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Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.
Dan Savage Instagram - Had a great conversation with @dansavage on the The Percent Happier podcast dropping today. Go to my link in bio to check out the full episode. #relationships
Dan Savage Instagram - A week off the grid. What did I miss?
Dan Savage Instagram -
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Some good news.
Dan Savage Instagram - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Dan Savage Instagram - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Dan Savage Instagram - Leave a 👍 in the comments if you believe in the four magic words. Go to my link in bio to check out the full conversation with @dansavage on the Ten Percent Happier podcast.
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Dan Savage Instagram - They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?
Dan Savage Instagram - The Tech-Savvy, At-Risk Youth talked me into this.
Dan Savage Instagram - Happy birthday to him (left).
Dan Savage Instagram - Happy birthday to him (left).
Dan Savage Instagram - Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.” Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.” Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”
Dan Savage Instagram - Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest
Dan Savage Instagram - Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Let me know in the comments what you think of the concept of getting back on the monogamy wagon when someone falls off. Would that work for you? And thank you again to #DanSavage for coming on the Ten Percent Happier podcast. To hear our full conversation check out my link in bio. #relationship #partner #love
Dan Savage Instagram - Proof of Life at #mal2024
Dan Savage Instagram - From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - Great moments in tolyamory.
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Dan Savage Instagram - American Psycho.
Dan Savage Instagram - The grill master.
Dan Savage Instagram -
Dan Savage Instagram -
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Dan Savage Instagram - America’s new tourism campaign.
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage on the meaning of s!ut. Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, podcaster, and author. He’s most likely inadvertently or deliberately influenced the way you think about s3x and relationships. In Savage Love fashion, we start the conversation by answering listener questions, then discuss how being gay prepared him for being a s3x advice columnist, why he joined a catholic seminary high school, and how his parents reacted when he first came out. We then discuss what the 80s were like as a newly out gay man, how he came up with the idea for Savage Love, and go over some of the best pieces of his advice – f*ck first and GGG. After, Dan walks us through how he met his husband, why they finally decided to get married, and how their relationship has evolved over decades. To finish, he reads an excerpt about his mother from American Savage and I ask him *the* pivotal question – what does a s!ut mean to him. 🩷🩷🩷 LISTEN TO S!UT WHEREVER YOU POD LINK IN BIO 🩷🩷🩷
Dan Savage Instagram - Missing Terry.
Dan Savage Instagram - Let’s talk about sex ❤️‍🔥 What makes sex good, and what makes it feel unsatisfying or even shameful? How do we nurture our need for physical and emotional connection, whether that’s for one night or a lifetime? And perhaps most importantly, how can we get more comfortable simply talking about it? Hear from sexpert @dansavage as he unpacks the complicated landscape of sex in our modern world. Link in bio!
Dan Savage Instagram - Tune into Problem Solved for my conversation with @dansavage Together, we tackle listener questions on cheating, polyamory anxiety, and the expectation of celebrities to uphold moral standards. We talk about the questions we wish people would ask us and the questions we hope we never have to hear again. Plus, Dan explains why he can’t check his email on planes. #mentalhealth #therapy #dating #datingadvice #poly
Dan Savage Instagram - Ring light gets in your eyes.
Dan Savage Instagram - Still surprised by this.
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage Instagram - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Dan Savage Instagram - My guest on this week’s Magnum Savage Lovecast: the one and only @therapyjeff! We talk about Jeff’s new book — BIG DATING ENERGY — and take some calls together on scheduling sex, dating apps, heartbreak, dating and mating under capitalism, and more! It’s a great convo! Subscribe and listen now at savage.love!
Dan Savage Instagram - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Dan Savage Instagram - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Dan Savage Instagram - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Dan Savage Instagram - New Savage Lovecast out now — and joining me on the Magnum: comedian @justhopinalong comes on the show to talk about why she went #boysober!
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Dan Savage Instagram - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Dan Savage Instagram - Damona Hoffman from the Dates & Mates podcast joins me on the Savage Lovecast to talk about her new book “F the Fairy Tale!”
Dan Savage Instagram - Anybody know where I can get my hands on an Expo 86 mug? It’s important. #vancouver #expo86
Dan Savage Instagram - New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: Are the organizers of the Paris Olympics really trying to prevent the athletes from having sex? (Spoiler: No, they’re not!) Then: a woman who wants to explore her dominant side wonders whether there are any men out there who would be into that. (Must be a new listener!) Advice for a straight man whose partner won’t let him go down on her and some thoughts for a couple who wanna doooooo it in every one of our National Parks. And NYT bestselling authors @lyzlenz come on the show to talk about her new book This American Ex-Wife! Get the Lovecast wherever you get your podcasts or listen (and subscribe!) at savage.love!
Dan Savage Instagram - New Sex & Politics up now with @timmillergram — a 4/20 special! We agreed months ago to meet up for a 4/20 show high and only one of us honored that sacred vow. Can you figure out who it was?
Dan Savage Instagram - New Sex & Politics out now for Savage Lovecast subs!
Dan Savage Instagram - I believe the children are our future.
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage Instagram - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Dan Savage - 14.8K Likes - There’s a lot gay men will take lying down. But raids on gay bars in 2024 in Seattle isn’t something we are gonna take.

