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Rain Dove Dubilewski Instagram - Love is a complicated thing. Many parents are terrified of what it actually means. They know that they must make a safe space for their children- but also they worry that if they do not provide a basic sense of guidance for them that they may stray off a stable path towards a destination full of bumps and brambles. It’s a very valid feeling. Almost every parent who is oppositional to LGBTQPIA identities tells me the same thing “Love is not complicity” or “Love is not letting my kid do whatever they want”. While it’s true- parenting comes with the hard task of setting boundaries as well as opening possibilities- one thing parents often forget is that while they are guardians of their kids, they are not the masters of their kids. They may have legal custody of them, but they do not truly own them. Even if they are the ones that birthed them. The moment that being is in the world, the them that they are will never be Yours to do with what You will. Your place is not to make them, but rather to share space with them that will help them be the being they were born to be. That may be difficult- because who they are may not be who You envisioned. But it will be ok. Teach them not to get in their own or another being’s way fo food, shelter, water, safety. Teach them compassion and the ability to set their own boundaries. Teach them self care.

If You are afraid it’s not enough- that perhaps Your loved one will miss out if You don’t get something specific into their mind other than the above- feel free to reach out. We can chat through it. I know religion, culture sexpectations and family tradition can be hard to work through- but we have got You. You’re not alone.

Ps the being in the post- their name is Brine and at the moment Brine is a THEY/HE. If You want to affirm their identity feel free to support them in the comments below. He knows I am posting this.

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderfluid #transgender #parenting #debate #conflictresolution #letsgo

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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 293.3K Likes - Over 50 DMs in a day saying that if I went on the ground to serve Gazan Palestinians that they’d unalive me. Along with other horrible physical acts. So, I assembled a team of local lgbtq people and allies on the ground in Egypt and went far and wide to deliver direct cash physical aid to Gazan Palestinians in need as requested.

Did I die? No. Did any of our team mates die? No. Were there LGBTQ Gazan Palestinians who were living at an adult age? Yes.

Not only did I survive but I was welcomed into homes, given food and drinks despite tight resources. Allowed to use the restroom of my choice. Allowed to work directly with the Palestinian Embassy as the sole cash aid provider to families on the ground and our team members were provided body guards and bullet proof escorts to more dangerous locations. The journalist syndicate also opened their doors taking us from home to home- and every single time I was open off the bat that I am lgbtq . Not something I typically do, but for this I did. I was accepted in rooms of all men. I was accepted into spaces of all women. I was held and allowed to hold others. And so were my teammates.

Hundreds of families personally visited in 3 weeks.

Is the situation as horrific as You have seen on tv? It’s worse. We visited hospitals filled with air strike survivors. Studio apartment with 15 refugees stack in a single space having lost their life back home. We walked through rubble and ruins and saw the devastating impacts of war.

This propaganda that LGBTQ people must not call for humanitarian aid or rights for Palestinian people simply because of conservative values is unethical and wrong. Every human- EVERY HUMAN deserves the right to food shelter water physical safety and freedom of movement. And I mean EVERY. So don’t get it twisted.

#lovewins #thetruth #myth #storytime #lgbtq
Ps Our cash aid mission is still continuing. Want to support and get Your name on an envelope? Donate to the link in my bio. Our efforts are Palestinian run @roaakashef and ally managed @arielleabroad PPS probably ended my career by posting this according to some other folx in my life so- that’s that. It’s been a good ride.

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Caption : Over 50 DMs in a day saying that if I went on the ground to serve Gazan Palestinians that they’d unalive me. Along with other horrible physical acts. So, I assembled a team of local lgbtq people and allies on the ground in Egypt and went far and wide to deliver direct cash physical aid to Gazan Palestinians in need as requested. Did I die? No. Did any of our team mates die? No. Were there LGBTQ Gazan Palestinians who were living at an adult age? Yes. Not only did I survive but I was welcomed into homes, given food and drinks despite tight resources. Allowed to use the restroom of my choice. Allowed to work directly with the Palestinian Embassy as the sole cash aid provider to families on the ground and our team members were provided body guards and bullet proof escorts to more dangerous locations. The journalist syndicate also opened their doors taking us from home to home- and every single time I was open off the bat that I am lgbtq . Not something I typically do, but for this I did. I was accepted in rooms of all men. I was accepted into spaces of all women. I was held and allowed to hold others. And so were my teammates. Hundreds of families personally visited in 3 weeks. Is the situation as horrific as You have seen on tv? It’s worse. We visited hospitals filled with air strike survivors. Studio apartment with 15 refugees stack in a single space having lost their life back home. We walked through rubble and ruins and saw the devastating impacts of war. This propaganda that LGBTQ people must not call for humanitarian aid or rights for Palestinian people simply because of conservative values is unethical and wrong. Every human- EVERY HUMAN deserves the right to food shelter water physical safety and freedom of movement. And I mean EVERY. So don’t get it twisted. #lovewins #thetruth #myth #storytime #lgbtq Ps Our cash aid mission is still continuing. Want to support and get Your name on an envelope? Donate to the link in my bio. Our efforts are Palestinian run @roaakashef and ally managed @arielleabroad PPS probably ended my career by posting this according to some other folx in my life so- that’s that. It’s been a good ride.
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 82.9K Likes - Now’s the time to have these discussions so because when the world opens back up- we have a more perfect opportunity than ever to reset. To do things differently. To reassess. There’s no going back after going inward. Do You think there’s a sport we can reassess the division of uniform for? If not why?

#reels #reelsinstagram #comparison #genderequality #genderfluid #genderqueer #lgbtq #sports #debat

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Caption : Now’s the time to have these discussions so because when the world opens back up- we have a more perfect opportunity than ever to reset. To do things differently. To reassess. There’s no going back after going inward. Do You think there’s a sport we can reassess the division of uniform for? If not why? #reels #reelsinstagram #comparison #genderequality #genderfluid #genderqueer #lgbtq #sports #debat
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 66.5K Likes - I wrote this long long caption about all the new birth certificate enforcement bathroom bills being proposed and then it got deleted when I posted somehow. So here I am. Reposting. And as I go to rewrite this thing I’ve written before I realize how redundant this battle really is. How bored I am of myself and this silly struggle that has resulted in serious consequence. Despite clear scientific studies en masse which prove restrooms are over 40% safer when they are all identity inclusive (mostly as a result of the impact of randomization of possible user entrants). Is it that hard? Mixed restrooms with a few private stalls with floor to ceiling doors that have a child changing fold out, are disability accessible, and lit well enough for people to use said mirrors for ritualistic needs such as adjusting hijabs during breaks. The issue isn’t the “gender”- it’s the violence of individuals who should be held more individually accountable. We can do that through clearer and more effective laws, preventive mandatory education about keeping hands to our own diddles, and utilizing modern tech options for maximum safety & response. I mean- it’s fair to be cautious in the restroom. Our butts and niblets ARE exposed. 😂😩

We also need to teach people that people with “f” on their birth certificates can be tall, muscular, short hair, etc. If You are going to call me a “girl” because of my birth certificate, then sweetie darling, this is what a pretty girl looks like. This face. These shoulders. Those brows. That suit. These muscles.

This is my personal experience, I don’t want to speak for You. What has been Your experience with gender inclusive restrooms? Is there any reason You believe we absolutely NEED divided restrooms? Are there additional things You believe we should add to create safer spaces? All voices welcome. No matter how “silly” or controversial You believe Your opinion to be.

Ps: How are You today? All answers welcome none too burdensome. None too joyful. All valid! I’ll respond to as many as possible for the first 24 hours.

#wesanderson #lgbtqia #whatdoyoumean #genderqueer #funnyvideo #storytime thanks @quartermistress for whacking me!

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Caption : I wrote this long long caption about all the new birth certificate enforcement bathroom bills being proposed and then it got deleted when I posted somehow. So here I am. Reposting. And as I go to rewrite this thing I’ve written before I realize how redundant this battle really is. How bored I am of myself and this silly struggle that has resulted in serious consequence. Despite clear scientific studies en masse which prove restrooms are over 40% safer when they are all identity inclusive (mostly as a result of the impact of randomization of possible user entrants). Is it that hard? Mixed restrooms with a few private stalls with floor to ceiling doors that have a child changing fold out, are disability accessible, and lit well enough for people to use said mirrors for ritualistic needs such as adjusting hijabs during breaks. The issue isn’t the “gender”- it’s the violence of individuals who should be held more individually accountable. We can do that through clearer and more effective laws, preventive mandatory education about keeping hands to our own diddles, and utilizing modern tech options for maximum safety & response. I mean- it’s fair to be cautious in the restroom. Our butts and niblets ARE exposed. 😂😩 We also need to teach people that people with “f” on their birth certificates can be tall, muscular, short hair, etc. If You are going to call me a “girl” because of my birth certificate, then sweetie darling, this is what a pretty girl looks like. This face. These shoulders. Those brows. That suit. These muscles. This is my personal experience, I don’t want to speak for You. What has been Your experience with gender inclusive restrooms? Is there any reason You believe we absolutely NEED divided restrooms? Are there additional things You believe we should add to create safer spaces? All voices welcome. No matter how “silly” or controversial You believe Your opinion to be. Ps: How are You today? All answers welcome none too burdensome. None too joyful. All valid! I’ll respond to as many as possible for the first 24 hours. #wesanderson #lgbtqia #whatdoyoumean #genderqueer #funnyvideo #storytime thanks @quartermistress for whacking me!
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Caption : Many #lgbtqia people are actively fighting in Ukraine’s military protecting the nation. Many also left because Ukraine ranks 39th out of 49 European countries for LGBTQPIA rights according to @ilgaeurope . Some also left because they are conscientious objectors or have family members to take care of that couldn’t travel alone. Some progress is on the horizon with talks about marriage equality now on the table as a result of LGBTQ people contributing to the fight for Ukraine’s liberation. To send some financial support to Dima, please reach out to him here @dmtry_shh . All abusive accounts will be reported and likely frozen. To do great work from even the comfort of Your bathroom that supports Ukrainians, we need some additional volunteers for @safebow_org our evacuation organization. Just head over to the page and sign up. It’s easy and rewarding! The team will ensure that no matter who You are and what Your experience level is- there is a place for You. #goodnews #storytime #gaymen #transpride #reunited #catsofinstagram #positivestory #berlincity
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 56.5K Likes - Don’t let propaganda lie to you. I lived. Our team lived. Local LGBTQ people are living. It’s true that LGBTQ Gazan Palestinians experience oppression. Their stories of their experiences are valid. The Gazan Palestinian community also isn’t a monolithic one, and many many people support lgbtq identities from within. Additionally, people are trying to use the conservative values the government of Gaza to shut down any calls for humanitarian aid to all Gazan Palestinians. To justify harm to Palestinian people as a whole.

This egregious lie can not succeed. The Gazan Palestinian people are by and large a loving, giving, kind people. They are nonviolent and welcoming. Some may have a road to travel for lgbtq liberation to exist- but also… they need a road to travel at all. We must not discard our humanity just because humanity has discarded us.

I’ll add more in the comments below.

#lovewins #lgbtqia #nonbinary #storytime

Ps: This piece of content was reviewed and approved by Gazan Palestinian LGBTQ people. The content was requested by the community and is centering my experience by request for impact and for allyship. It additionally was reviewed by Jewish individuals and Allie’s with Israeli passports to ensure that it doesn’t contain antisemitic remarks or calls to violence.

PPS: our cash aid program is verified, the only direct cash to hand program for Gazan Palestinians working specifically with the Palestinian Embassy to get to the most dire cases. It’s run by local LGBTQ folx and their allies.

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Caption : Don’t let propaganda lie to you. I lived. Our team lived. Local LGBTQ people are living. It’s true that LGBTQ Gazan Palestinians experience oppression. Their stories of their experiences are valid. The Gazan Palestinian community also isn’t a monolithic one, and many many people support lgbtq identities from within. Additionally, people are trying to use the conservative values the government of Gaza to shut down any calls for humanitarian aid to all Gazan Palestinians. To justify harm to Palestinian people as a whole. This egregious lie can not succeed. The Gazan Palestinian people are by and large a loving, giving, kind people. They are nonviolent and welcoming. Some may have a road to travel for lgbtq liberation to exist- but also… they need a road to travel at all. We must not discard our humanity just because humanity has discarded us. I’ll add more in the comments below. #lovewins #lgbtqia #nonbinary #storytime Ps: This piece of content was reviewed and approved by Gazan Palestinian LGBTQ people. The content was requested by the community and is centering my experience by request for impact and for allyship. It additionally was reviewed by Jewish individuals and Allie’s with Israeli passports to ensure that it doesn’t contain antisemitic remarks or calls to violence. PPS: our cash aid program is verified, the only direct cash to hand program for Gazan Palestinians working specifically with the Palestinian Embassy to get to the most dire cases. It’s run by local LGBTQ folx and their allies.
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Caption : Love is a complicated thing. Many parents are terrified of what it actually means. They know that they must make a safe space for their children- but also they worry that if they do not provide a basic sense of guidance for them that they may stray off a stable path towards a destination full of bumps and brambles. It’s a very valid feeling. Almost every parent who is oppositional to LGBTQPIA identities tells me the same thing “Love is not complicity” or “Love is not letting my kid do whatever they want”. While it’s true- parenting comes with the hard task of setting boundaries as well as opening possibilities- one thing parents often forget is that while they are guardians of their kids, they are not the masters of their kids. They may have legal custody of them, but they do not truly own them. Even if they are the ones that birthed them. The moment that being is in the world, the them that they are will never be Yours to do with what You will. Your place is not to make them, but rather to share space with them that will help them be the being they were born to be. That may be difficult- because who they are may not be who You envisioned. But it will be ok. Teach them not to get in their own or another being’s way fo food, shelter, water, safety. Teach them compassion and the ability to set their own boundaries. Teach them self care. If You are afraid it’s not enough- that perhaps Your loved one will miss out if You don’t get something specific into their mind other than the above- feel free to reach out. We can chat through it. I know religion, culture sexpectations and family tradition can be hard to work through- but we have got You. You’re not alone. Ps the being in the post- their name is Brine and at the moment Brine is a THEY/HE. If You want to affirm their identity feel free to support them in the comments below. He knows I am posting this. #lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderfluid #transgender #parenting #debate #conflictresolution #letsgo (This post has been modified and the screen name hidden to protect the individual. This is an ongoing dialogue.)
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 49K Likes - Walking home as societally femme vs societally masc may seem to be obviously safer for the masc individual. And it is. I tried over 200 night walks in 2018-2019 in both “masc” and “femme” looks (by societal standards) in 14 large cities and 17 small towns. Needless to say, I was absolutely heckled more when perceived as “femme”. Followed home at times, touched without consent, and even stopped for questioning by people curious as to where I was going or if I was trans. However, there were some things during my night walks I also monitored that I’ve never shared before- and they were regarding socio-economic accessibility. (1) I tried boarding busses at night without fare in men’s and women’s attire. I was granted more free fares as perceived male than female by about 2.5x. (2) I was less likely to get a ticket when caught jumping the turnstiles illegally for the train. As a “femme” I racked up 6 tickets vs 11 as “masc”. (3) I was equally as likely to be lent a phone by a stranger I’d asked to call “for a ride”. Flat even- and that one really surprised me.

Why did this study matter? As a person who’s experienced poverty for a good portion of my life, getting home was more than just “walking there without getting touched/heckled”. It was also navigating the little things like not affording transportation or a phone service. I wanted to understand what the world would be likely to offer me in either “gender/sex” perception- so I knew what needed to be dismantled and how to survive should I need to.

Did any of these surprise You? How do You think we would do getting home from Your city/town center to Your home? Would it be any different?

NOTE: My experiment pertains to My own being only and may not be accurate for other people of other aesthetics, intersectionalities or locations. The purpose of this was not to support the division of treatment but to clearly illustrate if I as ONE being can be granted various privileges or punishments based on the simple assumption of sex/gender.

Photo by @mattlicari

#lgbtq #genderfluid #genderqueer #gendercapitalism #storytime #comparison #nonbinary #binaryexpert

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Caption : Walking home as societally femme vs societally masc may seem to be obviously safer for the masc individual. And it is. I tried over 200 night walks in 2018-2019 in both “masc” and “femme” looks (by societal standards) in 14 large cities and 17 small towns. Needless to say, I was absolutely heckled more when perceived as “femme”. Followed home at times, touched without consent, and even stopped for questioning by people curious as to where I was going or if I was trans. However, there were some things during my night walks I also monitored that I’ve never shared before- and they were regarding socio-economic accessibility. (1) I tried boarding busses at night without fare in men’s and women’s attire. I was granted more free fares as perceived male than female by about 2.5x. (2) I was less likely to get a ticket when caught jumping the turnstiles illegally for the train. As a “femme” I racked up 6 tickets vs 11 as “masc”. (3) I was equally as likely to be lent a phone by a stranger I’d asked to call “for a ride”. Flat even- and that one really surprised me. Why did this study matter? As a person who’s experienced poverty for a good portion of my life, getting home was more than just “walking there without getting touched/heckled”. It was also navigating the little things like not affording transportation or a phone service. I wanted to understand what the world would be likely to offer me in either “gender/sex” perception- so I knew what needed to be dismantled and how to survive should I need to. Did any of these surprise You? How do You think we would do getting home from Your city/town center to Your home? Would it be any different? NOTE: My experiment pertains to My own being only and may not be accurate for other people of other aesthetics, intersectionalities or locations. The purpose of this was not to support the division of treatment but to clearly illustrate if I as ONE being can be granted various privileges or punishments based on the simple assumption of sex/gender. Photo by @mattlicari #lgbtq #genderfluid #genderqueer #gendercapitalism #storytime #comparison #nonbinary #binaryexpert
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 46.8K Likes - You never know who’s paying attention, who trying and who can change. Good news is all around us, despite what the headlines say.

