The idea that “if we just give enough and make ourselves indispensable to someone, they will eventually come to value us” is SO dangerous. Truth is, that’s not what makes someone value us or decide to give more in romantic relationships. In fact, it can sometimes have the opposite effect and tank our value in someone’s eyes instead. My free “Dating With Results” Masterclass tackles this subject, and if you haven’t watched it, then you should do so today. Comment VALUE or head over to DatingWithResults.com to start watching now. ❤️
After a painful breakup with a narcissist we are often tempted to take them back… Our favorite relationship coach @thematthewhussey says you MUST remember this. Watch the full episode on The Dr. Ramani Network! Link in Bio
I started making YouTube videos at around 20 years old (if you swipe left you’ll see THAT me). I literally never knew that anyone would watch them, it was just a wild punt. And yet here we are, 3 million subscribers later. It’s hard to get my head around that number of people. It still makes my day when a single person comes up to me in the street and tells me how much my work has impacted their growth in life, so to imagine 3 million is mind blowing.
I don’t think I ever thought I’d still be making videos every week at 36 years old, as a married man living in Los Angeles, while living a completely different life than the me that was filming on park benches in London on a flip cam because I had nowhere else to shoot.
I truly believe there to be something special about this particular community. Me and Audrey were doing a live yesterday for our Love Life Club members, and when the cameras turned off, she looked at me and said: “I just love our community, they are such lovely people”. And it’s true, you are. You are intelligent, thoughtful, and kind people who just want to find love and happiness, and have shown me such love and generosity along the way as I have tried to find those things for myself.
Thank you for all the ways you have supported me, for the ways you have believed in me, and for the ways you have put your trust in me over the years, especially with some of the most sensitive parts of your lives and your hearts. I love our relationship, and I’m excited about all the ways we are going to grow together for many, many years to come.
I promise you I’ll always keep growing, and I’m trying to be braver everyday in showing you my own journey, both the highs and the lows. I believe relationships are built through connecting over impressing each other. I don’t want to impress you, I want to connect with you, and I can only do that if I present myself to you as I really am. I hope I create an environment where you feel safe to do the same with me.
Leave me a comment just to let me know you’re out there and you’re watching, it means so very much to me to read them.
I started making YouTube videos at around 20 years old (if you swipe left you’ll see THAT me). I literally never knew that anyone would watch them, it was just a wild punt. And yet here we are, 3 million subscribers later. It’s hard to get my head around that number of people. It still makes my day when a single person comes up to me in the street and tells me how much my work has impacted their growth in life, so to imagine 3 million is mind blowing.
I don’t think I ever thought I’d still be making videos every week at 36 years old, as a married man living in Los Angeles, while living a completely different life than the me that was filming on park benches in London on a flip cam because I had nowhere else to shoot.
I truly believe there to be something special about this particular community. Me and Audrey were doing a live yesterday for our Love Life Club members, and when the cameras turned off, she looked at me and said: “I just love our community, they are such lovely people”. And it’s true, you are. You are intelligent, thoughtful, and kind people who just want to find love and happiness, and have shown me such love and generosity along the way as I have tried to find those things for myself.
Thank you for all the ways you have supported me, for the ways you have believed in me, and for the ways you have put your trust in me over the years, especially with some of the most sensitive parts of your lives and your hearts. I love our relationship, and I’m excited about all the ways we are going to grow together for many, many years to come.
I promise you I’ll always keep growing, and I’m trying to be braver everyday in showing you my own journey, both the highs and the lows. I believe relationships are built through connecting over impressing each other. I don’t want to impress you, I want to connect with you, and I can only do that if I present myself to you as I really am. I hope I create an environment where you feel safe to do the same with me.
Leave me a comment just to let me know you’re out there and you’re watching, it means so very much to me to read them.
Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s new video, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!
When we stop giving external sources the power to decide for us what is valuable, and start making decisions based on what truly brings us happiness, we can shift our focus away from superficial traits that unconsciously attract us to emotionally unavailable people, and instead, we can evaluate someone’s value based on their ability to enhance and bring joy to our lives.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you agree. This excerpt was taken from one of my recent newsletters. Every Friday, I send you a brand-new one I’ve written—straight to your inbox. If you want to sign up totally free, head over to The3Relationships.com (or tap the link in my bio). Enjoy! P.S. If you’ve been enjoying my newsletter each week, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.
Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone. And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety. If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss my latest podcast episode, where @theaudreyhussey and I discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news. Head over to my YouTube channel to start watching, and leave me a comment when you do!
We often think confidence comes from doing something extraordinary. However, it’s also about recognizing what we’ve already accomplished. Reflect on all you’ve overcome to be where you are today—it’s incredible. When I remind myself to look back at my journey, I think, “Wow, if I can overcome that, what else am I capable of?” It’s a powerful realization. Practicing self-compassion is an essential part of this process. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your unique journey and achievements, because no two lives are the same, and everyone’s battles are different. By truly recognizing your own struggles and victories, you can foster a deeper sense of self-worth. If this speaks to you and you want a proven process to transform your relationship with yourself at the deepest level, my Retreat is just around the corner this September 9-15 in Florida. Head over to MHRetreat.com to learn more about securing one of the last remaining spots.
