Esther Perel Instagram – In a recent podcast episode titled “If He’s a High Value Man, What Am I?” I engage in a discussion with a woman to unpack the question, “why do I keep dating men who tear me down?”. She finds herself in a romantic relationship, tolerating behaviors she vowed she never would. Tune in to the full episode as I guide her through reflecting on her childhood and her parents’ relationships, exploring the correlation they have with her current relationship. Through this process, she learns the empowering truth that she doesn’t have to repeat the past in order to change it.