Who you are has nothing to do with what you naturally posses. The self is the conglomeration of choices you choose to identify and make sense of. What’s me to you is not me if I’m not saying it is. What I’ve done is not who I choose to be now. So who am I? What do I want to be? I can choose to continue on with old behaviors and traits that I don’t want to exude because who I am was who I am the second before I asked but, is that who I care to be? If you choose to grow into something else are you that same person who chose to avoid it while evolving?