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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
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8.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Some good news.
Likes : 8322Dan Savage - 8K Likes - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.

8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Likes : 7957Dan Savage - 8K Likes - Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.

8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Picturing the adorable little PBJ sandwich that was in that adorable little sandwich bag and the adorable little mouse whose adorable mouse mom packed it for him before mouse school.
Likes : 7957Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.5K Likes - More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)

7.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : More on the raids in Seattle on gay bars this weekend. The last time the LCB took photos of gay men being “lewd” in a bar in Seattle — much more than a decade ago — the photos, which were ultimately made public, were full body shots that included faces. Men I spoke to who were in the bar on the night of the raid told me they immediately left when they realized what was happening and that they do not feel safe coming back to the bar for fear the LCB will return. (Sorry about the dropped words in the second tile! That paragraph should read: “Instead, according to reports from multiple men at the bar during the raid, LCB officers moved through the Eagle photographing men engaged in what LCB officers viewed as “lewd” conduct: men whose nipples were visible…”)
Likes : 7524Dan Savage - 7.2K Likes - Leave a 👍 in the comments if you believe in the four magic words. Go to my link in bio to check out the full conversation with @dansavage on the Ten Percent Happier podcast.

7.2K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Leave a 👍 in the comments if you believe in the four magic words. Go to my link in bio to check out the full conversation with @dansavage on the Ten Percent Happier podcast.
Likes : 7170Dan Savage - 6.7K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)

6.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Likes : 6687Dan Savage - 6.7K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)

6.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both — make both you and your boyfriend your favorite cakes on your birthdays. (To clarify: I’m the guy who can do both in this instance — make both those cake for both those guys. So, yes, this is a recommendation to get me. Not literally me, though, as I’m already got. Which is not say I can’t be had — I can be had — I just can’t be kept.)
Likes : 6687Dan Savage - 6.4K Likes - They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?

6.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : They look like they’re plotting something, right? It’s not just me?
Likes : 6436Dan Savage - 6K Likes - The Tech-Savvy, At-Risk Youth talked me into this.

6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : The Tech-Savvy, At-Risk Youth talked me into this.
Likes : 5966Dan Savage - 5.9K Likes - Happy birthday to him (left).

5.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Happy birthday to him (left).
Likes : 5930Dan Savage - 5.9K Likes - Happy birthday to him (left).

5.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Happy birthday to him (left).
Likes : 5930Dan Savage - 5.7K Likes - Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.” Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.” Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”

5.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Me: “We should maybe declutter the house a little.” Terry: “Ok, we can start by throwing out the hundreds of useless keycards you’ve saved from every hotel you’ve been to over the last 15 years.” Me: “Don’t touch them — you’ll get them out of order. Just, never mind.”
Likes : 5728Dan Savage - 5.3K Likes - Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest

5.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Making some uncharacteristically bold fashion choices today. @humpfimfest
Likes : 5314Dan Savage - 3.5K Likes - Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)

3.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Get yourself a guy who can do both. (Sleep with your husband and make delicious cocktails.)
Likes : 3468Dan Savage - 3.4K Likes - Let me know in the comments what you think of the concept of getting back on the monogamy wagon when someone falls off. Would that work for you? And thank you again to #DanSavage for coming on the Ten Percent Happier podcast. To hear our full conversation check out my link in bio. #relationship #partner #love