For instance, after doing the social experiment where I questioned gender specific salons about their pricing justification- @trevorsorbie was watching. They had a salon nearby and first reached out to say that they enjoyed the video. Then they followed up with a reflection that their salon had originally started with gender neutral prices, but as it expanded into a chain- the pricing became gendered in the new salons. They knew it would be challenging and take some training possible explanation to customers, however they were willing to take a risk and change all salons to gender neutral pricing. To help them, I called up my friends @thedresscodeproject to give guidance on how to do this shift without losing customers etc. Then to launch, Trevor Sorbie asked if I could be their first model for it! There was a small learning curve with gender neutral language etc, but everyone handled it well! We put it all together and put to the world- and the result? Trevor Sorbie is in for one of their best performing quarters in a long while. Their client base is still strong. And @britishbeautycouncil @creativeheadmag even showcased their shift.

The biggest excuse for salons is that they have been doing things the same way for too long to change. But anyone can change at any time! Don’t let time be the reason against doing the right thing. Gender neutral pricing is good for everyone. Opens up the client potential, doesn’t lead to gender based theft, and creates safer spaces for lgbtq folx and others to get the haircut they want… not the one they feel pressured to have.

Tell me a hair salon that charges gender specific prices! I would lovingly like to send help their way to change to a gender neutral pricing model that will keep them in business, while discontinuing the discrimination set against their customers.

CREATIVE DIRECTION: @giuseppebstelitano
HAIR: @tizidima
PHOTOGRAPHY: @austnfischer
MAKE UP: @miriamspanumakeup
STYLING: @francescakoof

#genderfluid #hairtransformation #positivenews #lgbtq #lgbtqia #trevorsorbie

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Caption : You never know who’s paying attention, who trying and who can change. Good news is all around us, despite what the headlines say. For instance, after doing the social experiment where I questioned gender specific salons about their pricing justification- @trevorsorbie was watching. They had a salon nearby and first reached out to say that they enjoyed the video. Then they followed up with a reflection that their salon had originally started with gender neutral prices, but as it expanded into a chain- the pricing became gendered in the new salons. They knew it would be challenging and take some training possible explanation to customers, however they were willing to take a risk and change all salons to gender neutral pricing. To help them, I called up my friends @thedresscodeproject to give guidance on how to do this shift without losing customers etc. Then to launch, Trevor Sorbie asked if I could be their first model for it! There was a small learning curve with gender neutral language etc, but everyone handled it well! We put it all together and put to the world- and the result? Trevor Sorbie is in for one of their best performing quarters in a long while. Their client base is still strong. And @britishbeautycouncil @creativeheadmag even showcased their shift. The biggest excuse for salons is that they have been doing things the same way for too long to change. But anyone can change at any time! Don’t let time be the reason against doing the right thing. Gender neutral pricing is good for everyone. Opens up the client potential, doesn’t lead to gender based theft, and creates safer spaces for lgbtq folx and others to get the haircut they want… not the one they feel pressured to have. Tell me a hair salon that charges gender specific prices! I would lovingly like to send help their way to change to a gender neutral pricing model that will keep them in business, while discontinuing the discrimination set against their customers. CREATIVE DIRECTION: @giuseppebstelitano HAIR: @tizidima PHOTOGRAPHY: @austnfischer MAKE UP: @miriamspanumakeup STYLING: @francescakoof #genderfluid #hairtransformation #positivenews #lgbtq #lgbtqia #trevorsorbie
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 44.3K Likes - This is @mothernaturesmountain my mother. A lot of people say they find it peculiar that I call her “mother” as I prefer speaking in neutral language entirely. However, when things healed and grew between us, we made a promise. She would call me her “child” or by name to respect my neutrality. And I would call her my mother (she/her) to respect her as well. We’ve grown a lot since that pact and continue to do so- she’s a really amazing being who lives a very incredible lifestyle.

For those who wonder, yes. This is very much the way I grew up (different location though). Books and birds were my television and manual labor was a part of the daily routine. Something You just did, and felt within the vibration of Your instincts. A lot of the values I hold today stem from this upbringing. Satiation with simplicity. Enjoyment of a days work. Love for existence as a center. To outsiders, seeing my 7 year old self carry a 50lb bag of grain or muck out a stall for the weekend- it may seem horrific. But for me, I have a lot of good memories of pride in every drop of sweat. And the magic of retiring to evenings of fireflies, singing frogs and meals made mostly with foraged ingredients. Throughout my career in the world of entertainment and fashion- there’s been intense ups and downs. However, with any body slam- in the depths of darkness- I’ve had the knowledge that I could survive wherever a forest may be found with nothing more than willpower and observation. If everything was lost, I knew how to make a fire from earth and clean water with its dead embers. I knew I could find joy with bare feet in the dirt and the sound of the wind through the leaves. And when no forest can be found, simply laying on my stomach in the grass looking for four leaf clovers or watching ants work with each other- is delightful.

I still have many struggles. And life will bring more to come. And I may not have all things figured out. But I have that. Thanks mom.

#offgrid #lgbtqia #cottagecore #housetour #vermontlife #vintagestyle #catsofinstagram

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Caption : This is @mothernaturesmountain my mother. A lot of people say they find it peculiar that I call her “mother” as I prefer speaking in neutral language entirely. However, when things healed and grew between us, we made a promise. She would call me her “child” or by name to respect my neutrality. And I would call her my mother (she/her) to respect her as well. We’ve grown a lot since that pact and continue to do so- she’s a really amazing being who lives a very incredible lifestyle. For those who wonder, yes. This is very much the way I grew up (different location though). Books and birds were my television and manual labor was a part of the daily routine. Something You just did, and felt within the vibration of Your instincts. A lot of the values I hold today stem from this upbringing. Satiation with simplicity. Enjoyment of a days work. Love for existence as a center. To outsiders, seeing my 7 year old self carry a 50lb bag of grain or muck out a stall for the weekend- it may seem horrific. But for me, I have a lot of good memories of pride in every drop of sweat. And the magic of retiring to evenings of fireflies, singing frogs and meals made mostly with foraged ingredients. Throughout my career in the world of entertainment and fashion- there’s been intense ups and downs. However, with any body slam- in the depths of darkness- I’ve had the knowledge that I could survive wherever a forest may be found with nothing more than willpower and observation. If everything was lost, I knew how to make a fire from earth and clean water with its dead embers. I knew I could find joy with bare feet in the dirt and the sound of the wind through the leaves. And when no forest can be found, simply laying on my stomach in the grass looking for four leaf clovers or watching ants work with each other- is delightful. I still have many struggles. And life will bring more to come. And I may not have all things figured out. But I have that. Thanks mom. #offgrid #lgbtqia #cottagecore #housetour #vermontlife #vintagestyle #catsofinstagram
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 43.2K Likes - I refuse to let the F on my birth certificate be synonymous with FEAR. I refuse to let FEAR be synonymous with Fabric. My dysphoria is not with my Flesh. It is with sexpectations, society and Fictious Fabrications of who I must be based on who has come before me with adjacent genitalia. The I that I am is not merely an Idea. The I that I am is a series of intentions, actions, and experiences.

My identity is the I am I. If You wish to attempt to Limit Me with Language, just know that the I that is I can not cease to exist but already does will and has. You may take away my freedom of body, my freedom of speech- but You will never take away what truly makes Me free. The Me that is Me. It is beyond tangibility and touch. It is beyond Your grasp.

I am I. Forever, then and now. I will not cease to be I because if I do then I give permission and proof for You to cease to be You. And for Us to cease to be Us.

I am I. Are You You?

On a train tomorrow so I have extra time! I’ll reply to the first 300 comments :) Ask me anything.

#lovewins #whoworeitbetter #lgbtqia #genderfluid #genderqueer #iami

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Caption : I refuse to let the F on my birth certificate be synonymous with FEAR. I refuse to let FEAR be synonymous with Fabric. My dysphoria is not with my Flesh. It is with sexpectations, society and Fictious Fabrications of who I must be based on who has come before me with adjacent genitalia. The I that I am is not merely an Idea. The I that I am is a series of intentions, actions, and experiences. My identity is the I am I. If You wish to attempt to Limit Me with Language, just know that the I that is I can not cease to exist but already does will and has. You may take away my freedom of body, my freedom of speech- but You will never take away what truly makes Me free. The Me that is Me. It is beyond tangibility and touch. It is beyond Your grasp. I am I. Forever, then and now. I will not cease to be I because if I do then I give permission and proof for You to cease to be You. And for Us to cease to be Us. I am I. Are You You? On a train tomorrow so I have extra time! I’ll reply to the first 300 comments 🙂 Ask me anything. #lovewins #whoworeitbetter #lgbtqia #genderfluid #genderqueer #iami
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 41.4K Likes - This ended really well, even though I was told by quite a few it was a bad idea.

I waited two years to post this because I wanted to respect the clean up process from the wildfires and not capitalize on my own narrative when the focus really needed to be on the communities that lost everything.

Why didn’t I just come out loud and proud as all/no gender and queer? Well, based on research from reading message boards and chatting with some other locals prior, the sentiment around LGBTQ (especially trans, non-binary and queer identifying people) was that they were a threat from city living culture causing a mental health crisis in young people. I knew if I just bulled my way in, identity first, I would immediately get stonewalled (pun intended). And being blocked out wouldn’t allow me to contribute to furthering the dialogue, nor would it make me safe- and to be fair it wouldn’t make them feel safe either. So, even though there were some afab people doing the manual labor, the majority were cis men who preferred to work in private groups to “get more accomplished”. And they felt they owed it to the fire ravished community to provide the most efficient service hence the segregation. A lot of people also felt that all LGBTQ people had to offer was their identity. So my goal was to get on the exclusive group, be safe, relate, and then shift stereotype/bias by simply being vs preaching.

Why was this important? Well the community genuinely needed help, so that was first. But also, a lot of LGBTQPIA individuals come from rural communities. And all their parents know about us is what they see on TV which is often sexual, violence, or suffering. This leads to them sheltering their kids or “trying to protect them from a cruel fate” by openly admonishing queer individuals. My goal here was to have a positive experience and show that our community cares deeper than it’s given credit for.

What do You think about rural community bias? How can we help? Where would You volunteer if safety, money & time werent an issue?

PS: I was already in Australia for work. I didn’t fly across the ocean to do this.

#lgbtqia #lovewins #reels #documentary #australia #genderqueer

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Caption : This ended really well, even though I was told by quite a few it was a bad idea. I waited two years to post this because I wanted to respect the clean up process from the wildfires and not capitalize on my own narrative when the focus really needed to be on the communities that lost everything. Why didn’t I just come out loud and proud as all/no gender and queer? Well, based on research from reading message boards and chatting with some other locals prior, the sentiment around LGBTQ (especially trans, non-binary and queer identifying people) was that they were a threat from city living culture causing a mental health crisis in young people. I knew if I just bulled my way in, identity first, I would immediately get stonewalled (pun intended). And being blocked out wouldn’t allow me to contribute to furthering the dialogue, nor would it make me safe- and to be fair it wouldn’t make them feel safe either. So, even though there were some afab people doing the manual labor, the majority were cis men who preferred to work in private groups to “get more accomplished”. And they felt they owed it to the fire ravished community to provide the most efficient service hence the segregation. A lot of people also felt that all LGBTQ people had to offer was their identity. So my goal was to get on the exclusive group, be safe, relate, and then shift stereotype/bias by simply being vs preaching. Why was this important? Well the community genuinely needed help, so that was first. But also, a lot of LGBTQPIA individuals come from rural communities. And all their parents know about us is what they see on TV which is often sexual, violence, or suffering. This leads to them sheltering their kids or “trying to protect them from a cruel fate” by openly admonishing queer individuals. My goal here was to have a positive experience and show that our community cares deeper than it’s given credit for. What do You think about rural community bias? How can we help? Where would You volunteer if safety, money & time werent an issue? PS: I was already in Australia for work. I didn’t fly across the ocean to do this. #lgbtqia #lovewins #reels #documentary #australia #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 38.7K Likes - Want to change the industry? Type #KelseyForLila #LilaBard @sonypictures to help! This film was brought to life by a collective group of queer, trans, BIPOC, disabled and other marginalized talent & filmmakers during the pandemic in order to raise awareness about the erasure of disabled talent in the industry. Consider it the most extra audition ever created by us for us. Why? Well when the book “A Darker Shade of Magic” by @veschwab was announced to become a film that meant that Lila Bard was due to be cast. Lila Bard is a disabled character with a glass eye in her right eye. Coincidentally, @kelsey_ellison not only has a glass eye in her right eye too but is British, a talented knife wielder, and according to most fan art… looks very very similar! Yet history shows that often disabled actors like her are overlooked or not even given a chance to try. Rather than wait for Sony to consider disabled talent to audition we decided to make it known that Kelsey existed- in a way that undeniably can’t be ignored. Cast or not- this is one of those rare once in a lifetime roles that is at least worth trying for. 1 billion people on this planet disabled- yet less than 10% of onscreen actors are.

That’s why I’m asking Your help. My goal is to get 1 million views. 50k likes. 5k comments. Why? Because the argument against using disabled talent is that they aren’t profitable. Not enough guaranteed tickets sold. If we can get this number of views/comments/likes then Kelsey and I have planned a second phase which is a cost analysis video that can be used to defend any disabled talent fighting for any role against being sideswiped for “financial reasons”.

Not sure if Kelsey can act? Go to her IG page to watch an audition we created showcasing her talent in a realistic way while also emphasizing why only a disabled person is right for Lila Bard.

Film Credits below. Special thanks to @leonunity @kitbash3d @aputure.lighting @theprospectofwhitby @justice_forblacklives and @zalando

#disabilitypridemonth #disabilityawareness #lgbtq #lovewins (ps yes I did play Holland 😂- It was Kelseys Idea)

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Caption : Want to change the industry? Type #KelseyForLila #LilaBard @sonypictures to help! This film was brought to life by a collective group of queer, trans, BIPOC, disabled and other marginalized talent & filmmakers during the pandemic in order to raise awareness about the erasure of disabled talent in the industry. Consider it the most extra audition ever created by us for us. Why? Well when the book “A Darker Shade of Magic” by @veschwab was announced to become a film that meant that Lila Bard was due to be cast. Lila Bard is a disabled character with a glass eye in her right eye. Coincidentally, @kelsey_ellison not only has a glass eye in her right eye too but is British, a talented knife wielder, and according to most fan art… looks very very similar! Yet history shows that often disabled actors like her are overlooked or not even given a chance to try. Rather than wait for Sony to consider disabled talent to audition we decided to make it known that Kelsey existed- in a way that undeniably can’t be ignored. Cast or not- this is one of those rare once in a lifetime roles that is at least worth trying for. 1 billion people on this planet disabled- yet less than 10% of onscreen actors are. That’s why I’m asking Your help. My goal is to get 1 million views. 50k likes. 5k comments. Why? Because the argument against using disabled talent is that they aren’t profitable. Not enough guaranteed tickets sold. If we can get this number of views/comments/likes then Kelsey and I have planned a second phase which is a cost analysis video that can be used to defend any disabled talent fighting for any role against being sideswiped for “financial reasons”. Not sure if Kelsey can act? Go to her IG page to watch an audition we created showcasing her talent in a realistic way while also emphasizing why only a disabled person is right for Lila Bard. Film Credits below. Special thanks to @leonunity @kitbash3d @aputure.lighting @theprospectofwhitby @justice_forblacklives and @zalando #disabilitypridemonth #disabilityawareness #lgbtq #lovewins (ps yes I did play Holland 😂- It was Kelseys Idea)
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 37.9K Likes - My partner has a glass eye. Because of it she has been time and time again denied auditions when the casting directors find out. Opportunities ripped away. Insults subtly handed behind the camera “Sorry but it’s just too distracting. Sorry but it’s not relatable. Sorry but… this isn’t that kind of film. It’s more for families…” She’s heard it all and throughout this pandemic with in home castings… so have I. I’m tired of it for her- but she always just rolls forward with a grin on her face anyways. That’s why when we saw the role of one eyed street thief Lila Bard (from “A Darker Shade of Magic” by @veschwab ) was up for casting by @sonypictures - we both knew that this was one time that it was worth fighting for a chance. An audition. Despite being professionally trained as an actor, Kelsey (like many actors with a disability) doesn’t have a major agent. As a result we were worried she may not get an a opportunity to be seen. That’s why the community came together and rallied behind her to create one of the most extra auditions ever. And the cast/crew is comprised of lgbtq, BIPOC, beings with disabilities. Including neurodiverse DP @petrosofsparta . This project will be coming to my IGTV on Monday and I am going to work my butt off to get it 1 million views so We can show that actors with disabilities ARE desired- and when casting characters with disabilities they should be prioritized over able bodied ones. We believe @sonypictures knows how important this is! But just in case- we are going to try because life is an adventure. GOOGLE Lila Bard. She looks like Kelsey, has a glass eye in the same eye, is from the same nation and has epic knife skills like Kelsey!

To support simply share this post and/or when the video is out on Monday. TYPE “Kelsey For Lila” below and We will respond to every comment possible within 24 hours.

#KelseyForLila & #LilaBard

#disabilityawareness #disabilitypride #disabilityinclusion #loveislove thank You for the @dailymail article @drewjbullock !

