCES BEGIN THIS THURSDAY. cherry blossom embroidered sweatshirt by @kidoriman_lifestyle
My annual current Christmas mood! This is why we can’t have nice things. @whoismrrobot #ImDreamingOfAWhiteroseChristmas
In case you didn’t know you needed to see the @goodyearblimp gliding through a San Francisco rainbow. OK now you can go back to what you were doing. See? Somebody loves you. ❤️