Debbie Millman Instagram – Does this sound familiar? “You’re too fat and too thin; your breasts are too big and too small. Your body is wrong. If you’re not trying to change it, you’re lazy. If you’re satisfied with yourself as you are, you’re settling. And if you dare to actively like yourself, you’re a conceited bitch. In short, you are doing it wrong. Do it differently. No, that’s wrong too, try something else. Forever. This” You might think it’s from the recent movie Barbie, but it is actually a quote from @enagoski’s 2015 NYTimes best-selling book, “Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life.” The book enabled people to have a deeper understanding of why and how we have sex and how to feel less critical of and dissatisfied with our bodies. Now she’s back with a brilliant book titled “Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections,” and we talked all about it in my latest episode of Design Matters. Link to listen is here or in my bio. https://tinyurl.com/dmwemilynagoski