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Caption : My partner has a glass eye. Because of it she has been time and time again denied auditions when the casting directors find out. Opportunities ripped away. Insults subtly handed behind the camera “Sorry but it’s just too distracting. Sorry but it’s not relatable. Sorry but… this isn’t that kind of film. It’s more for families…” She’s heard it all and throughout this pandemic with in home castings… so have I. I’m tired of it for her- but she always just rolls forward with a grin on her face anyways. That’s why when we saw the role of one eyed street thief Lila Bard (from “A Darker Shade of Magic” by @veschwab ) was up for casting by @sonypictures – we both knew that this was one time that it was worth fighting for a chance. An audition. Despite being professionally trained as an actor, Kelsey (like many actors with a disability) doesn’t have a major agent. As a result we were worried she may not get an a opportunity to be seen. That’s why the community came together and rallied behind her to create one of the most extra auditions ever. And the cast/crew is comprised of lgbtq, BIPOC, beings with disabilities. Including neurodiverse DP @petrosofsparta . This project will be coming to my IGTV on Monday and I am going to work my butt off to get it 1 million views so We can show that actors with disabilities ARE desired- and when casting characters with disabilities they should be prioritized over able bodied ones. We believe @sonypictures knows how important this is! But just in case- we are going to try because life is an adventure. GOOGLE Lila Bard. She looks like Kelsey, has a glass eye in the same eye, is from the same nation and has epic knife skills like Kelsey! To support simply share this post and/or when the video is out on Monday. TYPE “Kelsey For Lila” below and We will respond to every comment possible within 24 hours. #KelseyForLila & #LilaBard #disabilityawareness #disabilitypride #disabilityinclusion #loveislove thank You for the @dailymail article @drewjbullock !
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 37.6K Likes - Let Iranian people know You care- keep their movement going. A massive wave of protests for human rights in Iran sparked by the death of 22 Year old Mahsa Amini (who should be honored by her Kurdish name Jina or Zhina Amini as that is an important intersection of her identity) who passed away after being beaten to death by “Morality Police”. Social media has already been shut down in order to shut down momentum and silence protesters. Iranians are asking for anyone who can to continue the pressure and visibility by sharing the hashtag. This is one of the largest successful rights protests in Iran for a while and the support will help keep people in the light and in the press to ensure protections. Comment below to let people know that You support them. The more You type the hashtag the more powerful it gets!

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Caption : Let Iranian people know You care- keep their movement going. A massive wave of protests for human rights in Iran sparked by the death of 22 Year old Mahsa Amini (who should be honored by her Kurdish name Jina or Zhina Amini as that is an important intersection of her identity) who passed away after being beaten to death by “Morality Police”. Social media has already been shut down in order to shut down momentum and silence protesters. Iranians are asking for anyone who can to continue the pressure and visibility by sharing the hashtag. This is one of the largest successful rights protests in Iran for a while and the support will help keep people in the light and in the press to ensure protections. Comment below to let people know that You support them. The more You type the hashtag the more powerful it gets!
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 37.2K Likes - The birth certificate I came into this world with has the word “Female” on it. I’m 6’2, muscular, have an upper lipstache, large lung capacity and big hands 😏😉 I’ve had no surgery, no hormone therapy, and no implants. This is just my flesh as it is. My identity for myself is simply I am I. I don’t use gender as a part of my identity summary because it’s never been important or useful. I like to just cut to the chase and ask people to sum up who I am and how I am by my own existence. Not a comparison to an entire group of people. But by the standards of that soccer team “Red Hot Riot”- I was a “cis woman”.

How do You feel? All perspectives allowed, no one will have comments erased here- please be as kind to each other as possible though. Listen as well as speaking. See comment section for one suggestion I have. 🥰🧐

#pridemonth #sportstalk #transwoman #debate

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Caption : The birth certificate I came into this world with has the word “Female” on it. I’m 6’2, muscular, have an upper lipstache, large lung capacity and big hands 😏😉 I’ve had no surgery, no hormone therapy, and no implants. This is just my flesh as it is. My identity for myself is simply I am I. I don’t use gender as a part of my identity summary because it’s never been important or useful. I like to just cut to the chase and ask people to sum up who I am and how I am by my own existence. Not a comparison to an entire group of people. But by the standards of that soccer team “Red Hot Riot”- I was a “cis woman”. How do You feel? All perspectives allowed, no one will have comments erased here- please be as kind to each other as possible though. Listen as well as speaking. See comment section for one suggestion I have. 🥰🧐 #pridemonth #sportstalk #transwoman #debate
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 33.7K Likes - I receive 1-300 messages a day and this one was one of my favorites today. It was the second one I read and it just made me giggle. Since they are couped up at home unable to get validation for their wit, humor and identity from their family- do You mind commenting below that You found this joke funny/clever? (Only if You did of course!). Alternatively if You have a good joke to gift back to this being I think they would really love it!

Thanks for cheering me up brilliant being.

#lgbtqia #lgbtqmemes #comedy #memes #nonbinary #genderfluid #lovewins

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Caption : I receive 1-300 messages a day and this one was one of my favorites today. It was the second one I read and it just made me giggle. Since they are couped up at home unable to get validation for their wit, humor and identity from their family- do You mind commenting below that You found this joke funny/clever? (Only if You did of course!). Alternatively if You have a good joke to gift back to this being I think they would really love it! Thanks for cheering me up brilliant being. #lgbtqia #lgbtqmemes #comedy #memes #nonbinary #genderfluid #lovewins
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 32.7K Likes - It’s been a tough time for @artemis.awakening - and divorce can be really difficult. Especially when we have to fight so hard to be allowed to love at all. They were feeling really down after so I was hoping y’all could help show just how much family they have out here? Just comment below a kind word or a hello or a “You are loved Artemis” would mean so much.

This being is a whole hearted, very talented photographer. They show up for the community and give so much. Very quiet in person, yet when they speak every sentence could move a mountain.

It’s hard to trust in our ability to love after the “I love You” said so earnestly to another becomes a memory which holds different meaning. It causes us to sometimes wonder, how do I say those words to another person again with such certainty as before if it indeed may not be something that rings true to infinity. However, love is not a linear timeline. What was once true can both remain true but also remain in the past. Just because it is not the same now doesn’t mean it was a lie. It’s worth it to love again, perhaps a bit of hesitation is fair, but do not lock Yourself away from the possibility of falling again. You are the love. Your existence is the love. Your boundaries are Your love. Your hope is Your love. Your truths and survivals are Your love. Your breath is Your love. You are not broken. You are love transformed. Love shifted. And love enough.

#haveyouever #thingstodo #lgbtqia #fairycore

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Caption : It’s been a tough time for @artemis.awakening – and divorce can be really difficult. Especially when we have to fight so hard to be allowed to love at all. They were feeling really down after so I was hoping y’all could help show just how much family they have out here? Just comment below a kind word or a hello or a “You are loved Artemis” would mean so much. This being is a whole hearted, very talented photographer. They show up for the community and give so much. Very quiet in person, yet when they speak every sentence could move a mountain. It’s hard to trust in our ability to love after the “I love You” said so earnestly to another becomes a memory which holds different meaning. It causes us to sometimes wonder, how do I say those words to another person again with such certainty as before if it indeed may not be something that rings true to infinity. However, love is not a linear timeline. What was once true can both remain true but also remain in the past. Just because it is not the same now doesn’t mean it was a lie. It’s worth it to love again, perhaps a bit of hesitation is fair, but do not lock Yourself away from the possibility of falling again. You are the love. Your existence is the love. Your boundaries are Your love. Your hope is Your love. Your truths and survivals are Your love. Your breath is Your love. You are not broken. You are love transformed. Love shifted. And love enough. #haveyouever #thingstodo #lgbtqia #fairycore
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 32.5K Likes - Tell me your name- your true name, the one You know yourself to be- and we will say it back. Add Your pronouns for extra love. I will respond to every comment on this post made in the next 48 hours. Proud to be your family and see You as You.

I want to thank the amazing designers on @makingthecuttv for supporting me this month. These designs (like the one I’m wearing) have been awesome! They’ve been incredibly supportive of intersectional voices and a delight to watch on @amazonprimevideo . If You want to support them check their looks on @amazonfashion or @amazonfashioneu
#ad #genderqueer #fashion #lgbtqia #resource #trans #nonbinary You don’t need to be queer, trans or NB to post.

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Caption : Tell me your name- your true name, the one You know yourself to be- and we will say it back. Add Your pronouns for extra love. I will respond to every comment on this post made in the next 48 hours. Proud to be your family and see You as You. I want to thank the amazing designers on @makingthecuttv for supporting me this month. These designs (like the one I’m wearing) have been awesome! They’ve been incredibly supportive of intersectional voices and a delight to watch on @amazonprimevideo . If You want to support them check their looks on @amazonfashion or @amazonfashioneu #ad #genderqueer #fashion #lgbtqia #resource #trans #nonbinary You don’t need to be queer, trans or NB to post.
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 29.4K Likes - Paula is trying to do the right thing- but it can be confusing in this era of information. I know she will likely read this and the comments below, so if You have anything additional You want to say to her she will likely read it! Or if You just want to let her or Izz/Isabelle know that they aren’t alone- that could be lifesaving.
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One thing I rarely tell people is that I have a mantra I wrote and say whenever I get feedback from others on how I can be better. I go over it anytime I’ve made a mistake or proven I still have something to learn. (Because when I make a blunder, I’m notified of it usually by hundreds of people- so this truly became a necessity). This mantra I’ve found to be useful in this time of great shifting and education. Feel free to use it if You like- there’s nothing wrong if it’s not Your cup of tea. The mantra goes. “I am not afraid to grow. I am not afraid to evolve. I am not afraid to be corrected. I am not afraid to be educated. I am not afraid to try. I am not afraid to love.”

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I am not afraid to grow. I am not afraid to evolve. I am not afraid to be corrected. I am not afraid to be educated. I am not afraid to try. I am not afraid to love.

It is an honor to expand who I am and how I communicate. I consider it a necessary form of service and one of the purest ways to express my love. Listening. Applying. Shifting. What about You? Is growing hard sometimes?

For those who speak up or guide- please keep holding the world to account. You don’t need a blue check mark to have valid wisdom, education and contribution. If the world can be a better place, continue to say so. It won’t always be easy, but it’ll always be worth it. You are a person of important perspectives which when shared can often unlock welded doors of possibility.

#lgbtqia #trans #parenting #parentingmemes #dialogue #conversation #whatdoyouthink

(The posted screenshots reflect a real conversation. The images have been modified to fit this platform and protect the identity of the original communicator.)

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Caption : Paula is trying to do the right thing- but it can be confusing in this era of information. I know she will likely read this and the comments below, so if You have anything additional You want to say to her she will likely read it! Or if You just want to let her or Izz/Isabelle know that they aren’t alone- that could be lifesaving. ————————————- One thing I rarely tell people is that I have a mantra I wrote and say whenever I get feedback from others on how I can be better. I go over it anytime I’ve made a mistake or proven I still have something to learn. (Because when I make a blunder, I’m notified of it usually by hundreds of people- so this truly became a necessity). This mantra I’ve found to be useful in this time of great shifting and education. Feel free to use it if You like- there’s nothing wrong if it’s not Your cup of tea. The mantra goes. “I am not afraid to grow. I am not afraid to evolve. I am not afraid to be corrected. I am not afraid to be educated. I am not afraid to try. I am not afraid to love.” —————————— I am not afraid to grow. I am not afraid to evolve. I am not afraid to be corrected. I am not afraid to be educated. I am not afraid to try. I am not afraid to love. It is an honor to expand who I am and how I communicate. I consider it a necessary form of service and one of the purest ways to express my love. Listening. Applying. Shifting. What about You? Is growing hard sometimes? For those who speak up or guide- please keep holding the world to account. You don’t need a blue check mark to have valid wisdom, education and contribution. If the world can be a better place, continue to say so. It won’t always be easy, but it’ll always be worth it. You are a person of important perspectives which when shared can often unlock welded doors of possibility. #lgbtqia #trans #parenting #parentingmemes #dialogue #conversation #whatdoyouthink (The posted screenshots reflect a real conversation. The images have been modified to fit this platform and protect the identity of the original communicator.)
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Caption : See Link in Bio. Just got back from Ukraine, and finally am posting after much reflection. There’s a lot to talk about. Bombs, bullets, border guards and some of the most incredible human hearts. From this platform, incredible people like Yourself joined together to successfully guide and evacuate thousands of people to safety or across a neighboring border. Especially LGBTQ, BIPOC, disabled, and elderly folx. We have now officially become an NGO called SAFEBOW! However we got to a point where gay men, transwomen, non-binary beings and disabled folx with an M on their passport were unable to leave the country. Despite losing everything and/or being unfit morally or mentally for service in a war zone. They just sat in squalid conditions, sleeping on floors or in the dirt. Unable to enlist but unable to get a white slip to exit due to bias or overwhelmed systems. This sexist restriction (which often leads to trans erasure) is a mounting humanitarian crisis that people aren’t willing to talk about. One which has already had deadly consequences. This is why I went to advocate on the ground, and while we had a lot of success… the problem is bigger than our team can solve alone. We need Your help. Serving or remaining in a war zone should be a choice. Not a requirement. Period. No matter who You are, You should have the right to flee freely. Please call upon Zelensky to revisit this awful frankly antiquated enforcement- and to instead consider proposing a more compassionate approach. And if You want to evacuate , contact us. No matter who You are, we will do everything we can to assist You to to safety. SafeBow is for everyone. If You want to volunteer, we have room for anyone willing. 1 hour or 1 month- any amount of time is enough. We have multiple roles which are accessible and can be done from your homes. Sign up at Safebow.org . Or to donate, click the link in my bio , DM or see my stories. #ukraine #lgbtq
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Caption : GIVEAWAY! (But first) A lot of people don’t know that I trained to be a dominatrix for a while at the Gates in Emeryville, CA. As a queer person it seemed that the world of employment wasn’t very easily accessible and sex work seemed a safer route. While I was going through my training I was surprised to find out that this world of kink wasn’t what I was told it was. It was actually therapy. It was no touching. It was working people through their traumas. It was dialogue and consent. It was trust. While I didn’t stick with this profession- I did stick with what I learned… which was that it was ok to tell people what I wanted or needed in life. Not just the bedroom. I think a lot of us feel guilty asking for what we want- but I just want You to know that when You tell someone else what You want it gives them the ability to actually love You. Also what I took away is that I will always support safe sexual health spaces they save lives. That’s why I’m happy to partner with a couple of my favorites @hud_app and @shopspectrumboutitque to do a much deserved GIVEAWAY OF A FREE VIBRATOR! HUD is a dating app that takes an alternative, empowered, and inclusive approach to swiping. And their new “bedroom” feature lets you tell all your prospective partners exactly what you’re into, so you can get kinky quick! I even put mine on there 😇. Plus we all love a good toy, so I wanted give you a chance to win this amazing vibrator from Spectrum! To enter: – Tag a friend and tell them that they are worthy of being loved the way they want to be loved – Must be following @hud_app and @shopspectrumboutique – Must be 18 to win – US residents only (I WILL REPLY TO EVERY COMMENT FOR THE FIRST 24 HOURS) #giveaway #pridemonth #morethanwethink #whatsinyourbedroom #hudapp #spectrumboutique #ad
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 27.7K Likes - The results were different this time⬇️⬇️🦩

I’ve done this experiment prior to Covid-19 and in it I found that it was far more dangerous and confrontational to enter the women’s restroom in gender nonconformity. People hit, shouted, and even had me dragged out. However in a new 2022 study of over 75 binary bathrooms tested (in london area) things were noticeably shifted. I was stopped and confronted about an equal number of times in both restrooms. People in the mens room were more likely to get security involved than before. People in the womens room were more likely to accept that I was allowed to be in there if I explained. But people in the mens room were more likely to demand proof of some kind. Such as an ID or even use of urinals. Overall both were unsafe feeling at times. But to the credit- I felt safer in the womens room than the mens for the majority of the time (and for the first time since doing these experiments). Although in the womens room I have always felt a huge amount of empathy or guilt whenever my natural aesthetic scares someone because I know that fear is rooted in trauma which is valid. But yet- if I have to use the bathroom on my “birth certificate” then this is what a “woman’s room attendee looks like”. Even in a dress I can get reported in the “womens room” often as a product of transphobia when people assume I’m a transwoman. Typically my encounters, even if I’m hit by someone, lead to me holding them in their trauma and telling them it will be ok. That weighs a lot on my conscience sometimes- creating that amount of disturbance and anguish just by existing. We still have a long way to go to create safe places for people just to relieve themselves. But for my safety for now- if I just want to feel the safest and don’t have capacity to educate- I’ll be using the mens room in a collared shirt or jacket. That seems the safest combo. #socialexperiment #genderfluid #genderequality #iami #reveal

NOTE: The findings pertain to my personal experience. Different intersectionalities, individuals and locations may have different results. This was just me in this place at this time.

NOTE: Do not attempt to do these experiments alone.

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Caption : The results were different this time⬇️⬇️🦩 I’ve done this experiment prior to Covid-19 and in it I found that it was far more dangerous and confrontational to enter the women’s restroom in gender nonconformity. People hit, shouted, and even had me dragged out. However in a new 2022 study of over 75 binary bathrooms tested (in london area) things were noticeably shifted. I was stopped and confronted about an equal number of times in both restrooms. People in the mens room were more likely to get security involved than before. People in the womens room were more likely to accept that I was allowed to be in there if I explained. But people in the mens room were more likely to demand proof of some kind. Such as an ID or even use of urinals. Overall both were unsafe feeling at times. But to the credit- I felt safer in the womens room than the mens for the majority of the time (and for the first time since doing these experiments). Although in the womens room I have always felt a huge amount of empathy or guilt whenever my natural aesthetic scares someone because I know that fear is rooted in trauma which is valid. But yet- if I have to use the bathroom on my “birth certificate” then this is what a “woman’s room attendee looks like”. Even in a dress I can get reported in the “womens room” often as a product of transphobia when people assume I’m a transwoman. Typically my encounters, even if I’m hit by someone, lead to me holding them in their trauma and telling them it will be ok. That weighs a lot on my conscience sometimes- creating that amount of disturbance and anguish just by existing. We still have a long way to go to create safe places for people just to relieve themselves. But for my safety for now- if I just want to feel the safest and don’t have capacity to educate- I’ll be using the mens room in a collared shirt or jacket. That seems the safest combo. #socialexperiment #genderfluid #genderequality #iami #reveal NOTE: The findings pertain to my personal experience. Different intersectionalities, individuals and locations may have different results. This was just me in this place at this time. NOTE: Do not attempt to do these experiments alone.
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 27.7K Likes - What’s Your Pride outfit? And if You can’t wear one openly then what do You dream of one day wearing without fear?

