Great sex doesn’t look like the movies, especially p*rn.. As a kid, I always thought that women kept their bras on during sex, because that’s how it always appeared in the 1990s movies that I grew up watching. And even today, there’s a recipe for how we see people being intimate on screen, they make out for a few seconds, and then supposedly there’s penetration, the man orgasms, and then they both fall back and they take a deep breath together. It never requires communication or consent. The movies make is seem like it always happens very easily and naturally and do not even get me started on porn (which is actually more unrealistic than those 90s movies). It’s actually smoke and mirrors and lots of rehearsals. It’s not real. Sex REQUIRES communication, consent, and creativity. What are some things you learned from the movies that are completely false? Comment below!
Include the ENTIRE 🌸
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Experiment with what feels good for YOU!
Practice makes perfect! Especially in the bedroom..
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It’s okay to ask for help when it comes to sex. If you are ready to put the work in, I encourage you to click the link in my bio to work with me.
It’s okay to ask for help when it comes to sex. If you are ready to put the work in, I encourage you to click the link in my bio to work with me.
It’s okay to ask for help when it comes to sex. If you are ready to put the work in, I encourage you to click the link in my bio to work with me.
It’s okay to ask for help when it comes to sex. If you are ready to put the work in, I encourage you to click the link in my bio to work with me.
It’s okay to ask for help when it comes to sex. If you are ready to put the work in, I encourage you to click the link in my bio to work with me.
Understand what you want..
Communication is 🔑
Do THIS next time you do solo play 😉
Thinking of spicing things up in the bedroom? 🌶️💡 Porn might give you some creative ideas, but remember, it’s not a playbook! Real connection comes from genuine communication and experimenting together. 🔍💑 What’s one new thing you’ve tried that brought you closer to your partner? Share your stories below and let’s inspire each other to keep the sparks flying! 🔥
Focusing on her needs and pacing can dramatically improve her sexual experience. Focus on pleasure NOT orgasm.
In this episode, Caitlin V. Neal, a sexologist and researcher, discusses her journey into sex education and coaching. She shares her experience working with individuals and couples to improve their sexual performance and pleasure. Caitlin also introduces the concept of the Erotic Blueprints, which categorizes different types of sexual preferences and desires. Additionally, she addresses the common myths and concerns surrounding premature ejaculation and provides insights on how to address this issue. In this conversation, Caitlin V and Dr. Kelly Casperson discuss various topics related to sexuality and relationships. They explore the impact of conditioning on premature ejaculation, the understanding of female squirting, navigating sexual expectations in heterosexual relationships, the invisibility of bisexual women, and the discrimination against non-monogamous relationships. #prematureejaculation #sextherapypodcast #newpodcastepisode #relationships #communicationskills #understandingeachother #betterrelationships
