Lynn Toler Instagram – Why? An easy question to ask but a tough one to answer correctly. Sometimes The Why is simply above your pay grade. Seeing how she lost HER bottle there was nothing for her to be happy about it. But what caught my attention was the look on her face. Something she’s not that familiar with took something that was very important to her and THEN when it gets taken the people who gave it to her laughed. Why? Sometimes a whole lot of different people will supply you with a Why steeped in their own perspective with a side of limited knowledge eaten at a table of the like minded who count repetition of a belief as a good substitute for real knowledge. And don’t hit them with something new they don’t know. They’ll punch it with their passion before they’ll listen to a word. Why? Sometimes the Why is all about which side you approach it from. Monkey thought process: “They brought food into my crib and gave it to the person least able to defend it.” Why? Beware folk with nice studio set ups and strong opinions. The Why for them blurs because context and nuance almost always gets pummeled in a fight with views and the money associated therewith. Views and money make strong and wrong a formidable adversary of complicated and correct. #emotionalintelligence Relevant #Tolerism I do not claim to possess the #truth but I do chase after it like it stole my car. I haven’t left the house in four days. #instacart is a recluse’s best friend and a penurious woman’s irritation. Being both, I have to manage them so I can maintain some modicum of balance.