Pride in Istanbul used to be one of the largest in Europe as well as the role until 2014. Every year since, the community has risked their safety, freedom and more to come together in the streets in solidarity. Nonviolently. With Pride. This year 373 documented people maybe more were arrested. They really deserve more support and international visibility to put pressure on the current government to immediately halt these oppressive actions.

Why was this a fashion video? Well, whenever we speak about these community obstacles our content is often pigeoned into a smaller section of the algorithm. By viewing this conversation through the lens of attire we break that algorithm and possibly outside the normal sphere of viewers.

This content was reviewed and approved by local Istanbul community members The involvement in this Pride was at invitation not insertion. Please make sure when joining any marginalized movement to check with the desires of local leaders and organizers first before assuming their needs for contributions.

#pride2022 #lgbtqia #fashion #reels #whatdoyouthink

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Caption : What’s Your Pride outfit? And if You can’t wear one openly then what do You dream of one day wearing without fear? Pride in Istanbul used to be one of the largest in Europe as well as the role until 2014. Every year since, the community has risked their safety, freedom and more to come together in the streets in solidarity. Nonviolently. With Pride. This year 373 documented people maybe more were arrested. They really deserve more support and international visibility to put pressure on the current government to immediately halt these oppressive actions. Why was this a fashion video? Well, whenever we speak about these community obstacles our content is often pigeoned into a smaller section of the algorithm. By viewing this conversation through the lens of attire we break that algorithm and possibly outside the normal sphere of viewers. This content was reviewed and approved by local Istanbul community members The involvement in this Pride was at invitation not insertion. Please make sure when joining any marginalized movement to check with the desires of local leaders and organizers first before assuming their needs for contributions. #pride2022 #lgbtqia #fashion #reels #whatdoyouthink
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 26K Likes - Often we are told to choose. Choose a label. Choose a name. Choose a pronoun. Choose a style. Choose. Choose. Choose. But You have already chosen- your cells and the universe has already chosen. You are You. It's that simple- and it can not always be defined by sound. Tell me one thing You love about Yourself that's unique below and I'll Cheers to that!

If You like exploring things as unique as Yourself, I just gave the new @tiamariadrink (available at Tesco) a shot- it's Matcha flavored?! And it was really great!
#TiaMariaMatcha #OneofaKind #DrinkResponsibly #LGBTQ #adv #takeyourmatchatime

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Caption : Often we are told to choose. Choose a label. Choose a name. Choose a pronoun. Choose a style. Choose. Choose. Choose. But You have already chosen- your cells and the universe has already chosen. You are You. It’s that simple- and it can not always be defined by sound. Tell me one thing You love about Yourself that’s unique below and I’ll Cheers to that! If You like exploring things as unique as Yourself, I just gave the new @tiamariadrink (available at Tesco) a shot- it’s Matcha flavored?! And it was really great! #TiaMariaMatcha #OneofaKind #DrinkResponsibly #LGBTQ #adv #takeyourmatchatime
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 25.3K Likes - Are you our chosen family, too? 👀👉👈

It may feel a bit disconnected to be “family” online—but everyone here who shares this space with us, just know, WE CHOOSE YOU! 💕💞💓

And we love you.

You’ve created a pathway for us, a safe space to create, and when things are toughest, you’ve inspired us with your personal stories, lessons, and advice to keep going. 🦋

What we can offer in return is something simple: unconditional, unrelenting, guaranteed safe space to rest without question. ✨ To be full of questions. To feel silent or loud. To shift direction and reinvent yourself.

We are more connected to love than we often realize. If you need an affirmation of that, or want to affirm others than head to the comments.

Say hello.

➡️ Do you feel connected to a chosen family online? How does your digital community comfort and inspire you?

The people here are all extensions of your journey and proof that you are never truly alone. You always have us. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎

We always have each other.

Love,
April Rain

🌈 @aprilkae @raindovemodel

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #bff #bffgoals #bestfriendgoals #friendship #friendshipgoals #genderfluid #genderqueer

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Caption : Are you our chosen family, too? 👀👉👈 It may feel a bit disconnected to be “family” online—but everyone here who shares this space with us, just know, WE CHOOSE YOU! 💕💞💓 And we love you. You’ve created a pathway for us, a safe space to create, and when things are toughest, you’ve inspired us with your personal stories, lessons, and advice to keep going. 🦋 What we can offer in return is something simple: unconditional, unrelenting, guaranteed safe space to rest without question. ✨ To be full of questions. To feel silent or loud. To shift direction and reinvent yourself. We are more connected to love than we often realize. If you need an affirmation of that, or want to affirm others than head to the comments. Say hello. ➡️ Do you feel connected to a chosen family online? How does your digital community comfort and inspire you? The people here are all extensions of your journey and proof that you are never truly alone. You always have us. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎 We always have each other. Love, April Rain 🌈 @aprilkae @raindovemodel #lgbtqia #lgbtq #bff #bffgoals #bestfriendgoals #friendship #friendshipgoals #genderfluid #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 24K Likes - What’s the genderless/all gender doll name they’d give to a Ken/Barbie hybrid?
Or are they all genderless? I love that Barbie and Ken just have universal smooth bumps under their pants and yet are both very clear on their identity and pronoun choice.

The world of Barbie was one I avoided growing up, yet felt compared to. I didn’t see myself or my closest friends represented by this very popular culture icon and didn’t give it a chance as a result. In fact, I was angry at it. Especially for how it culturally set a tone that fat bodies weren’t desired and that there were only two options of identity. Boy. Girl.

At McDonalds as a kid, on the rare opportunity that I went, they offered Barbie or Hot Wheels. I chose Hot Wheels every time. I didn’t need some piece of plastic reminding me that I wasn’t “ideal” by society.

However, over the past few years I got reintroduced to the world of Barbie. And while it has a lot of work to do, I have to say that I had missed all of the hard work the employees put into expanding out Barbies message world of friends to make it more inclusive. Conversations about body types, functioning, learning new things about new people- some of them were really high level things we all needed to hear.

What I took away from that was a reminder that people can change. And those people will change businesses. Politics. Schools. And communities. If we continue to share our stories and stick together- uplift messages of what we need- You be surprised at just how many others will expand as well.

#genderless #barbiethemovie #ken #lgbtqia #whatdoyouthink

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Caption : What’s the genderless/all gender doll name they’d give to a Ken/Barbie hybrid? Or are they all genderless? I love that Barbie and Ken just have universal smooth bumps under their pants and yet are both very clear on their identity and pronoun choice. The world of Barbie was one I avoided growing up, yet felt compared to. I didn’t see myself or my closest friends represented by this very popular culture icon and didn’t give it a chance as a result. In fact, I was angry at it. Especially for how it culturally set a tone that fat bodies weren’t desired and that there were only two options of identity. Boy. Girl. At McDonalds as a kid, on the rare opportunity that I went, they offered Barbie or Hot Wheels. I chose Hot Wheels every time. I didn’t need some piece of plastic reminding me that I wasn’t “ideal” by society. However, over the past few years I got reintroduced to the world of Barbie. And while it has a lot of work to do, I have to say that I had missed all of the hard work the employees put into expanding out Barbies message world of friends to make it more inclusive. Conversations about body types, functioning, learning new things about new people- some of them were really high level things we all needed to hear. What I took away from that was a reminder that people can change. And those people will change businesses. Politics. Schools. And communities. If we continue to share our stories and stick together- uplift messages of what we need- You be surprised at just how many others will expand as well. #genderless #barbiethemovie #ken #lgbtqia #whatdoyouthink
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 23.3K Likes - I AM old school. My identity is ancient. I am I. It doesn’t get any simpler than that. One of the oldest recorded philosophies in humanity.

It’s a wild world and You aren’t alone in class. I understand it may be exhausting to learn new language or pronouns. When someone invents language for themselves- that can take a second to get into the rhythm of as well. But brave soul- just know that Your journey will not go without love.

Throughout history it has always been recorded that one generation is often befuddled or exhausted or frustrated by the next/former. This is the natural cycle of evolution and cultural shift. But it doesn’t mean we need to be bitter or feel as if we are better. Let every being be. Try our best to see people as individuals instead of overarching ideas. And if You are ever feeling like it’s too much… find Your family here.

People with neopronouns or new sounds: we love You. It’s brave to create the uncreated or to live outside enforced expectation. You’re not broken- you’re expanding!

People who are trying their best to learn but are lagging: we are grateful for the gravel of the grit to try. Keep it up! It’s hard sometimes. But Your effort is not without witness or reward of closeness.

People who feel they haven’t arrived yet and are still journeying: We respect You and know that You are still whole as the You You are.

People who are just trying to be People: You are loved. You are loved. You are loved.

What’s one thing You “rebelled” against growing up?

#lovewins #reactionvideos #genderfluid #reelsvideo #foryoupage #lgbtqpia #lgbtqia #whatdoyouthink

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Caption : I AM old school. My identity is ancient. I am I. It doesn’t get any simpler than that. One of the oldest recorded philosophies in humanity. It’s a wild world and You aren’t alone in class. I understand it may be exhausting to learn new language or pronouns. When someone invents language for themselves- that can take a second to get into the rhythm of as well. But brave soul- just know that Your journey will not go without love. Throughout history it has always been recorded that one generation is often befuddled or exhausted or frustrated by the next/former. This is the natural cycle of evolution and cultural shift. But it doesn’t mean we need to be bitter or feel as if we are better. Let every being be. Try our best to see people as individuals instead of overarching ideas. And if You are ever feeling like it’s too much… find Your family here. People with neopronouns or new sounds: we love You. It’s brave to create the uncreated or to live outside enforced expectation. You’re not broken- you’re expanding! People who are trying their best to learn but are lagging: we are grateful for the gravel of the grit to try. Keep it up! It’s hard sometimes. But Your effort is not without witness or reward of closeness. People who feel they haven’t arrived yet and are still journeying: We respect You and know that You are still whole as the You You are. People who are just trying to be People: You are loved. You are loved. You are loved. What’s one thing You “rebelled” against growing up? #lovewins #reactionvideos #genderfluid #reelsvideo #foryoupage #lgbtqpia #lgbtqia #whatdoyouthink
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 22.7K Likes - I can’t deny biology right? I’m a boy or girl and that’s it. It’s ALL on the birth certificate. While I understand the desire to homogenize who I am by who has existed before me and the possible basic adjacent characteristics I may have to others from flesh to mind- to call me simply “She” or “He” feels akin to lazily saying one sees “a color of the rainbow”. In reality there are over 18 Decillion colors to perceive. (It’s true look it up). It’s not accurate enough for me to be called “she” or “he”. It’s not fair enough. It’s not true enough.

When one talks about me as a person and says “SHE did this”- what does “SHE” even do to the conversation? Why SHE? What accuracy is provided to me by the term “SHE”? When so many have been called “SHE” before? A vision begins to pain in the recipients head, a slew of expectation from all the other “SHE”s they’ve ever met. How I could be, what I could be wearing, why I could be doing what I’m doing, what I may do next. All based on what other “she’s” have done. Not based on what what I have done as I. Frankly, it’s seemingly a lot of extra work for everyone. And the recipient has to unwind what they know about “she” to add me to their expectations.

I flinch at the sexpectations and expectations, obstacles, laws and looks that are based around the sound of a “gender”/“sex”. I refuse to participate.

When it comes to others using “he” or “she” I will always respect the language and identity of an individual that they have for themselves. Many have fought, suffered, survived & sacrificed for the right to be respected in these sounds. I don’t see my way of existing/identifying as superior to anyone else’s. It’s just what works for me personally and it’s what feels right.
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If someone can’t use the language I use for myself, I’ve let go of trying to control that. I do not need verbal validation for my truth to exist. However, should one call me She or He and treat me to a lesser standard on the basis of sexpectation affiliated to those sounds- I WILL challenge them with all the power of my being.

Am I safe with You? (Will answer as many comments as possible!)
#genderqueer #lgbtq #memesdaily #iami 📸 @colesprouse

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Caption : I can’t deny biology right? I’m a boy or girl and that’s it. It’s ALL on the birth certificate. While I understand the desire to homogenize who I am by who has existed before me and the possible basic adjacent characteristics I may have to others from flesh to mind- to call me simply “She” or “He” feels akin to lazily saying one sees “a color of the rainbow”. In reality there are over 18 Decillion colors to perceive. (It’s true look it up). It’s not accurate enough for me to be called “she” or “he”. It’s not fair enough. It’s not true enough. When one talks about me as a person and says “SHE did this”- what does “SHE” even do to the conversation? Why SHE? What accuracy is provided to me by the term “SHE”? When so many have been called “SHE” before? A vision begins to pain in the recipients head, a slew of expectation from all the other “SHE”s they’ve ever met. How I could be, what I could be wearing, why I could be doing what I’m doing, what I may do next. All based on what other “she’s” have done. Not based on what what I have done as I. Frankly, it’s seemingly a lot of extra work for everyone. And the recipient has to unwind what they know about “she” to add me to their expectations. I flinch at the sexpectations and expectations, obstacles, laws and looks that are based around the sound of a “gender”/“sex”. I refuse to participate. When it comes to others using “he” or “she” I will always respect the language and identity of an individual that they have for themselves. Many have fought, suffered, survived & sacrificed for the right to be respected in these sounds. I don’t see my way of existing/identifying as superior to anyone else’s. It’s just what works for me personally and it’s what feels right. ——————————- If someone can’t use the language I use for myself, I’ve let go of trying to control that. I do not need verbal validation for my truth to exist. However, should one call me She or He and treat me to a lesser standard on the basis of sexpectation affiliated to those sounds- I WILL challenge them with all the power of my being. Am I safe with You? (Will answer as many comments as possible!) #genderqueer #lgbtq #memesdaily #iami 📸 @colesprouse
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Caption : For anyone who feels alone tonight- find Your community here. Right now. Type *HUG* in the comments and for the next 24 hours I’ll type *hug* back. Some other people may send you a hug too! Why? Because You deserve acknowledgement. You deserve my time. You deserve a moment that is all about You. I want to gift that to You because You have gifted me this space to raise voice, money, awareness and more. You’ve changed my life simply by clicking that “follow” button. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You for getting me off the streets. Thank You for giving me support when I need to lean. Thank You for creating a community I can find anywhere in the world. This image by the way was taken for a @ukgap series featuring different voices. They invested into a really diverse array of community members and let people say what they wanted unfiltered. The crew was also reflective of our community. I really appreciate that. The reason I decided to hop on this shoot was as an homage to my roots. Gap was a working class brand in the USA. It’s what we wore because it was affordable and durable. While I was on the streets I had a Gap hoodie that lasted a full two years of hardcore outside conditions. It later became a comfort item when I got more stable. I’ve at times been teased for my Gap hoodie- but I don’t care. It’s survival represents my survival as a transient queer person. And Im not ashamed of that. Thanks for letting me tell my story @femalenarratives and @ukgap . Thank You for putting funds into our community all year round even outside of Pride. As with all Pride collaborations- funds from this post will be going to house transient LGBTQ individuals. If You need housing and are on the street DM me to register on the funding list. I am working hard to put revenue generated off this platform into housing our community. Don’t be afraid to ask. #pridemonth #pride #genderfluid #genderqueerpride #bi #demi #lovewins #hug #findme #lovecommunity Photographer: @rosalineshahnavaz Stylist: @naifhen Make-up Artist: @poppyellah Videographer: @rancefilm partner @kelsey_ellison
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 22.1K Likes - Some of these suggestions are a bit controversial- but I’m gonna take a chance here. As You know, I bleed but I don’t identify as female. This menstrual cycle I did a bit of journaling on a few basic things regarding menstrual products that I’d like to see change before I leave this earth.

-Dont use blue liquid in illustrations of menstrual blood on ads. Use something that looks like actual blood. Destigmatize bleeding by not tiptoeing. Be casually literal. We aren’t afraid to show placenta birth blood and blood from murders or fights on tv right?

-Get rid of the term “feminine products” in stores and adverts. That descriptor not only does nothing to illustrate the function of the product, but it’s also not accurate. And it puts a target on anyone that is purchasing but not “feminine” by societal standards.

-If a school has a uniform, make menstrual underwear a free part of it. For any student who requests them. No requirements to carry pads/tampons into school, makes menstruation part of school spirit, and keeps people supported.

-Educate people about longterm usage items such as menstrual panties- phase out single use items as accessibility picks up.

-Put menstrual product dispensers in all restrooms despite the “gender/sex” on the door.

These are just a few things, what do You think? Anything You don’t agree with and why? The comments are being watched so whatever You say will possibly have a real impact!

Btw these panties are of course @chantelle_paris . And I'm really proud to say that they are rolling into a new era of inclusive language surrounding their menstrual underwear. I tried them during my menstrual cycle and they legit worked- which surprised me because tbh I was skeptical. And they didn’t feel like a diaper.

#ChantellePeriodPanties #ChantelleLife #genderqueer #menstrualhygieneday

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Caption : Some of these suggestions are a bit controversial- but I’m gonna take a chance here. As You know, I bleed but I don’t identify as female. This menstrual cycle I did a bit of journaling on a few basic things regarding menstrual products that I’d like to see change before I leave this earth. -Dont use blue liquid in illustrations of menstrual blood on ads. Use something that looks like actual blood. Destigmatize bleeding by not tiptoeing. Be casually literal. We aren’t afraid to show placenta birth blood and blood from murders or fights on tv right? -Get rid of the term “feminine products” in stores and adverts. That descriptor not only does nothing to illustrate the function of the product, but it’s also not accurate. And it puts a target on anyone that is purchasing but not “feminine” by societal standards. -If a school has a uniform, make menstrual underwear a free part of it. For any student who requests them. No requirements to carry pads/tampons into school, makes menstruation part of school spirit, and keeps people supported. -Educate people about longterm usage items such as menstrual panties- phase out single use items as accessibility picks up. -Put menstrual product dispensers in all restrooms despite the “gender/sex” on the door. These are just a few things, what do You think? Anything You don’t agree with and why? The comments are being watched so whatever You say will possibly have a real impact! Btw these panties are of course @chantelle_paris . And I’m really proud to say that they are rolling into a new era of inclusive language surrounding their menstrual underwear. I tried them during my menstrual cycle and they legit worked- which surprised me because tbh I was skeptical. And they didn’t feel like a diaper. #ChantellePeriodPanties #ChantelleLife #genderqueer #menstrualhygieneday
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 21.8K Likes - It’s never ceases to amaze me how complicated such a simple concept is. How dangerous. How upsetting. To say simply “I am I” with no follow up or specifics of label. No pronouns.

