Esther Perel Instagram – In a brand new episode of Where Should We Begin? titled “I Think I Married the Wrong Person” I sit down with a couple grappling with familiar struggles. She gets angry when she feels devalued and put down. He intellectualizes and rationalizes instead of sympathizing. These four quotes offer a glimpse into the journey of this episode — tune in as I help them understand each other and break down the defensive barriers they’ve built.