3.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Let me know in the comments what you think of the concept of getting back on the monogamy wagon when someone falls off. Would that work for you? And thank you again to #DanSavage for coming on the Ten Percent Happier podcast. To hear our full conversation check out my link in bio. #relationship #partner #love
Likes : 3388Dan Savage - 2.9K Likes - Proof of Life at #mal2024

2.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Proof of Life at #mal2024
Likes : 2902Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : From one inexpensive thing I might misplace that never had to be charged to three insanely expensive things I will definitely misplace all of which have to be charged. Progress! (I held out as long as I could but it felt like Apple was intentionally making the corded earbuds flimsier or something — remember the ads where people were dancing wildly with their corded earbuds in? Yeah, last few years my corded earbuds would turn off whatever I was listening to if I took three steps. So, I made the switch — under duress. And because the mean girls at the gym were making fun of me.)
Likes : 2845Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767Dan Savage - 2.8K Likes - Great moments in tolyamory.

2.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great moments in tolyamory.
Likes : 2767Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.7K Likes - 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn

2.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : 🤔 Some reflections on #tolyamory… …what do YOU think of this new term? Check out @dansavage’s IG page or the Savage Lovecast Episode 900 for more info on all things toly! Thank you Dan for keeping us on our toes with your neologisms! 🔥 #compersion #cnm #enm #consensualnonmonogamy #ethicallynonmonogamous #ethicalnonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #mudita #swinging #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #sexatdawn
Likes : 2682Dan Savage - 2.5K Likes - American Psycho.

2.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : American Psycho.
Likes : 2505Dan Savage - 2.5K Likes - The grill master.

2.5K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : The grill master.
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2.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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2.3K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

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Likes : 2273Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont. When he’s the toly one…
Likes : 2094Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - America’s new tourism campaign.

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : America’s new tourism campaign.
Likes : 2070Dan Savage - 2.1K Likes - @dansavage on the meaning of s!ut. Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, podcaster, and author. He’s most likely inadvertently or deliberately influenced the way you think about s3x and relationships. In Savage Love fashion, we start the conversation by answering listener questions, then discuss how being gay prepared him for being a s3x advice columnist, why he joined a catholic seminary high school, and how his parents reacted when he first came out. We then discuss what the 80s were like as a newly out gay man, how he came up with the idea for Savage Love, and go over some of the best pieces of his advice – f*ck first and GGG. After, Dan walks us through how he met his husband, why they finally decided to get married, and how their relationship has evolved over decades. To finish, he reads an excerpt about his mother from American Savage and I ask him *the* pivotal question – what does a s!ut mean to him. 🩷🩷🩷 LISTEN TO S!UT WHEREVER YOU POD LINK IN BIO 🩷🩷🩷

2.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage on the meaning of s!ut. Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, podcaster, and author. He’s most likely inadvertently or deliberately influenced the way you think about s3x and relationships. In Savage Love fashion, we start the conversation by answering listener questions, then discuss how being gay prepared him for being a s3x advice columnist, why he joined a catholic seminary high school, and how his parents reacted when he first came out. We then discuss what the 80s were like as a newly out gay man, how he came up with the idea for Savage Love, and go over some of the best pieces of his advice – f*ck first and GGG. After, Dan walks us through how he met his husband, why they finally decided to get married, and how their relationship has evolved over decades. To finish, he reads an excerpt about his mother from American Savage and I ask him *the* pivotal question – what does a s!ut mean to him. 🩷🩷🩷 LISTEN TO S!UT WHEREVER YOU POD LINK IN BIO 🩷🩷🩷
Likes : 2064Dan Savage - 1.9K Likes - Missing Terry.

1.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Missing Terry.
Likes : 1917Dan Savage - 1.8K Likes - Let’s talk about sex ❤️‍🔥 What makes sex good, and what makes it feel unsatisfying or even shameful? How do we nurture our need for physical and emotional connection, whether that’s for one night or a lifetime? And perhaps most importantly, how can we get more comfortable simply talking about it? Hear from sexpert @dansavage as he unpacks the complicated landscape of sex in our modern world. Link in bio!