There is a feeling of being threatened. As if I’ve betrayed an entire collective of people for saying “Refer to me by the sound I have chosen for myself, Rain. Refer to me as my actions, expressions and intentions. Refer to me as Your personal experience with me.”

Often, they insist I MUST have a pronoun. I MUST have an idea adhered to my name that can be referred to in its place so that I am a collective idea/energy. So that I am a familiar pattern of speech. But I refuse.

Call me as You wish, I do not bark at those who chose a familiar pronoun and run with it. I will not spite You or correct You as it’s not personally offensive to me. I understand the addiction to familiarity and tradition. However, I will always feel a little closer, more trusting, and more connected to those who those who try to use only my name. Because it means, one cares . And regardless of care, I will reciprocate that respect to You too. Our keys to freedom are interlocked within each other. We can choose to provide it or choose to cage those around us.

But know this. No matter what one says or does to try to shackle me to a “sound”, they will never successfully splinter the truth of who I am. Because it is indeed the simplest form of the truth. I am I.

(These images were by @trevorsorbie who decided to rid gendered pricing from their salons. They took a “risk” that paid out successfully. In doing so they also freed their customers from sexpectations.)

Photog: @austnfischer
Creative Director : @giuseppebstelitano
Hair: @tizidima
MUA: @miriamspanumakeup
Styling: @francescakoof

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Caption : It’s never ceases to amaze me how complicated such a simple concept is. How dangerous. How upsetting. To say simply “I am I” with no follow up or specifics of label. No pronouns. There is a feeling of being threatened. As if I’ve betrayed an entire collective of people for saying “Refer to me by the sound I have chosen for myself, Rain. Refer to me as my actions, expressions and intentions. Refer to me as Your personal experience with me.” Often, they insist I MUST have a pronoun. I MUST have an idea adhered to my name that can be referred to in its place so that I am a collective idea/energy. So that I am a familiar pattern of speech. But I refuse. Call me as You wish, I do not bark at those who chose a familiar pronoun and run with it. I will not spite You or correct You as it’s not personally offensive to me. I understand the addiction to familiarity and tradition. However, I will always feel a little closer, more trusting, and more connected to those who those who try to use only my name. Because it means, one cares . And regardless of care, I will reciprocate that respect to You too. Our keys to freedom are interlocked within each other. We can choose to provide it or choose to cage those around us. But know this. No matter what one says or does to try to shackle me to a “sound”, they will never successfully splinter the truth of who I am. Because it is indeed the simplest form of the truth. I am I. (These images were by @trevorsorbie who decided to rid gendered pricing from their salons. They took a “risk” that paid out successfully. In doing so they also freed their customers from sexpectations.) Photog: @austnfischer Creative Director : @giuseppebstelitano Hair: @tizidima MUA: @miriamspanumakeup Styling: @francescakoof
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 21.7K Likes - It’s my Birthday! And I’ve been thinking a lot about You- and Us! You may have noticed that over the past couple years- I’ve not posted very often. Partially because I’ve been on a journey, trying to figure out the best way to fully realize what I was born to do. Partially because I genuinely never thought I’d live this long. It’s been a wild day processing that I’ve even survived to this point. Survived society, survived fate, and survived myself. I’ve held back posting often because so many beings seem like Saints on this platform- and many people seem to be seeking that Sainthood for themselves. The truth is- my path to where I am has been a bumpy ride and I’ve faltered, stumbled, made mistakes and poor choices at times. I’ve never really been a pure person, because I’ve done a lot of things to survive that aren’t easy to talk about. While I’ve always tried to be a person of service- I’ve not always felt worthy of receiving help myself. However, the past couple years I’ve dedicated it to volunteering on everything from cleaning up after the Australian wildfires to organizing protests with Justice for Black Lives to delivering medication to shielding people during COVID. What was my place in the world and what was the corner I was meant to pick up? And it finally dawned on me. This space over the next year will be dedicated to being a space for anyone else trying to grow too- anyone who has faltered, stumbled or just needs to rest. Anyone trying to be better today than they were tomorrow. Anyone who believes that love is worth more than money. Anyone who has been abandoned or homeless in any sort of way. Anyone who enjoys, conflict resolution, fashion, film and activism. I’m not going to hide quietly anymore. I’ll be posting 3 days a week, highlighting the world, joy, and even showing l bts stuff of everyday life. (Something I also hid- because I felt it wasn’t important to post). Buckle up- this year will be the best yet! #lgbtq🌈 #genderqueer #birthday #lovewins

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Caption : It’s my Birthday! And I’ve been thinking a lot about You- and Us! You may have noticed that over the past couple years- I’ve not posted very often. Partially because I’ve been on a journey, trying to figure out the best way to fully realize what I was born to do. Partially because I genuinely never thought I’d live this long. It’s been a wild day processing that I’ve even survived to this point. Survived society, survived fate, and survived myself. I’ve held back posting often because so many beings seem like Saints on this platform- and many people seem to be seeking that Sainthood for themselves. The truth is- my path to where I am has been a bumpy ride and I’ve faltered, stumbled, made mistakes and poor choices at times. I’ve never really been a pure person, because I’ve done a lot of things to survive that aren’t easy to talk about. While I’ve always tried to be a person of service- I’ve not always felt worthy of receiving help myself. However, the past couple years I’ve dedicated it to volunteering on everything from cleaning up after the Australian wildfires to organizing protests with Justice for Black Lives to delivering medication to shielding people during COVID. What was my place in the world and what was the corner I was meant to pick up? And it finally dawned on me. This space over the next year will be dedicated to being a space for anyone else trying to grow too- anyone who has faltered, stumbled or just needs to rest. Anyone trying to be better today than they were tomorrow. Anyone who believes that love is worth more than money. Anyone who has been abandoned or homeless in any sort of way. Anyone who enjoys, conflict resolution, fashion, film and activism. I’m not going to hide quietly anymore. I’ll be posting 3 days a week, highlighting the world, joy, and even showing l bts stuff of everyday life. (Something I also hid- because I felt it wasn’t important to post). Buckle up- this year will be the best yet! #lgbtq🌈 #genderqueer #birthday #lovewins
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 21.7K Likes - Contains References to Recognizing Abuse: This being goes by the pseudonym “CARRIE” and 1 year later she is safely in a new space… but the process wasn’t easy. It took a lot of healing.

The other being was visited by community members and mental health professionals and is now in a much healthier place but the work is ongoing.

Abuse can exist in all formats of relationships. Yet in the LGBTQPIAD community we can really overlook it or excuse from our partner or ourselves more than other dynamics… because we DO understand the impacts of trauma. Because love IS especially precious and hard won. Because we don’t want people to think we are unhealthy as a community… since they already try to demonize us for so many other things.

We often stay in dynamics long than we should and we often don’t get help because it’s not affordable, accessible, or it terrifies us. But we need it- all humans need and deserve support through their traumas and life.

If You are a person who doesn’t feel safe with Your partner, heard, equal or loved- just know that we are here to support whatever journey You need to take to be in a safe space. You are not a bad person or weak for stepping away. And stepping away doesn’t mean that your relationship has to end- it simply sets a boundary that it has to improve for You to jump back in.

I know resources are severely underfunded in many places to get assistance- but we will do our best. Look at local organizations and don’t be afraid to lean. And if You are part of the queer community- it doesn’t mean You need to only look at queer resources for assistance. These are many food shelters, government programs, and other charities related to violence survival available for You. A few places I want to shout out is @rainn @trevorproject and @galopuk there are so many more. Feel free to tag one below- let’s make this post a resource. And also- feel free to let “CARRIE” know that leaving was the right choice. It was one of the hardest things she’s had to do.

#lgbtqia #lovewins #survivor #goodnews #dialogue #memesdaily
(This is an older conversation which has been modified to fit this platform format. The events in this dialogue are true.)

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Caption : Contains References to Recognizing Abuse: This being goes by the pseudonym “CARRIE” and 1 year later she is safely in a new space… but the process wasn’t easy. It took a lot of healing. The other being was visited by community members and mental health professionals and is now in a much healthier place but the work is ongoing. Abuse can exist in all formats of relationships. Yet in the LGBTQPIAD community we can really overlook it or excuse from our partner or ourselves more than other dynamics… because we DO understand the impacts of trauma. Because love IS especially precious and hard won. Because we don’t want people to think we are unhealthy as a community… since they already try to demonize us for so many other things. We often stay in dynamics long than we should and we often don’t get help because it’s not affordable, accessible, or it terrifies us. But we need it- all humans need and deserve support through their traumas and life. If You are a person who doesn’t feel safe with Your partner, heard, equal or loved- just know that we are here to support whatever journey You need to take to be in a safe space. You are not a bad person or weak for stepping away. And stepping away doesn’t mean that your relationship has to end- it simply sets a boundary that it has to improve for You to jump back in. I know resources are severely underfunded in many places to get assistance- but we will do our best. Look at local organizations and don’t be afraid to lean. And if You are part of the queer community- it doesn’t mean You need to only look at queer resources for assistance. These are many food shelters, government programs, and other charities related to violence survival available for You. A few places I want to shout out is @rainn @trevorproject and @galopuk there are so many more. Feel free to tag one below- let’s make this post a resource. And also- feel free to let “CARRIE” know that leaving was the right choice. It was one of the hardest things she’s had to do. #lgbtqia #lovewins #survivor #goodnews #dialogue #memesdaily (This is an older conversation which has been modified to fit this platform format. The events in this dialogue are true.)
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 21.5K Likes - According to my birth certificate, I am appropriately dressed today. This is what a pretty ‘girl’ looks like. 😉 If You are AFAB and look like this in a dress too- I want You to know You don’t need to identify as non-binary or trans. You can still identify as feminine and female. This IS what a pretty girl looks like. You ARE what a pretty girl looks like. Our identities are not exclusively our aesthetics. Do You agree?

Speaking of which I go this dress from @makingthecuttv by @amazonprimevideo - it was the winning look! The designers this season are also pushing the boundaries of fashion dialogue and I think it’s important to see this happening on such a mainstream platform. If You like what I’m wearing (or anything from my next couple posts featuring Making the Cut looks) You can click the link in my bio to snag it off from @amazonfashion @amazonfashioneu !

#Makingthecut #AD #genderqueer #lgbtq🌈 #lovewins #genderisthematrix

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Caption : According to my birth certificate, I am appropriately dressed today. This is what a pretty ‘girl’ looks like. 😉 If You are AFAB and look like this in a dress too- I want You to know You don’t need to identify as non-binary or trans. You can still identify as feminine and female. This IS what a pretty girl looks like. You ARE what a pretty girl looks like. Our identities are not exclusively our aesthetics. Do You agree? Speaking of which I go this dress from @makingthecuttv by @amazonprimevideo – it was the winning look! The designers this season are also pushing the boundaries of fashion dialogue and I think it’s important to see this happening on such a mainstream platform. If You like what I’m wearing (or anything from my next couple posts featuring Making the Cut looks) You can click the link in my bio to snag it off from @amazonfashion @amazonfashioneu ! #Makingthecut #AD #genderqueer #lgbtq🌈 #lovewins #genderisthematrix
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 20.3K Likes - This comparison Made the Cut. Lol is this Tim Gunn look-a-like comment accurate? Who are You told You look like? Also speaking of which did You know that @makingthecuttv is back on @amazonprimevideo ? I’ll be supporting the designers by watching and wearing some of their looks over the next month! If You like what You see, You can support them by shopping their look on @amazonfashioneu #makingthecut #lgbtq #fashion #comparison #sidebyside #ad

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Caption : This comparison Made the Cut. Lol is this Tim Gunn look-a-like comment accurate? Who are You told You look like? Also speaking of which did You know that @makingthecuttv is back on @amazonprimevideo ? I’ll be supporting the designers by watching and wearing some of their looks over the next month! If You like what You see, You can support them by shopping their look on @amazonfashioneu #makingthecut #lgbtq #fashion #comparison #sidebyside #ad
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 20.3K Likes - I hadn’t posted on IG in a while because I’d been struggling emotionally. Not typically a New Years Resolution person, however this year mine was to choose to exist everyday of 2023. Really proud to say I’m still here and working through it. ❤️ Lost a lot this year, risked a lot this year, and experienced a lot of hard knocks. From loss of loved ones via cancer to war to love- I thought I was good at compartmentalizing things that didn’t turn out well. It was a superpower I had obtained from living on the streets and moving about so much. Turns out, when I finally had a moment to sit still something happened that I wasn’t expecting. In the situation of survival which requires fight, flight, or freeze- I tend to friend. When You don’t feel good- do good. But I found myself in the peculiar situation where I didn’t DO at all. I froze. FREEZE.

See- I had kept myself busy busy busy working on any causes and issues but my own. I became an excellent coach and horrible player. Poured my soul into the souls of others and found value in providing value. When value should’ve already been felt regardless. Able to navigate others through chaos and unable to even breathe in the direction of my own. A lot of hard lessons were learned. A lot of growth I felt unprepared for was suddenly demanded. So. I froze. Pause. Process. The flood that occurred of all the tears uncried and all the personal needs neglected suffocated and seemed impossible to gasp through. The grief and grit. Every single day of 2023 has been a choice I made to be here. Here I am.

After a 30 day detox from the mainfeed, I’m now ready to return with 12 new pieces of content created with the incredible @sareh.ovey - an Iranian refugee who was forced to flee Iran after photographing some clients without their hijabs. Massively talented human, Sareh now lives in Turkey and is working to resettle life. If anyone likes Sareh’s work and is interested in a Collab, Sareh can shoot, edit, and do all the design for photos videos. A goal this year is to get Sareh an opp to shoot with @milanfashionweek - as they have pledged towards integrating global change initiatives.

#LGBTQIA #activism #lovewins #stillhere

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Caption : I hadn’t posted on IG in a while because I’d been struggling emotionally. Not typically a New Years Resolution person, however this year mine was to choose to exist everyday of 2023. Really proud to say I’m still here and working through it. ❤️ Lost a lot this year, risked a lot this year, and experienced a lot of hard knocks. From loss of loved ones via cancer to war to love- I thought I was good at compartmentalizing things that didn’t turn out well. It was a superpower I had obtained from living on the streets and moving about so much. Turns out, when I finally had a moment to sit still something happened that I wasn’t expecting. In the situation of survival which requires fight, flight, or freeze- I tend to friend. When You don’t feel good- do good. But I found myself in the peculiar situation where I didn’t DO at all. I froze. FREEZE. See- I had kept myself busy busy busy working on any causes and issues but my own. I became an excellent coach and horrible player. Poured my soul into the souls of others and found value in providing value. When value should’ve already been felt regardless. Able to navigate others through chaos and unable to even breathe in the direction of my own. A lot of hard lessons were learned. A lot of growth I felt unprepared for was suddenly demanded. So. I froze. Pause. Process. The flood that occurred of all the tears uncried and all the personal needs neglected suffocated and seemed impossible to gasp through. The grief and grit. Every single day of 2023 has been a choice I made to be here. Here I am. After a 30 day detox from the mainfeed, I’m now ready to return with 12 new pieces of content created with the incredible @sareh.ovey – an Iranian refugee who was forced to flee Iran after photographing some clients without their hijabs. Massively talented human, Sareh now lives in Turkey and is working to resettle life. If anyone likes Sareh’s work and is interested in a Collab, Sareh can shoot, edit, and do all the design for photos videos. A goal this year is to get Sareh an opp to shoot with @milanfashionweek – as they have pledged towards integrating global change initiatives. #LGBTQIA #activism #lovewins #stillhere
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 19.7K Likes - Anyone else feel like a character who hasn’t quite been written yet? Let’s get writers, directors and producers thinking beyond the basics. What’s a character type You wish You could see on the screen that hadn’t been highlighted before. (Or enough)? Do You feel like there’s any character out there that really has captured an adjacency to who You are?

To be fair I never felt represented on screen. I can’t think of a single character that I really felt in alignment with. It’s kind of lonely sometimes but also oddly affirming to be unknown.

Responding to the first 200 comments to check in and connect. Love You very much family beings.

#wednesday #lgbtqia #transition #transitionreels #wtfisthis #genderreveal #dialogue

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Caption : Anyone else feel like a character who hasn’t quite been written yet? Let’s get writers, directors and producers thinking beyond the basics. What’s a character type You wish You could see on the screen that hadn’t been highlighted before. (Or enough)? Do You feel like there’s any character out there that really has captured an adjacency to who You are? To be fair I never felt represented on screen. I can’t think of a single character that I really felt in alignment with. It’s kind of lonely sometimes but also oddly affirming to be unknown. Responding to the first 200 comments to check in and connect. Love You very much family beings. #wednesday #lgbtqia #transition #transitionreels #wtfisthis #genderreveal #dialogue
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 18.5K Likes - It’s my birthday! Typically I share a video of smashing a cupcake into my face because I’m not sure how to process the passage of “time” haha. But this year I realized that I’ve spent my entire “adulthood” living like I was going to die. Unable to make long term plans, friends, spaces or visions. Being in the moment. That has allowed me to do INCREDIBLE things but also has lead to a lot of detriments and disappointments. We are often told through films or news that we will not have a long life and that the life we WILL have is highly likely to be solely suffering. Yet, even in places of great darkness on this planet people have shown me that joy, pride, romance, and light can still exist in our lives. I don’t know if You need to know this- but You CAN do hard things. You can do “impossible” things. You can find joy and purpose and power. You are loved. Here on this page and in this community we love You. So very very much. You deserve long term vision and investment. You deserve more than what You may have been told You will “have to settle for”.

