Elizabeth Smart Instagram – 🎄 Consent During the Holidays: Some Quick Thoughts 🎁 1. Respect boundaries: Before those festive hugs and kisses, ask if it’s cool—especially with kids! And never ever kiss a babies’ face (germ alert!) and don’t take them from mom’s arms unless she offers. 2. Snap and Share Mindfully: Check before you click! Some folks aren’t keen on pics, or are okay with them but don’t want them posted online. Respect their choice—no fuss needed! 3. Chat Considerately: Skip politics, religion and money conversations. Chat instead about the best Great British Baking Show Challenge (Devonshire Splits obviously) or why dogs rule! 4. Gifts = No Strings Attached: Presents aren’t for manipulation. Keep them genuine and free from hidden agendas. 5. Safe Spaces Matter: parents really appreciate having a quiet spot to help calm their littles after a meltdown. Also, a room where a holiday movie marathon is going and no conversations are necessary is so nice. 6. Food Choices Matter Too: Ask guests if they have allergies or follow a specific diet. Try for an inclusive menu, or ask them to contribute a dish. They will be grateful for your transparency and more than likely happy to bring a dish to share! 7. Exit Plans: Partners and kids should have a clear way to communicate discreetly that they feel overwhelmed or uneasy. Have a secret phrase like “candy cane” to make a graceful exit if needed. Let’s make this season merry with mutual respect and understanding! #WholeheartedConsent #HolidayConsent #RespectfulCelebrations