1.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Let’s talk about sex ❤️‍🔥 What makes sex good, and what makes it feel unsatisfying or even shameful? How do we nurture our need for physical and emotional connection, whether that’s for one night or a lifetime? And perhaps most importantly, how can we get more comfortable simply talking about it? Hear from sexpert @dansavage as he unpacks the complicated landscape of sex in our modern world. Link in bio!
Likes : 1849Dan Savage - 1.8K Likes - Tune into Problem Solved for my conversation with @dansavage Together, we tackle listener questions on cheating, polyamory anxiety, and the expectation of celebrities to uphold moral standards. We talk about the questions we wish people would ask us and the questions we hope we never have to hear again. Plus, Dan explains why he can’t check his email on planes. #mentalhealth #therapy #dating #datingadvice #poly

1.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Tune into Problem Solved for my conversation with @dansavage Together, we tackle listener questions on cheating, polyamory anxiety, and the expectation of celebrities to uphold moral standards. We talk about the questions we wish people would ask us and the questions we hope we never have to hear again. Plus, Dan explains why he can’t check his email on planes. #mentalhealth #therapy #dating #datingadvice #poly
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1.8K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Ring light gets in your eyes.
Likes : 1786Dan Savage - 1.7K Likes - Still surprised by this.

1.7K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Still surprised by this.
Likes : 1682Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Likes : 1572Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Likes : 1572Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Likes : 1572Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Likes : 1572Dan Savage - 1.6K Likes - I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and...the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove

1.6K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I recently had the privilege of welcoming the legendary 𝐃𝐀𝐍 𝐒𝐀𝐕𝐀𝐆𝐄 to speak to over 1,200 of my students in my Human Sexuality class here in Seattle at the University of Washington. 🥳🎉 As an author and activist, Dan has significantly shaped the conversation around modern sex and love. Here were some of his most provocative take-aways! 😉🔥 1️⃣ 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐍𝐨𝐧-𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐦𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐅: It’s time to retire the stale narrative that consensual non-monogamy oppresses women, who now often surpass men in their education and careers. Traditional heteronormative power differentials are withering away, inviting a shift toward more open and equitable relationships. As a result, women nowadays are more likely to feel empowered in the choice to open their relationship and often are the ones who have an easier time finding more casual, peripheral partners. 2️⃣ 𝐈𝐬 “𝐓𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲” 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐏𝐨𝐥𝐲𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐲? We all know Dan loves a good neologism (i.e. did you know he invented “monogamish” and “pegging?”) Have you heard of his latest term though, “Tolyamory?” Tolyamory, Dan argues, is the most common type of polyamory, and describes an otherwise monogamous relationship where metamours are tolerated (hence the “toly”) but never openly discussed. Need examples? Think the Clintons, FDR and Eleanor Roosevelt, Daphne and Cameron from Season Two of “White Lotus,” and…the French. Perhaps we need to stop judging unspoken arrangements and accept that sometimes it works better when everything’s not “out in the open.” 3️⃣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐂𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞: Dan shared a golden rule for any short-term relationship including casual sex: the Campsite Rule. The principle is simple yet profound: Always do your best to leave people in a better shape than you found them, just as you would a campsite. It’s a reminder of the care and respect we owe each other, regardless of the duration of our relationships, no matter how ephemeral. Thank you, Dan, for an unforgettable and transformative experience! 🙏💖 #UniversityofWashington #UWSeattle #WashingtonHuskies #UWHuskies #DanSavage #SavageLove
Likes : 1572Dan Savage - 1.4K Likes - My guest on this week’s Magnum Savage Lovecast: the one and only @therapyjeff! We talk about Jeff’s new book — BIG DATING ENERGY — and take some calls together on scheduling sex, dating apps, heartbreak, dating and mating under capitalism, and more! It’s a great convo! Subscribe and listen now at savage.love!

1.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : My guest on this week’s Magnum Savage Lovecast: the one and only @therapyjeff! We talk about Jeff’s new book — BIG DATING ENERGY — and take some calls together on scheduling sex, dating apps, heartbreak, dating and mating under capitalism, and more! It’s a great convo! Subscribe and listen now at savage.love!
Likes : 1399Dan Savage - 1.4K Likes - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.

1.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Likes : 1372Dan Savage - 1.4K Likes - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.

1.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Likes : 1372Dan Savage - 1.4K Likes - Nice to see Mr. Benis again.

1.4K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Nice to see Mr. Benis again.
Likes : 1372Dan Savage - 1.1K Likes - New Savage Lovecast out now — and joining me on the Magnum: comedian @justhopinalong comes on the show to talk about why she went #boysober!