Thanks to those that made a safe space for me to make this video. It was hard to shoot 🥺 If You like the work I do and want to give something in this birthday- You can either send a tip to the PayPal link in my bio (very grateful for the support!)🥰 , comment here that You are one of the folx that loves the community as well/ a resource suggestion for those needing support, or share a meaningful hashtag like #mahsaamini or #trevorproject to keep the movements up.

#lgbtq🌈 #birthday

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Caption : It’s my birthday! Typically I share a video of smashing a cupcake into my face because I’m not sure how to process the passage of “time” haha. But this year I realized that I’ve spent my entire “adulthood” living like I was going to die. Unable to make long term plans, friends, spaces or visions. Being in the moment. That has allowed me to do INCREDIBLE things but also has lead to a lot of detriments and disappointments. We are often told through films or news that we will not have a long life and that the life we WILL have is highly likely to be solely suffering. Yet, even in places of great darkness on this planet people have shown me that joy, pride, romance, and light can still exist in our lives. I don’t know if You need to know this- but You CAN do hard things. You can do “impossible” things. You can find joy and purpose and power. You are loved. Here on this page and in this community we love You. So very very much. You deserve long term vision and investment. You deserve more than what You may have been told You will “have to settle for”. Thanks to those that made a safe space for me to make this video. It was hard to shoot 🥺 If You like the work I do and want to give something in this birthday- You can either send a tip to the PayPal link in my bio (very grateful for the support!)🥰 , comment here that You are one of the folx that loves the community as well/ a resource suggestion for those needing support, or share a meaningful hashtag like #mahsaamini or #trevorproject to keep the movements up. #lgbtq🌈 #birthday
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 18.1K Likes - Which are YOU? Drag Queen? Drag King? Drag Thing? I took a long time to try Drag- this was my first! This video was inspired by the musical Everybody's Talking About Jamie- which has been adapted by Prime Video into a film! As a person who just identifies as I- I know I am all and nothing. For a while, I thought You could only dress in drag that was the opposite of Your gender identity. Turns out Drag is about being an extension of an identity. Any identity. Most of my life is spent in a form of drag. Everyone everywhere sees me differently. Some see me as male. Female. Alien. Invisible. Existential. I’m in a constant form of performance unintentionally. So I thought drag would be exhausting. Maybe even a bit traumatizing. But it turns out that it opened a door to a feeling of fun, freedom and therapy I never knew was possible. So here is- the first of many drag videos to come. For anyone interested in checking out the film- it's a queer coming of age story about a 16 year old who dreams of becoming a Drag queen for his future career. It has an interesting community, a supportive parent, and tackles some important dialogue. It inspired me to give creativity a try- and maybe it can inspire you too! Thanks for making this come to life @primevideouk #JamieMovie #DragCulture #LGBTQ #Genderqueer AD

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Caption : Which are YOU? Drag Queen? Drag King? Drag Thing? I took a long time to try Drag- this was my first! This video was inspired by the musical Everybody’s Talking About Jamie- which has been adapted by Prime Video into a film! As a person who just identifies as I- I know I am all and nothing. For a while, I thought You could only dress in drag that was the opposite of Your gender identity. Turns out Drag is about being an extension of an identity. Any identity. Most of my life is spent in a form of drag. Everyone everywhere sees me differently. Some see me as male. Female. Alien. Invisible. Existential. I’m in a constant form of performance unintentionally. So I thought drag would be exhausting. Maybe even a bit traumatizing. But it turns out that it opened a door to a feeling of fun, freedom and therapy I never knew was possible. So here is- the first of many drag videos to come. For anyone interested in checking out the film- it’s a queer coming of age story about a 16 year old who dreams of becoming a Drag queen for his future career. It has an interesting community, a supportive parent, and tackles some important dialogue. It inspired me to give creativity a try- and maybe it can inspire you too! Thanks for making this come to life @primevideouk #JamieMovie #DragCulture #LGBTQ #Genderqueer AD
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 17.9K Likes - If You are in a space with a family member where You are scared to come out or You are currently being told that Your sexuality/identity isnt ok- I want You to know that You have permission to keep breathing. Keep moving. Keep investing in Yourself. Through time, space, unapologetic unwavering self love- things WILL change. I promise they will. Perhaps the person will shift their perspective. Perhaps You will shift Your priorities. Perhaps time will shift circumstances or context. My parent @mothernaturesmountain is an incredible person. She lives off the grid in the forest, a healer and herbalist. She taught me a lot of important lessons growing up- especially around how to forage, survive and be patient. We bonded even closer when my parents divorced after an abusive relationship and it felt like it was just her and I against a naysaying world. But then in highschool she discovered I was queer. And it didn’t go over well. At the time I was ashamed of who I was. Deeply. As a Christian I felt I was angering God and endangering the emotional health of my grandparents. I also felt- after everything my parent did for me the least I could do is just be normal. I never thought of being queer as a life of hardship for myself- but rather for my family who would have to be affiliated with me. So I tried to make up for it by taking myself out of the equation. I ran away across the country. Determined that I’d rather be homeless than a burden. And I was transient for years. Often my parent offered aid but I felt I didn’t deserve to take it because I felt guilty. Foggy cold nights, sleeping in my car trunk, in backyards and 24hr McDonald’s, broken tent cities, arrested for stealing food from WholeFoods and underwear from Target, dating people just to avoid being alone- I made myself a mess. Drinking. Lying. Hiding. Even when I started to stabilize. So many people wanted to love me but I couldn’t trust them. I was always an arms length apart from anyone I really liked to avoid losing them by never embracing them fully. But then one day my parent reached out in a way that was so pure. It began this healing process. And I couldn’t love anyone more than her. #queer #pride

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Caption : If You are in a space with a family member where You are scared to come out or You are currently being told that Your sexuality/identity isnt ok- I want You to know that You have permission to keep breathing. Keep moving. Keep investing in Yourself. Through time, space, unapologetic unwavering self love- things WILL change. I promise they will. Perhaps the person will shift their perspective. Perhaps You will shift Your priorities. Perhaps time will shift circumstances or context. My parent @mothernaturesmountain is an incredible person. She lives off the grid in the forest, a healer and herbalist. She taught me a lot of important lessons growing up- especially around how to forage, survive and be patient. We bonded even closer when my parents divorced after an abusive relationship and it felt like it was just her and I against a naysaying world. But then in highschool she discovered I was queer. And it didn’t go over well. At the time I was ashamed of who I was. Deeply. As a Christian I felt I was angering God and endangering the emotional health of my grandparents. I also felt- after everything my parent did for me the least I could do is just be normal. I never thought of being queer as a life of hardship for myself- but rather for my family who would have to be affiliated with me. So I tried to make up for it by taking myself out of the equation. I ran away across the country. Determined that I’d rather be homeless than a burden. And I was transient for years. Often my parent offered aid but I felt I didn’t deserve to take it because I felt guilty. Foggy cold nights, sleeping in my car trunk, in backyards and 24hr McDonald’s, broken tent cities, arrested for stealing food from WholeFoods and underwear from Target, dating people just to avoid being alone- I made myself a mess. Drinking. Lying. Hiding. Even when I started to stabilize. So many people wanted to love me but I couldn’t trust them. I was always an arms length apart from anyone I really liked to avoid losing them by never embracing them fully. But then one day my parent reached out in a way that was so pure. It began this healing process. And I couldn’t love anyone more than her. #queer #pride
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 17.6K Likes - What I wear is not my gender. At least not for me personally. Both of these are just extensions of my existence. They are not masculine or feminine to me. They do not define my sexuality. They are not intended to illustrate my political beliefs. They are just as they are. Things I like to wear when the weather gets warm. Illustrations of my personal aesthetic and artistic interests.

And yet somehow, as much as I strive to steel off the obstacle of existing outside expectations- as much as I say to myself “do what You want, forget the gazes, giggles, glares and gasps.” I find myself processing everyday that while what I wear is not meant to be a battle against society- it does indeed wage war on the perception of “what, who, and how one should be in society”. It makes a seemingly simple activity like swimming the defiance of potential death and a political debate unsolicited on the beach.

Does everything I do need to be something in which I have to survive? Must I accept that my existence is resistance and trick myself into believing somehow that it is a privilege to provoke so many people by merely donning a bit of fabric?

I’m proud I’ve survived this far. I’m not posting this because I’m tired or feeling sad for myself. I’m posting this because I’m bored. I’m flat out bored with so many people attempting to put others into their own expectations and shackling themselves to silly self regulations and regulations of others. I’m bored, checking my watch hoping for time to come when people are ready to finally be free. When people are willing to free others. You want to have limitations on Yourself, then in my opinion as long as You are choosing those limitations, it’s power. But please, for the love of all that is interesting and good, release people from Your gaze, grip, and guffaws. Because for some it’s deadly. And for everyone- it’s BORING.

Anyways- if we went swimming somewhere that You really love where would we go? Lake? Sea? River? Pool?

#beachbabe #lgbtq #fashion #beforeandafter #question #genderqueer

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Caption : What I wear is not my gender. At least not for me personally. Both of these are just extensions of my existence. They are not masculine or feminine to me. They do not define my sexuality. They are not intended to illustrate my political beliefs. They are just as they are. Things I like to wear when the weather gets warm. Illustrations of my personal aesthetic and artistic interests. And yet somehow, as much as I strive to steel off the obstacle of existing outside expectations- as much as I say to myself “do what You want, forget the gazes, giggles, glares and gasps.” I find myself processing everyday that while what I wear is not meant to be a battle against society- it does indeed wage war on the perception of “what, who, and how one should be in society”. It makes a seemingly simple activity like swimming the defiance of potential death and a political debate unsolicited on the beach. Does everything I do need to be something in which I have to survive? Must I accept that my existence is resistance and trick myself into believing somehow that it is a privilege to provoke so many people by merely donning a bit of fabric? I’m proud I’ve survived this far. I’m not posting this because I’m tired or feeling sad for myself. I’m posting this because I’m bored. I’m flat out bored with so many people attempting to put others into their own expectations and shackling themselves to silly self regulations and regulations of others. I’m bored, checking my watch hoping for time to come when people are ready to finally be free. When people are willing to free others. You want to have limitations on Yourself, then in my opinion as long as You are choosing those limitations, it’s power. But please, for the love of all that is interesting and good, release people from Your gaze, grip, and guffaws. Because for some it’s deadly. And for everyone- it’s BORING. Anyways- if we went swimming somewhere that You really love where would we go? Lake? Sea? River? Pool? #beachbabe #lgbtq #fashion #beforeandafter #question #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 17.2K Likes - One thing I’ve found recently is that within conflict, I can be the same person- same body- same height- same tone- same mannerisms- same language. Yet, contingent upon the gender/identity someone believes me to be, those elements can yield drastically different reactions. Every person, every culture, and every circumstance is a bit unique. However there indeed are a few overarching themes for my personal experience which are mostly universal.

(1) When perceived as a “cis man” I often come across as naturally threatening in conflict. Even at a resting rate of tone. This leads to the other person feeling more comfortable to physically hit or lash out at me. But also I can evoke fear in a single step forward. I often feel guilty for that feeling. When a person intervenes, it’s often assumed that I started the conflict. It feels difficult to resolve situations as a result. Highly likely to be ejected.

(2) Trans man: People can talk over me or laugh. Sometimes I’ll be told to check my toxic masculinity and that as a “former woman” I should just be quiet when “real women” are talking. And I often oblige self consciously. Less likely to be ejected.

Trans Woman: A mix of reaction occurs. Often immediate escalation akin to being perceived as a cis male, some mockery or belittling akin to being perceived as cis female, and sometimes people just go flat silent. A literal buffering orb of social fear pops up on their head. Likely to be ejected from Venue unless i have vocal allies.

Cis Woman: Often the other person will give a laugh or comment that I look ugly as a defense. Or undatable. As a tall person, I’m still intimidating but am less likely to be hit (personally for me) and less likely to be ejected from a space. However, I’m far less likely to be heard or have my boundaries met. And often will be labeled as unstable after.

These are my personal experiences over my lifetime. They may be different from Your own! I just find it fascinating switching a bit of fabric can switch the entire way someone feels they need to handle a person- and changes their perception. I get why this is. But can it change? Should it?

#socialexperiment #lgbtqia #genderbend

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Caption : One thing I’ve found recently is that within conflict, I can be the same person- same body- same height- same tone- same mannerisms- same language. Yet, contingent upon the gender/identity someone believes me to be, those elements can yield drastically different reactions. Every person, every culture, and every circumstance is a bit unique. However there indeed are a few overarching themes for my personal experience which are mostly universal. (1) When perceived as a “cis man” I often come across as naturally threatening in conflict. Even at a resting rate of tone. This leads to the other person feeling more comfortable to physically hit or lash out at me. But also I can evoke fear in a single step forward. I often feel guilty for that feeling. When a person intervenes, it’s often assumed that I started the conflict. It feels difficult to resolve situations as a result. Highly likely to be ejected. (2) Trans man: People can talk over me or laugh. Sometimes I’ll be told to check my toxic masculinity and that as a “former woman” I should just be quiet when “real women” are talking. And I often oblige self consciously. Less likely to be ejected. Trans Woman: A mix of reaction occurs. Often immediate escalation akin to being perceived as a cis male, some mockery or belittling akin to being perceived as cis female, and sometimes people just go flat silent. A literal buffering orb of social fear pops up on their head. Likely to be ejected from Venue unless i have vocal allies. Cis Woman: Often the other person will give a laugh or comment that I look ugly as a defense. Or undatable. As a tall person, I’m still intimidating but am less likely to be hit (personally for me) and less likely to be ejected from a space. However, I’m far less likely to be heard or have my boundaries met. And often will be labeled as unstable after. These are my personal experiences over my lifetime. They may be different from Your own! I just find it fascinating switching a bit of fabric can switch the entire way someone feels they need to handle a person- and changes their perception. I get why this is. But can it change? Should it? #socialexperiment #lgbtqia #genderbend
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 16K Likes - I asked if they would be open to doing a time materials/tools usage based rate instead. However every location said that this idea is utopic and doesn’t work- and that people would get nit picky about time being wasted. Or that stylists would rip off customers by moving slowly. Arguments for women being charged more than men for the same haircut- (long or short) included

*Womens hair is thicker
*Men can use clippers but women need scissors
*Men get their hair cut more frequently and therefor can pay less- women need to be up charged because they are less frequent customers.
*Women are pickier and take more time
*Men rarely have long hair so there is no need
*Women have more complicated hair patterns
*Men don’t need short hair blow dried.

And more. I don’t agree with most of the responses. Especially as a person who has an F on their birth certificate but gets a clipper cut “mens cut” with no problems or issues. I’ve also seen a lot of great places charge by time, skill set, tools, materials etc. shoutout to @openbarbers for example. However I’m always open to learning more and understanding prior to judging. Hence this study. This video showcases just 5 out of the 98 total binary pricing hair salons interviewed and we asked. The average differences were over 30% cheaper for mens cuts, womens prices often can be negotiable if there is a good argument, 78% responded that they were completely unwilling to change their store model. The most common reason given was “Womens hair is thicker” and “blow drying takes longer for Womens hair”.

What do You think? Should things stay the same? Are these good reasons to have clear divides? How would You charge people? If You are an expert this is a safe space to vocalize.

This video is just one of several upcoming social experiments/studies being repressed where we look into the idea of “Gender Capitalism” and if it exists. For those new here, my name is Rain Dove. My identity is that “I am I”. I don’t identify as male or female. Rather as all and nothing. You can call me what You see/feel/experience. It’s all valid.

#socialexperiment #genderequality #nonbinaryfashion #hairgoals #genderqueer

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Caption : I asked if they would be open to doing a time materials/tools usage based rate instead. However every location said that this idea is utopic and doesn’t work- and that people would get nit picky about time being wasted. Or that stylists would rip off customers by moving slowly. Arguments for women being charged more than men for the same haircut- (long or short) included *Womens hair is thicker *Men can use clippers but women need scissors *Men get their hair cut more frequently and therefor can pay less- women need to be up charged because they are less frequent customers. *Women are pickier and take more time *Men rarely have long hair so there is no need *Women have more complicated hair patterns *Men don’t need short hair blow dried. And more. I don’t agree with most of the responses. Especially as a person who has an F on their birth certificate but gets a clipper cut “mens cut” with no problems or issues. I’ve also seen a lot of great places charge by time, skill set, tools, materials etc. shoutout to @openbarbers for example. However I’m always open to learning more and understanding prior to judging. Hence this study. This video showcases just 5 out of the 98 total binary pricing hair salons interviewed and we asked. The average differences were over 30% cheaper for mens cuts, womens prices often can be negotiable if there is a good argument, 78% responded that they were completely unwilling to change their store model. The most common reason given was “Womens hair is thicker” and “blow drying takes longer for Womens hair”. What do You think? Should things stay the same? Are these good reasons to have clear divides? How would You charge people? If You are an expert this is a safe space to vocalize. This video is just one of several upcoming social experiments/studies being repressed where we look into the idea of “Gender Capitalism” and if it exists. For those new here, my name is Rain Dove. My identity is that “I am I”. I don’t identify as male or female. Rather as all and nothing. You can call me what You see/feel/experience. It’s all valid. #socialexperiment #genderequality #nonbinaryfashion #hairgoals #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 16K Likes - I’ve never wanted to be Cinderella- I’ve just wanted to be the person who told her that she would survive if she left her toxic stepfamily. The thought of being royalty turned my stomach- it seemed so hierarchal, boring and full of decisions I’d never want to make. Nah- it was a more simple servitude I’d crave in my imagination. Anyone else feel that when watching shows about royalty and fairytale monarchs- that You would rather wear a tunic than a crown?

