We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
We’ve got some big news: We’re having another baby! This era has been all about transition, bending and shifting in order not to break. We left everything familiar to find something new—somewhere the grass really is greener because the sun shines more. We did it. We moved to a place where we can grow food year-round, where we can run barefoot, chase lizards, play in the ocean, and literally stop to smell the flowers. Somewhere we can continue to build our family. The very day we arrived at our new house, we made a baby. Really, it’s true. It’s funny how, when you commit to dreams and embrace changes, miracles unfold. Today’s a big day with a lot going on: – My children’s book ‘Olivette is You’ launches today! @randomhousekids – I’m on the wonderful podcast @notskinnybutnotfat which is live right now! – Also, my album ‘Born.’ drops this Friday, complete with a very special music video all about being pregnant.🔻🔺 Despite all this, seemingly none of that matters. Right now, this moment is a celebration of life at a time when life itself seems the most fragile. Bethany, thank you for creating the space to continue to grow our family. We are nothing without you. I am constantly in awe of your strength and willingness to expand. And Kilmer Dove, get ready girl—it’s big sister energy from here on out. I love you both. I love all of you. All of it is you. 📷 by @rocco_tortorella
NICO TORTORELLA IS ON THE POD AND SHARES HIS BIG NEWS!
I can’t believe it’s been 13 years since I got shot in the shvantz. @emmaroberts @nevecampbell #roryculkin #scream4
The lovely @nicotortorella talks about how everything changed since he became a dad. From moving from NEW YORK to a small fishing town in FLORIDA, to shifting his perspective on gender, and how he actually IS like Josh from Younger. Tune in!
OLIVETTE IS YOU – live reading with Kilmer Dove. Go get your copy today. Links in bio. 🔻🔺
Burberry, Dave Matthews, and the smallest Goodwill in America. And yes I said Goodwell not Goodwill, sue me. Neither had dressing rooms fyi. If you ever see me in a thrift store trying on clothes, say hiiiiiii ok?! love you.
Post mod, ottomans, and antibiotics. Let’s make these videos for the rest of our lives. Love you.
Crossing the Williamsburg Bridge, I am transported back to a pivotal time in my life. Transformational. It’s 2018 and I am nestled in my old South Williamsburg apartment, this bridge an energetic vortex just outside, where I ponder the depths of my decisions amidst swirling rumors about identity and existence. From my balcony, overlooking Manhattan’s grandeur, I wonder about the path my career would take if I had chosen silence over truth. Now, years later, standing on the same bridge, I listen to ‘He Said She Said’—a song I wrote about the greatest loves a boy could ever ask for, loves that blossomed right here, right in that apartment. Today, as a new human—a father, a husband, older and changed—I still find myself reflecting, but with new eyes. The world has shifted, and so have I. This song isn’t just a track; it’s a journey soaked in nostalgia, a bisexual ballad echoing memories. Like a ruby unearthed from the desert, it captures the essence of reminiscing and the lasting impressions of those who’ve danced through my life. Embracing every verse of my identity, I carry these everlasting diamonds into fatherhood. While the rest of the album focuses on my journey to parenthood, this moment of reflection is a needed pause to remember exactly how I got here.
Go listen to ‘Grapefruit’ right now. For real. Let’s get crazy and hit 100k streams before the full album ‘Born.’ drops 4.26. If we can do it, there’s a special surprise for y’all. You won’t be mad about it, promise. 🔻🔺. Video by @bronson.photo Edited by @ferpaaa LINKS IN BIO. go stream it now.
coming for you. @notskinnybutnotfat
“The ruby was from the desert. The bird that was free, he danced (the birds choreography thoughhhhhhh) I cried when I said I loved him. She cried when I held her hand. I gave her a song, she sang.” – ‘He Said She Said’ – Available now. Links in bio. Full album ‘Born.’ drops 4.26. I’m high off this shit.
‘He Said She Said’ – my second single – available everywhere now. go listen to it. this one’s special. i love you. i miss you. video by @rocco_tortorella – full video on YouTube. links in bio.
@nicotortorella is sharing some big news 👀 He talks the inspiration behind his next album exclusively on @notskinnybutnotfat out now 🔥
digging holes, bum bags, and Mr. Lagerfeld. thank you @karllagerfeld @hammittla @marchoneyewear @randcpmk
Behind the scenes vs. final images for @nicotortorella I love the gritty low-fi feeling ✨ Thanks @samcan_vin @coreyrivesvisualart @michaeldellapolla