Ulrika Jonsson Instagram – 28yrs today since you left us, pappa. The thing is when someone dies, you have a finite number of pics and memories. It’s no drama today. No huge day of mourning but this day will forever be etched in my heart by that phone call I got which changed everything. It changed my thoughts on mortality; it changed the prospect of more memories with you and I learnt that grief is not a linear process. I miss the carnage you’d have created had you stayed longer. I miss how you would have driven me mad but would have made me laugh in one fell swoop. I think of you often – especially when I look down at the bow legs you kindly let me inherit. I miss your madness and I think you’d have missed my cooking. And my idiot dogs. You didn’t have a pot to piss in, really, but I’ve never known anyone to squeeze more out of life’s moments. And your ability to lose children in supermarkets. And forget to pick them up. And always be late. I miss you, you lump of lard. @miss.disan.77 @berit.olsson6