Which would You be? The rescued? The rescuer? The advisor? The servant? The warrior? The royalty? The community gardener? Who do You imagine Yourself as?

Fascinatingly our answer can often uncover deeper truths about what we believe we deserve, where we see our purpose in the world, and what biases we harbor against our own existence that we have to work through. Aka- the conflict resolution within ourselves.

#whoareyou #lgbtq #fairytales #cosplay #royalty #fashion #periodpiece #genderqueer

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Caption : I’ve never wanted to be Cinderella- I’ve just wanted to be the person who told her that she would survive if she left her toxic stepfamily. The thought of being royalty turned my stomach- it seemed so hierarchal, boring and full of decisions I’d never want to make. Nah- it was a more simple servitude I’d crave in my imagination. Anyone else feel that when watching shows about royalty and fairytale monarchs- that You would rather wear a tunic than a crown? Which would You be? The rescued? The rescuer? The advisor? The servant? The warrior? The royalty? The community gardener? Who do You imagine Yourself as? Fascinatingly our answer can often uncover deeper truths about what we believe we deserve, where we see our purpose in the world, and what biases we harbor against our own existence that we have to work through. Aka- the conflict resolution within ourselves. #whoareyou #lgbtq #fairytales #cosplay #royalty #fashion #periodpiece #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 15.8K Likes - REMIX THIS and I’ll share as many to my stories as possible. I can’t wait to see what You make- gonna cheer for You so hard! I just got home from the hospital so this will be brilliant to enjoy. Alternatively You can tell me what You are wearing right this second in the comments and I’ll send the first emoji that pops up on my phones random generator as a response.

This Milan Fashion Week I’ve been gratefully asked by @cameramoda to be an ambassador alongside @alokvmenon and @jamie_windust to showcase their new ability to watch the #mfw shows online now. (Link in bio) They have been so supportive of the community and are looking to evolve Fashion Week to be more inclusive and I’m so proud of them for taking these awesome first steps.

#mfw #cameramoda #fashionweek #lgbtq #pride #remix #remixreels #makethis

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Caption : REMIX THIS and I’ll share as many to my stories as possible. I can’t wait to see what You make- gonna cheer for You so hard! I just got home from the hospital so this will be brilliant to enjoy. Alternatively You can tell me what You are wearing right this second in the comments and I’ll send the first emoji that pops up on my phones random generator as a response. This Milan Fashion Week I’ve been gratefully asked by @cameramoda to be an ambassador alongside @alokvmenon and @jamie_windust to showcase their new ability to watch the #mfw shows online now. (Link in bio) They have been so supportive of the community and are looking to evolve Fashion Week to be more inclusive and I’m so proud of them for taking these awesome first steps. #mfw #cameramoda #fashionweek #lgbtq #pride #remix #remixreels #makethis
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 15.1K Likes - I waited a year & a half to post these- and I almost just deleted them. Here’s why ⬇️ (*note following story contains some distressing themes- but it has a happy ending. Reader discretion advised. *)

These images were taken over a year and a half ago when I had hit my bottom of bottoms spiritually and physically. I was drinking a lot, dealing with the turmoil of a tumultuous personal life, feeling inadequate to be enough to stop the gasping mountain of suffering people shared into my inbox that I desperately wanted to heal, I was broke, felt my career was over, and felt that the future held no art, I had cancer, wasn’t in the best physical health or mental health, and felt that I was just not able to be the being everyone and myself needed to the extent that was requested.

I found myself crashing in a space in NYC during this pivotal time with @mrddayland . He was tapping back into his photography and one night we just had a super safe space and after not being in front of the camera for about a while, I found it surprisingly ok to just sit and shoot with this human. These are the images taken. Looking at them at the time I felt they had something special in them- but I also felt really ashamed because I could see the depression. The lines from stress and self neglect etched into my skin. The sunken gaze beneath the chainmail. The downturned lips usually a grin. A clear capture of the state I was in.

3 months later I would go on the journey I’ve shared here with yall that I decided to ethically end my life. It had come to that moment. That culmination.

It’s only by a literal miracle of a natural phenomenon happening that I chose to live. A caterpillar attached itself to my shirt & turned into a moth. One of the most incredible things to ever happen to me. After a year and a half of VERY hard hard work I’ve found purpose greater than I could’ve imagined. Hope. Dips of defeatable depression. Joy. Rage. And LIFE again!!

Choosing to live is sometimes our greatest form of revolution. I post these now not out of shame but pride for Pride that they remind me that I lived. I’ll leave there to always remind me. #pridemonth #lgbtq🌈 #storytime #genderqueer

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Caption : I waited a year & a half to post these- and I almost just deleted them. Here’s why ⬇️ (*note following story contains some distressing themes- but it has a happy ending. Reader discretion advised. *) These images were taken over a year and a half ago when I had hit my bottom of bottoms spiritually and physically. I was drinking a lot, dealing with the turmoil of a tumultuous personal life, feeling inadequate to be enough to stop the gasping mountain of suffering people shared into my inbox that I desperately wanted to heal, I was broke, felt my career was over, and felt that the future held no art, I had cancer, wasn’t in the best physical health or mental health, and felt that I was just not able to be the being everyone and myself needed to the extent that was requested. I found myself crashing in a space in NYC during this pivotal time with @mrddayland . He was tapping back into his photography and one night we just had a super safe space and after not being in front of the camera for about a while, I found it surprisingly ok to just sit and shoot with this human. These are the images taken. Looking at them at the time I felt they had something special in them- but I also felt really ashamed because I could see the depression. The lines from stress and self neglect etched into my skin. The sunken gaze beneath the chainmail. The downturned lips usually a grin. A clear capture of the state I was in. 3 months later I would go on the journey I’ve shared here with yall that I decided to ethically end my life. It had come to that moment. That culmination. It’s only by a literal miracle of a natural phenomenon happening that I chose to live. A caterpillar attached itself to my shirt & turned into a moth. One of the most incredible things to ever happen to me. After a year and a half of VERY hard hard work I’ve found purpose greater than I could’ve imagined. Hope. Dips of defeatable depression. Joy. Rage. And LIFE again!! Choosing to live is sometimes our greatest form of revolution. I post these now not out of shame but pride for Pride that they remind me that I lived. I’ll leave there to always remind me. #pridemonth #lgbtq🌈 #storytime #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 14.9K Likes - You can sit with Us. If You are a person who is willing to make a space for people to sit at Your table please say it below. “You can Sit Here” or “You can Sit with Me”.

CARE NOTE FOR THE REST OF THIS POST: Contains reference to 2 deceased beings & help resources.

This week has been devastating. First we lost Thomas who was an amazing soul and actor on @queerz.without.fearz and then yesterday we lost @notsosecretlyshay - a powerful community voice, educator, talent and also actor in @queerz.without.fearz as well as Apocalypse Killer. This morning hit especially hard. So I recorded this. So many people are facing a multitude of difficulties that have never been experienced before. The ones we typically experience mixed with the impacts of the pandemic’s isolation from our chosen family on our minds & souls. We can feel trapped.

Depression, self doubt, fear- can be a suction cupped whirlpool sucking is into a singular crushing space. Just this month, I came out of a two month depression dip. But it was harder this time than normal. Even with a loving supporting environment. I had to remember that these emotions and feelings come in waves. They wash over and away. Yet in the thick of things we can feel like “yes there’s resources” but reaching out to them feels like climbing a mountain. It’s hard to do self care techniques. It’s hard to care.

If You can’t bring yourself to reach out to @switchboardlgbt @trevorproject @genderedintelligence or more, and at the moment only have the capacity to exists then know You can exist with Us. Right here. In the comment section is a whole world of people who love You and believe in the being You are and can be. We are clean slates, fresh starts, and people who love You. You have purpose. You have belonging. You have so much to offer the possibility to be a being for light to prevail. You already are with every breath.

For a complete list of resources go to checkpointorg.com .

#resource #lgbtqia #lovewins #trans #freshstart #safespace #reels #notalone #nonbinary #queerpride #youcansithere

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Caption : You can sit with Us. If You are a person who is willing to make a space for people to sit at Your table please say it below. “You can Sit Here” or “You can Sit with Me”. CARE NOTE FOR THE REST OF THIS POST: Contains reference to 2 deceased beings & help resources. This week has been devastating. First we lost Thomas who was an amazing soul and actor on @queerz.without.fearz and then yesterday we lost @notsosecretlyshay – a powerful community voice, educator, talent and also actor in @queerz.without.fearz as well as Apocalypse Killer. This morning hit especially hard. So I recorded this. So many people are facing a multitude of difficulties that have never been experienced before. The ones we typically experience mixed with the impacts of the pandemic’s isolation from our chosen family on our minds & souls. We can feel trapped. Depression, self doubt, fear- can be a suction cupped whirlpool sucking is into a singular crushing space. Just this month, I came out of a two month depression dip. But it was harder this time than normal. Even with a loving supporting environment. I had to remember that these emotions and feelings come in waves. They wash over and away. Yet in the thick of things we can feel like “yes there’s resources” but reaching out to them feels like climbing a mountain. It’s hard to do self care techniques. It’s hard to care. If You can’t bring yourself to reach out to @switchboardlgbt @trevorproject @genderedintelligence or more, and at the moment only have the capacity to exists then know You can exist with Us. Right here. In the comment section is a whole world of people who love You and believe in the being You are and can be. We are clean slates, fresh starts, and people who love You. You have purpose. You have belonging. You have so much to offer the possibility to be a being for light to prevail. You already are with every breath. For a complete list of resources go to checkpointorg.com . #resource #lgbtqia #lovewins #trans #freshstart #safespace #reels #notalone #nonbinary #queerpride #youcansithere
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 14.6K Likes - One doesn’t need a name to be a being who is allowed to exist. Connect. Create. However, if a name is going to be a part of one’s existence- then that name should be a reflection of the most personal understanding and summation of Yourself. It should be Your choice and truth. Perhaps Your truth is a continuation of the history of a sound You we’re given at birth. An honor to Your past or blood family. Perhaps Your name is a knowledge of where You are now and where You want to be then. Or perhaps- Your name is something You want to showcase Your personality through poetry or musical intonation.Whatever Yo ur name means to You- it is Your own. Know Your name to be Your own. Type Your name (the one You know Yourself to be) here and I will write it back to You as a response. Up to 500 names minimum I’ll repeat back as a mantra of commitment to respecting who You are. Do not be shy- this is for anyone no matter their identity. A name is a symbol of reciprocated understanding. You deserve to know You are experienced and safe.

Bonus points if You want to share why You feel Your name is the name for You.

#knowyourname #peptalk #parentlife #lgbtqia #genderfluid #lovewins #iami #trythis

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Caption : One doesn’t need a name to be a being who is allowed to exist. Connect. Create. However, if a name is going to be a part of one’s existence- then that name should be a reflection of the most personal understanding and summation of Yourself. It should be Your choice and truth. Perhaps Your truth is a continuation of the history of a sound You we’re given at birth. An honor to Your past or blood family. Perhaps Your name is a knowledge of where You are now and where You want to be then. Or perhaps- Your name is something You want to showcase Your personality through poetry or musical intonation.Whatever Yo ur name means to You- it is Your own. Know Your name to be Your own. Type Your name (the one You know Yourself to be) here and I will write it back to You as a response. Up to 500 names minimum I’ll repeat back as a mantra of commitment to respecting who You are. Do not be shy- this is for anyone no matter their identity. A name is a symbol of reciprocated understanding. You deserve to know You are experienced and safe. Bonus points if You want to share why You feel Your name is the name for You. #knowyourname #peptalk #parentlife #lgbtqia #genderfluid #lovewins #iami #trythis
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 14.3K Likes - Did I miss anything? A lot of folx are going into “freeze” mode. It’s an odd time period where we have access to the world and each other. Which is wonderful! But that also means we have access to knowledge of each other’s suffering and struggles- just as much as each other’s joy. As a person who’s seen much of this planet and the life of its inhabitants, I know it’s overwhelming. There are hundreds of causes which are life or death and NEED YOU RIGHT NOW. Violence, displacement, erasure, dehumanization, environmental destruction, war, art, exhaustion- it’s never ending. And it feels cruel or wrong to turn away once we know a cause exists. To say “I’m at capacity. I can give no more.”

So many are now turning away from doing anything at all. They’ve tried showing up full steam for all projects- and all people. But it never felt enough. It almost never felt real.

I’ve always said, allyship isn’t heroism. It’s humanism. It’s what we owe to each other as a basis for compassionate existence. It’s ego at the door, learning, listening and expanding. It’s not rescuing people, it’s elevating each other to exist in a safer more just world.

Consistent progress is consistent possibility. Burnout is real. Free time is a privilege but freedom is a right. If You fight for anything at all, let it be the freedom for others to exist without fear of loss of food, shelter, water, physical safety and movement.

It’s never going to be enough to solve all the worlds obstacles if You take it on alone. But as a collective of actions we ARE enough together.

I don’t know who needs to know this, but YOU are enough. You operating within Your honest capacity is enough. You committing to try to expand a bit further every day is enough. You not silencing the voices of those telling the world what they need to feel safer is enough. You existing is enough.

Activism isn’t about guilt. It’s about goals. We want You to take care of Yourself. We want You to experience joy in this life. We want You to save space for Yourself. And as a kind heart in this world, YOU deserve to have allies too. You deserve to have stability too. Joy too. Security too.

#lgbtqia #whattodo #trythis #storytime

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Caption : Did I miss anything? A lot of folx are going into “freeze” mode. It’s an odd time period where we have access to the world and each other. Which is wonderful! But that also means we have access to knowledge of each other’s suffering and struggles- just as much as each other’s joy. As a person who’s seen much of this planet and the life of its inhabitants, I know it’s overwhelming. There are hundreds of causes which are life or death and NEED YOU RIGHT NOW. Violence, displacement, erasure, dehumanization, environmental destruction, war, art, exhaustion- it’s never ending. And it feels cruel or wrong to turn away once we know a cause exists. To say “I’m at capacity. I can give no more.” So many are now turning away from doing anything at all. They’ve tried showing up full steam for all projects- and all people. But it never felt enough. It almost never felt real. I’ve always said, allyship isn’t heroism. It’s humanism. It’s what we owe to each other as a basis for compassionate existence. It’s ego at the door, learning, listening and expanding. It’s not rescuing people, it’s elevating each other to exist in a safer more just world. Consistent progress is consistent possibility. Burnout is real. Free time is a privilege but freedom is a right. If You fight for anything at all, let it be the freedom for others to exist without fear of loss of food, shelter, water, physical safety and movement. It’s never going to be enough to solve all the worlds obstacles if You take it on alone. But as a collective of actions we ARE enough together. I don’t know who needs to know this, but YOU are enough. You operating within Your honest capacity is enough. You committing to try to expand a bit further every day is enough. You not silencing the voices of those telling the world what they need to feel safer is enough. You existing is enough. Activism isn’t about guilt. It’s about goals. We want You to take care of Yourself. We want You to experience joy in this life. We want You to save space for Yourself. And as a kind heart in this world, YOU deserve to have allies too. You deserve to have stability too. Joy too. Security too. #lgbtqia #whattodo #trythis #storytime
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 14.1K Likes - Oftentimes We work so hard to exist as Ourselves that if anything shifts or changes over time We can be terrified of embracing that change. I find this especially within identity, gender and sexuality that often it’s not embraced for a being to be able to pivot. It’s as if there is a betrayal of a community. Or there may be a disenfranchisement of identity because if someone changes their mind once on something so big then They will “likely do it again”. Mocked. Untrusted. Even feared. There is a desperate demand from family, friends or the world in general for people to remain a singular label once They “arrive to it”. However, Our existence in the world is flowing. Our knowledge of what We want for Ourselves often expands. We learn new things about the way We love or feel loved or lovable. We experience new possibilities and people.

Sometimes, the language We use for our existence and identity is and always will remain what was given to Us by others at birth. This is very valid and if it is the singular truth of someone then that is wonderful and should be respected.

At other times, when there are those who find Their descriptors are deviating from what They were before- They need to know simple things along that journey. They too are valid. They aren’t broken. That every second is arrival and We don’t need “one destination” in life. That language and labels one chooses for Themselves are indeed a choice. They can be trialed. Rejected. Reinvented. Or invented for the first time. And should something shift it doesn’t mean that all along You were “wrong”- and that You may be “wrong” again. It means that You were as You were with what You knew and that was valid when it was Your truth. And Truth can change without it’s past becoming a lie.

For some as well- the arrival to the identity They now use is proof that They are finally as They have always been. But had been told They were not.

Whatever Your journey is- it is YOURS. Your truth. Your language. Your adventure. And We are here to support You by loving the You that You are.

Can You accept others if they change their identity descriptors?