⬅️ SWIPE LEFT for the before and after 😃🧡! This is Taylor . . .
She came to an event I did with @cosmopolitan in a hotel in New York nearly 10 years ago back when I had a column in the magazine!! The other morning she saw me working out in LA and came over to tell me, and then pulled up this picture of the two of us from that event! Insane.
The second picture is us two today. She now gives advice on her account, so give her a follow people @sparklequeenla
I love bumping into you guys all over the world, and it’s extra special when we have history together. We have these beautiful moments in time together, then I go away and grow up, you go away and grow up, and we compare notes. It’s amazing. Let’s keep growing together over a lifetime all! Love you guys xxx
And thank you @sparklequeenla for making this special moment with me! Made my day. 🧡💛❤️
The highlight of the last few days in Nairobi was visiting @sheldricktrust and the baby elephants they have rescued. The baby elephants were orphans, their mums had either been poached, had died, or they had gotten lost and were separated from their tribes. The handlers take care of them from morning to night, they even sleep with them every night in their individual rooms so they don’t get heart sick 🥹💔 Every morning the baby elephants are reunited and roam around all day. They told us they get so happy and excited when they see each other which is the just sweetest detail. We adopted Mzinga, who was only 1 month old when she was found all alone in Tsavo National Park. In a few years she will be released back out into the wild 🤍 if you want to adopt a baby elephant you can do so on their website 🐘 Thank you to everyone at Sheldrick Wildlife Trust for allowing us to spend time with your babies. This was a rare privilege we will never forget.
Love Life is #3 on the New York Times bestseller list this week. WE did this. So many of you purchased the book and supported me and my team in our mission to get the word out. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Because of you, this book is on people’s radars in a way I never could have achieved on my own. You’ve been posting stories about the book. You’ve been leaving reviews on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Audible, and Goodreads . . . and they are stunning. I’m reading all of them and I can’t tell you how encouraging they are to me. They have already made this mission feel so worthwhile. This has been an attempt over the last 4.5 years to condense my life’s work (17 years’ worth) into a 16-chapter book. It has been so very taxing, but the impact it’s already making is bringing me so much joy. Thank you again, everyone. This is an unforgettable life moment. The “noise” you have made with your support has helped me make waves with this book, which is going to help it reach the people who need the message of Love Life the most. We are changing lives together by spreading the word. Please keep passing the book around to anyone you know who needs it. Sending you all so much love today! (P.S. If you haven’t gotten the book, you still have time to grab one and register for the event! Just type “LOVELIFE” below and I’ll send you a link.)
Love Life is #3 on the New York Times bestseller list this week. WE did this. So many of you purchased the book and supported me and my team in our mission to get the word out. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Because of you, this book is on people’s radars in a way I never could have achieved on my own. You’ve been posting stories about the book. You’ve been leaving reviews on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Audible, and Goodreads . . . and they are stunning. I’m reading all of them and I can’t tell you how encouraging they are to me. They have already made this mission feel so worthwhile. This has been an attempt over the last 4.5 years to condense my life’s work (17 years’ worth) into a 16-chapter book. It has been so very taxing, but the impact it’s already making is bringing me so much joy. Thank you again, everyone. This is an unforgettable life moment. The “noise” you have made with your support has helped me make waves with this book, which is going to help it reach the people who need the message of Love Life the most. We are changing lives together by spreading the word. Please keep passing the book around to anyone you know who needs it. Sending you all so much love today! (P.S. If you haven’t gotten the book, you still have time to grab one and register for the event! Just type “LOVELIFE” below and I’ll send you a link.)
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Heartbreak doesn’t care if you knew someone for 3 months or 30 years. It hits us involuntarily and then monopolises our focus and takes us out of our life.
But there is real wisdom out there on how to process our heartbreak. You can feel better, and rediscover your happiness sooner with the right guidance.
If you want to see the full conversation with David Kessler, ( @iamdavidkessler ), as well as the honest conversations I had with 7 other experts in my Happiness after Heartbreak series, comment “EXPERT” below or head over to HeartbreakSeries.com for all the details on how you can start watching now.
This series is completely FREE for anyone who preorders a copy of my new book Love Life, but only this month. (I truly hope you take advantage of this. I did some profound healing of my own just by being part of these conversations, and I’m certain the same will be true for you.)
Do you have any destructive habits you’re currently struggling to break? The truth is, we all have something about ourselves we struggle to change. I did a whole podcast episode on this, which I think you’re going to enjoy. Head over to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your podcasts to check out the full episode. In the comments, let me know if you found it useful ❤️
Do you repeat the same patterns in love?
We often find ourselves not only choosing the same type of people for relationships, but we also go through the same cycle of emotions. That’s not a coincidence.
We trauma bond when we have certain behavioral patterns we’re repeating with the people we love. Until we recognize and heal from them, we can find ourselves in the same trap of anxiety over and over again.
Only one hour left to sign up for my FREE live seminar “The Love Life Reset” happening TODAY, March 19. Don’t miss this chance (and some free gifts!). Visit lovelifetraining.com to register.
