🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
@dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: What’s the matter with Louisiana & what’s up with monkeypox? Then: living with a teenage underwear thief (whether you like it or not), telling the kids dad had an affair before they were born (whether dad likes it or not), and does being the third ever work out (for the third)? And joining me for the Magnum: @drevangoldstein is back to talk about his new book BUTT SERIOUSLY. I ask Dr. Goldstein why he decided to become a butt doctor, the mistakes newbies make, and we take calls from listeners with butt stuff concerns! Tons of Q&A for free at savage.love but you’ll have to subscribe to get Dr. Goldstein! Go to savage.love to become a sub now!
New Savage Lovecast! New Lovecast! In the intro: I finally saw Challengers — FINALLY — and I have thoughts! (Everyone is talking about the threesome that didn’t happen but no one is talking about the CBT that did?!?) Then: lesbian threesomes, age gap regrets, and jerking through grief. And then @rachelfeinstein_ joins me to talk about her Netflix comedy special “BIG GUY.” Rachel sticks around to give some sex advice and helps me settle that age-old question… who is the teabagger and who is the teabaggee? Listen now at savage.love!
New Savage Lovecast — tons of listener Q, lots of my A and then @rachelfeinstein_ joins me to talk about her new @netflix special “BIG GUY.” Then Rachel helps me settle the debate about teabagging: who’s doing the bagging exactly? Listen now at savage.love!
New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: the Pope used an Italian anti-gay slur. Can Dan pronounce it? Should he even try? Then tons of listener calls! And joining Dan on the Magnum: comedian and actor Jared Goldstein! Dan and Jared talk about wet dreams, straight guys and the shrines they build to Timothée Chalamet, and why so many gay men have a problem with long haired boys. Then Dan and Jared play the shortest game of “Never Have I Ever” ever! Listen now at savage.love or wherever you get your podcasts!
New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: the Pope used an anti-gay Italian slur. Can Dan pronounce it? (No, he cannot.) Then: a caller gets terrible news about her ex and another caller gets even worse news about her health. And joining Dan on the Magnum: comedian and actor Jared Goldstein! We talk about the plight of long-haired gays, kinky sex dreams, and why a straight guy might have a shrine to Timothee Chalamet in his apartment. Then we play the shortest ever game of “Never Have I Ever” ever! Listen now at savage.love or wherever you get your podcasts!
You can now Stream Part 1 of HUMP 2024 on demand! Did we not make a tour stop in your city? Do you have friends that just need to see these films? Do you yourself want to see it again? Head over to humpfilmfest.com to grab your streaming pass.
New Sex & Politics for Savage Lovecast Magnum Subs: @dianaadamsesq from the @chosenfamilylawcenter joins me to talk about the work she does to protect LGBT families, polyamorous people, and couples and throuples and friends forming new kinds of families. Subscribe and listen now at savage.love!