#storytime #questiontime #lgbtqia #foryoupage #genderqueer

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Caption : Oftentimes We work so hard to exist as Ourselves that if anything shifts or changes over time We can be terrified of embracing that change. I find this especially within identity, gender and sexuality that often it’s not embraced for a being to be able to pivot. It’s as if there is a betrayal of a community. Or there may be a disenfranchisement of identity because if someone changes their mind once on something so big then They will “likely do it again”. Mocked. Untrusted. Even feared. There is a desperate demand from family, friends or the world in general for people to remain a singular label once They “arrive to it”. However, Our existence in the world is flowing. Our knowledge of what We want for Ourselves often expands. We learn new things about the way We love or feel loved or lovable. We experience new possibilities and people. Sometimes, the language We use for our existence and identity is and always will remain what was given to Us by others at birth. This is very valid and if it is the singular truth of someone then that is wonderful and should be respected. At other times, when there are those who find Their descriptors are deviating from what They were before- They need to know simple things along that journey. They too are valid. They aren’t broken. That every second is arrival and We don’t need “one destination” in life. That language and labels one chooses for Themselves are indeed a choice. They can be trialed. Rejected. Reinvented. Or invented for the first time. And should something shift it doesn’t mean that all along You were “wrong”- and that You may be “wrong” again. It means that You were as You were with what You knew and that was valid when it was Your truth. And Truth can change without it’s past becoming a lie. For some as well- the arrival to the identity They now use is proof that They are finally as They have always been. But had been told They were not. Whatever Your journey is- it is YOURS. Your truth. Your language. Your adventure. And We are here to support You by loving the You that You are. Can You accept others if they change their identity descriptors? #storytime #questiontime #lgbtqia #foryoupage #genderqueer
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 13.9K Likes - You deserve more affirmations- it’s exhausting in the world right now. For many, seemingly impossible to take the pressure or difficult environments which create such emotions of defeat and turn it into something positive. Worth waking to and for. Personally, I’ve found myself quite spread thin between all the fires and attacks lately. It feels like one must be everywhere all at once to fight against the oppression- and yet there are few places where it’s safe to go. To make it through, we have to truly believe that hope will turn to reality. And I believe- I truly do- that it has before, it can again, we will find a way forward. But it must be together. If You are having a hard time feeling self affirmational, come here to this page. Most of the people here will be happy to say Your name, pronouns, or validate You and Your experience. Hold tight. It’ll be worth it.

This video is from this afternoon enjoying this wildly talented friend @dededavi - they’re pursuing a music career and could use all the community support possible. If You like their voice go follow their IG please it really makes a difference.

Say Your name and pronouns- I’ll say them back in the comments. I’ll answer a minimum of 250 over the weekend- more if possible. All people welcome to comment- no matter who You are.

#ally #lgbtqia #trans #lovewins #newmusic #goodnews

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Caption : You deserve more affirmations- it’s exhausting in the world right now. For many, seemingly impossible to take the pressure or difficult environments which create such emotions of defeat and turn it into something positive. Worth waking to and for. Personally, I’ve found myself quite spread thin between all the fires and attacks lately. It feels like one must be everywhere all at once to fight against the oppression- and yet there are few places where it’s safe to go. To make it through, we have to truly believe that hope will turn to reality. And I believe- I truly do- that it has before, it can again, we will find a way forward. But it must be together. If You are having a hard time feeling self affirmational, come here to this page. Most of the people here will be happy to say Your name, pronouns, or validate You and Your experience. Hold tight. It’ll be worth it. This video is from this afternoon enjoying this wildly talented friend @dededavi – they’re pursuing a music career and could use all the community support possible. If You like their voice go follow their IG please it really makes a difference. Say Your name and pronouns- I’ll say them back in the comments. I’ll answer a minimum of 250 over the weekend- more if possible. All people welcome to comment- no matter who You are. #ally #lgbtqia #trans #lovewins #newmusic #goodnews
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 13.7K Likes - Some Controversial Results ⬇️⬇️

56/60 Rides in societally deemed “Womenswear” resulted in a stranger reaching out.

2/60 Rides in societally deemed “Menswear” resulted in a stranger reaching out.

Interestingly enough for this London experiment, 66% of the people who asked if I was alright happened to be bipoc. 42% identified as mothers.

Not one person told me to stop crying or slagged me off which was a change of pace from the original NYC experiment. 7/10 people when asked “why didn’t You say anything to the person in ‘menswear’?” Responded that they assumed I was- and I quote- “mentally unwell”. Many said that they just couldn’t tell if I were a safe person or not. When “male identifying” people were asked why they didn’t check in with the “womenswear” version of me- they said they didn’t want to come across as predatorial. A couple even asked other “female identifying” people on the train to help instead. 4/5 times if I were in “menswear” OR “womenswear” and engaged the person next to me they would ask if I were alright. Although some may have done so because they felt trapped by the situation.

This experiment is important because it reflects not just cis men- but anyone in the community who dons something “masculine”. Trans men, non-binary, butch lesbians, transwomen in “noncomforming aesthetics” have all expressed to me that they feel more alone in 2022. I was chatting with @becomingjude and they also said that during their transition they felt a social transition as well to a more distant place in community. We often affiliate “masculinity” with violence and danger- so people create self respecting boundaries with people adjacent to our idea of “masculinity”. But can or will it ever change? What will it take?

#lovewins #socialexperiment #genderbend #reveal

NOTE: I do not represent all intersectionalities or identities. This experiment was reflective of the breadth of MY life in a place or time. Results may vary for others. Feel free to add Your own!

NOTE: Do not attempt to do these experiments on Your own.

NOTE: I identify as I. No and all gender. I do not think clothing has a gender but respect the right to gender labels and language.

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Caption : Some Controversial Results ⬇️⬇️ 56/60 Rides in societally deemed “Womenswear” resulted in a stranger reaching out. 2/60 Rides in societally deemed “Menswear” resulted in a stranger reaching out. Interestingly enough for this London experiment, 66% of the people who asked if I was alright happened to be bipoc. 42% identified as mothers. Not one person told me to stop crying or slagged me off which was a change of pace from the original NYC experiment. 7/10 people when asked “why didn’t You say anything to the person in ‘menswear’?” Responded that they assumed I was- and I quote- “mentally unwell”. Many said that they just couldn’t tell if I were a safe person or not. When “male identifying” people were asked why they didn’t check in with the “womenswear” version of me- they said they didn’t want to come across as predatorial. A couple even asked other “female identifying” people on the train to help instead. 4/5 times if I were in “menswear” OR “womenswear” and engaged the person next to me they would ask if I were alright. Although some may have done so because they felt trapped by the situation. This experiment is important because it reflects not just cis men- but anyone in the community who dons something “masculine”. Trans men, non-binary, butch lesbians, transwomen in “noncomforming aesthetics” have all expressed to me that they feel more alone in 2022. I was chatting with @becomingjude and they also said that during their transition they felt a social transition as well to a more distant place in community. We often affiliate “masculinity” with violence and danger- so people create self respecting boundaries with people adjacent to our idea of “masculinity”. But can or will it ever change? What will it take? #lovewins #socialexperiment #genderbend #reveal NOTE: I do not represent all intersectionalities or identities. This experiment was reflective of the breadth of MY life in a place or time. Results may vary for others. Feel free to add Your own! NOTE: Do not attempt to do these experiments on Your own. NOTE: I identify as I. No and all gender. I do not think clothing has a gender but respect the right to gender labels and language.
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 13.6K Likes - We shouldn't have to play into Gender bias with Gender Capitalism in order to access the best opportunities in life. However, for many years I did so! But now I demand fair and equal treatment from people no matter how uncomfortable it makes them- even for the smallest of things. Yet, despite not employing Gender Capitalism very often anymore one thing hasnt changed. I still open my wardrobe like I'm opening a toolbox. Every item can help me access the world around me through utility or symbolism. For me- a good coat is the ultimate Swiss army knife. I can transform into anyone or any gender perception with a pop of the collar. That's why I was so excited when @makingthecuttv sent me this outfit from the most recent episode winner! It's genderfluid, can morph, and the designer is just such a lovely person. If You haven't yet, go check out Making the Cut on @amazonprimevideo ... and if You like this look check my link in bio where it can be found by @amazonfashion & @amazonfashioneu . What is Your swiss army outfit? Do You have anything in Your closet that transforms too? #makingthecut #ad #genderfluid #genderqueer #lgbtqia #loveislove

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Caption : We shouldn’t have to play into Gender bias with Gender Capitalism in order to access the best opportunities in life. However, for many years I did so! But now I demand fair and equal treatment from people no matter how uncomfortable it makes them- even for the smallest of things. Yet, despite not employing Gender Capitalism very often anymore one thing hasnt changed. I still open my wardrobe like I’m opening a toolbox. Every item can help me access the world around me through utility or symbolism. For me- a good coat is the ultimate Swiss army knife. I can transform into anyone or any gender perception with a pop of the collar. That’s why I was so excited when @makingthecuttv sent me this outfit from the most recent episode winner! It’s genderfluid, can morph, and the designer is just such a lovely person. If You haven’t yet, go check out Making the Cut on @amazonprimevideo … and if You like this look check my link in bio where it can be found by @amazonfashion & @amazonfashioneu . What is Your swiss army outfit? Do You have anything in Your closet that transforms too? #makingthecut #ad #genderfluid #genderqueer #lgbtqia #loveislove
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 13K Likes - Found out I’m cancer free today! It’s been a heck of a year. One of fighting harder for life on every aspect than I’ve ever had to fight before- and across more spectrums of that statement than ever before.

Ive spent the past year realigning internally, externally and communally. Giving this planet and myself everything I’ve got to give with every ounce of existence possible.

And somehow, today, is the day where I finally feel the clear crisp start to the next chapter of who I am. And how I want to show up for You, this world and myself.

Despite all the obstacles and the uncertainties of this era- I find myself daring… hoping… BELIEVING that this life has a lot of beauty ahead. That these will be one of the most meaningful and impactful years. That all the lessons, the truths, the trusts and the hard knocks have culminated in being more equipped for whatever the universe brings.

I haven’t - and I wont - give up on pursuing purpose, art, possibility and a bit better of a planet for You too. Can’t wait for adventure to cross our paths.

Thanks for sticking with me. For giving me grace to be the being I am. To grow and pivot. To try again and again better and better. I am so grateful for You and this community who have gifted me a safe space and who have reminded me to not give up.

You’re a big reason why I’m alive today. ❤️ Here we go to the next chapter together! Up up up and up we go!

#lgbtqia #positivenews #goodvibes #letsgo #grateful

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Caption : Found out I’m cancer free today! It’s been a heck of a year. One of fighting harder for life on every aspect than I’ve ever had to fight before- and across more spectrums of that statement than ever before. Ive spent the past year realigning internally, externally and communally. Giving this planet and myself everything I’ve got to give with every ounce of existence possible. And somehow, today, is the day where I finally feel the clear crisp start to the next chapter of who I am. And how I want to show up for You, this world and myself. Despite all the obstacles and the uncertainties of this era- I find myself daring… hoping… BELIEVING that this life has a lot of beauty ahead. That these will be one of the most meaningful and impactful years. That all the lessons, the truths, the trusts and the hard knocks have culminated in being more equipped for whatever the universe brings. I haven’t – and I wont – give up on pursuing purpose, art, possibility and a bit better of a planet for You too. Can’t wait for adventure to cross our paths. Thanks for sticking with me. For giving me grace to be the being I am. To grow and pivot. To try again and again better and better. I am so grateful for You and this community who have gifted me a safe space and who have reminded me to not give up. You’re a big reason why I’m alive today. ❤️ Here we go to the next chapter together! Up up up and up we go! #lgbtqia #positivenews #goodvibes #letsgo #grateful
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 11.8K Likes - It took a while to get out of the rut I was in because I didn’t know if it was ok to share how I was feeling with people that weren’t paid professionals. Which meant my friends and family were arms length isolated from supporting me through my experiences. I thought I was protecting them from my pain hut in reality I was stealing the opportunity of choice from them. Since I felt that I had been in this space for a while, and it wasn’t an instant fix, I kept it to myself. What was the use of upsetting others with something they couldn’t solve? I mean… what a bummer I was whenever I shared my feelings. Who really wants to be a constant bummer? No. Not me. Positive vibes only. Cheerleader only. Indignant for the justice for others’ causes only.

Turns out that love is circular and it must be circular. You will be surprised at the value and empowerment You provide others by allowing them to support You through the tough times in life. Even if those tough times seem perpetual. The key is allowing friends and family to set boundaries that You respect. If they say they are at capacity, thank them for sharing their truth. Celebrate it. It will empower them to be healthier in their own lives. If they want to show up, celebrate their love. Celebrate their wisdom. Allow them to turn former lessons of pain into power.

Therapy by professionals is important. If You are able to access it please do. It can be truly revolutionary. But at the very least, don’t do what I’ve done in the past- which is to push the people closest to the furthest spaces away from Your conflicts. You aren’t taking when You lean on them. You are giving them an opportunity to grow, give and gain as well.

Are You someone who is ok with being leaned on and setting boundaries when at capacity? Let people know in the comments. It’s important that others witness that there are far more support options than it might appear at first sight.

#positivenews #goodnews #lovewins #lgbtqia #mentalhealth #foryou #takeachance

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Caption : It took a while to get out of the rut I was in because I didn’t know if it was ok to share how I was feeling with people that weren’t paid professionals. Which meant my friends and family were arms length isolated from supporting me through my experiences. I thought I was protecting them from my pain hut in reality I was stealing the opportunity of choice from them. Since I felt that I had been in this space for a while, and it wasn’t an instant fix, I kept it to myself. What was the use of upsetting others with something they couldn’t solve? I mean… what a bummer I was whenever I shared my feelings. Who really wants to be a constant bummer? No. Not me. Positive vibes only. Cheerleader only. Indignant for the justice for others’ causes only. Turns out that love is circular and it must be circular. You will be surprised at the value and empowerment You provide others by allowing them to support You through the tough times in life. Even if those tough times seem perpetual. The key is allowing friends and family to set boundaries that You respect. If they say they are at capacity, thank them for sharing their truth. Celebrate it. It will empower them to be healthier in their own lives. If they want to show up, celebrate their love. Celebrate their wisdom. Allow them to turn former lessons of pain into power. Therapy by professionals is important. If You are able to access it please do. It can be truly revolutionary. But at the very least, don’t do what I’ve done in the past- which is to push the people closest to the furthest spaces away from Your conflicts. You aren’t taking when You lean on them. You are giving them an opportunity to grow, give and gain as well. Are You someone who is ok with being leaned on and setting boundaries when at capacity? Let people know in the comments. It’s important that others witness that there are far more support options than it might appear at first sight. #positivenews #goodnews #lovewins #lgbtqia #mentalhealth #foryou #takeachance
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 9.8K Likes - Self regulation and self care are often an eclipse of each other. Emotions and energies are valid to experience and feel. Sometimes when they are very present at the moment we wake though, they can shape our entire day if they aren’t dealt with. They consume us and everyone we are around and can cause us to miss the good as well as the little opportunities that life may bring us that day. While there’s much in life we can not control, one thing we can try to do is set a #moaningroutine or morning ritual. Whether it’s waking 5 minutes earlier just to lay in the mid space of sleep/rise to meditate. Or using morning shower time to release some tension with the #womanizerwave 😉🌧 Or even doing a full body shake to brush it off- it’s important that we do our best to release our fear, frustration and frumbygrumbly even if they are based on real valid things we are dealing with. Acknowledge the energy emotion. Acknowledge the environment. Breathe. Release. Cleanse and create hope. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it. Some things are going to change, some are not. But how we treat ourselves should consistently be rooted in hope, love, patience and chance.

What’s Your way of shifting Your center from the start of the day? Lets get a list going so anyone just deciding to create a ritual today can have a resource here to use.

Thanks @womanizerglobal for the great addition to my day. For anyone interested, The “Womanizer Wave” is the first showerhead designed for both showering AND pleasure, making your mornings all that extra relaxing. It’s a very cool creation and it works really well 😉

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Caption : Self regulation and self care are often an eclipse of each other. Emotions and energies are valid to experience and feel. Sometimes when they are very present at the moment we wake though, they can shape our entire day if they aren’t dealt with. They consume us and everyone we are around and can cause us to miss the good as well as the little opportunities that life may bring us that day. While there’s much in life we can not control, one thing we can try to do is set a #moaningroutine or morning ritual. Whether it’s waking 5 minutes earlier just to lay in the mid space of sleep/rise to meditate. Or using morning shower time to release some tension with the #womanizerwave 😉🌧 Or even doing a full body shake to brush it off- it’s important that we do our best to release our fear, frustration and frumbygrumbly even if they are based on real valid things we are dealing with. Acknowledge the energy emotion. Acknowledge the environment. Breathe. Release. Cleanse and create hope. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it. Some things are going to change, some are not. But how we treat ourselves should consistently be rooted in hope, love, patience and chance. What’s Your way of shifting Your center from the start of the day? Lets get a list going so anyone just deciding to create a ritual today can have a resource here to use. Thanks @womanizerglobal for the great addition to my day. For anyone interested, The “Womanizer Wave” is the first showerhead designed for both showering AND pleasure, making your mornings all that extra relaxing. It’s a very cool creation and it works really well 😉
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Rain Dove Dubilewski - 9.4K Likes - ‼️URGENT CALL TO ACTION‼️

🆘Two children, Rafif (13) and Rafik (15), are severely injured after bombing of their home. Their mother and 10 other family members were killed.

🆘They are immobile and stranded in #AlShifa Hospital. Their extensive and life threatening wounds require constant care - but, instead, their guardians and medical staff were forcibly removed from the hospital. Like all the other patients at Al Shifa, including children, they are completely alone, in pain and have not eaten in 4 days. This is utterly horrifying: NO CHILD should be in this situation. They require urgent medical attention and URGENT EVACUATION.

🔉We are calling on the UK Government, WHO and UN OCHA to act immediately and save Rafif and Rafik, as well as the hundreds of other patients.

🚨REPOST, STORY & TAG
@ukgovofficial @ukhomeoffice @un_ocha @who @drtedros

#EvacuateRR

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Caption : ‼️URGENT CALL TO ACTION‼️ 🆘Two children, Rafif (13) and Rafik (15), are severely injured after bombing of their home. Their mother and 10 other family members were killed. 🆘They are immobile and stranded in #AlShifa Hospital. Their extensive and life threatening wounds require constant care – but, instead, their guardians and medical staff were forcibly removed from the hospital. Like all the other patients at Al Shifa, including children, they are completely alone, in pain and have not eaten in 4 days. This is utterly horrifying: NO CHILD should be in this situation. They require urgent medical attention and URGENT EVACUATION. 🔉We are calling on the UK Government, WHO and UN OCHA to act immediately and save Rafif and Rafik, as well as the hundreds of other patients. 🚨REPOST, STORY & TAG @ukgovofficial @ukhomeoffice @un_ocha @who @drtedros #EvacuateRR
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