1.1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : New Savage Lovecast out now — and joining me on the Magnum: comedian @justhopinalong comes on the show to talk about why she went #boysober!
Likes : 1056Dan Savage - 1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly

1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Likes : 1039Dan Savage - 1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly

1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Likes : 1039Dan Savage - 1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly

1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Likes : 1039Dan Savage - 1K Likes - Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly

1K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Great Moments in Tolyamory, Cont., sitting US presidents edition. #tolyamory #tolyamorous #toly
Likes : 1039Dan Savage - 0.9K Likes - Damona Hoffman from the Dates & Mates podcast joins me on the Savage Lovecast to talk about her new book “F the Fairy Tale!”

0.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Damona Hoffman from the Dates & Mates podcast joins me on the Savage Lovecast to talk about her new book “F the Fairy Tale!”
Likes : 945Dan Savage - 0.9K Likes - Anybody know where I can get my hands on an Expo 86 mug? It’s important. #vancouver #expo86

0.9K Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : Anybody know where I can get my hands on an Expo 86 mug? It’s important. #vancouver #expo86
Likes : 921Dan Savage - 869 Likes - New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: Are the organizers of the Paris Olympics really trying to prevent the athletes from having sex? (Spoiler: No, they’re not!) Then: a woman who wants to explore her dominant side wonders whether there are any men out there who would be into that. (Must be a new listener!) Advice for a straight man whose partner won’t let him go down on her and some thoughts for a couple who wanna doooooo it in every one of our National Parks. And NYT bestselling authors @lyzlenz come on the show to talk about her new book This American Ex-Wife! Get the Lovecast wherever you get your podcasts or listen (and subscribe!) at savage.love!

869 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : New Savage Lovecast! In the intro: Are the organizers of the Paris Olympics really trying to prevent the athletes from having sex? (Spoiler: No, they’re not!) Then: a woman who wants to explore her dominant side wonders whether there are any men out there who would be into that. (Must be a new listener!) Advice for a straight man whose partner won’t let him go down on her and some thoughts for a couple who wanna doooooo it in every one of our National Parks. And NYT bestselling authors @lyzlenz come on the show to talk about her new book This American Ex-Wife! Get the Lovecast wherever you get your podcasts or listen (and subscribe!) at savage.love!
Likes : 869Dan Savage - 861 Likes - New Sex & Politics up now with @timmillergram — a 4/20 special! We agreed months ago to meet up for a 4/20 show high and only one of us honored that sacred vow. Can you figure out who it was?

861 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : New Sex & Politics up now with @timmillergram — a 4/20 special! We agreed months ago to meet up for a 4/20 show high and only one of us honored that sacred vow. Can you figure out who it was?
Likes : 861Dan Savage - 841 Likes - New Sex & Politics out now for Savage Lovecast subs!

841 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : New Sex & Politics out now for Savage Lovecast subs!
Likes : 841Dan Savage - 839 Likes - I believe the children are our future.

839 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : I believe the children are our future.
Likes : 839Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
Likes : 833Dan Savage - 833 Likes - @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships

833 Likes – Dan Savage Instagram

Caption : @dansavage recently coined a new word—#tolyamory—to describe a form of non-monogamy that’s entered when people “tolerate,” “put up with,” and “turn a blind eye to” their partner’s extra-curricular sexual activity, but don’t openly negotiate or endorse it. @huffpost reached out to me @love_insight_dating and Leanne Yau @polyphiliablog for comments. Check out the article for details! 💫 Please note that discussing this is not a *recommendation* for tolyamorous relationships. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But, it’s better to discuss what exists than to deny it. Tolyamory is a VERY common phenomenon, born from a society that attempts—unsuccessfully, of course—to enforce monogamy as a one-size-fits-all model. Also considering the impact of vastly unequal power dynamics, especially between people of different genders and socio-economic statuses, many people end up in situations where they feel like they have no “good”—or better—option. My hope is that this new media coverage of #tolyamory will bring more attention to the failures of mononormativity and the need for broader acceptance and normalization of #ethicallynonmonogamous ways of relating—so that we can all create more honest, transparent, and healthy intimate relationships! 😍 Thank you @kelseyborresen for bringing attention to this, and @dansavage for your awesome neologisms ❤️ @huffpostlife @polyphiliablog @kelseyborresen #enm #cnm #polyamorous #polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #consensualnonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy #solopoly #compersion #consciousrelationships
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