“Tell us about how you 1st met?” Varsha: “It was an arranged marriage in 1984. He & his family came home & chatted with my family for a few hours. I didn’t even see him that day, I was too shy. But when his family called u saying, ‘Humaare taraf se rishta pakka hai,’ I panicked. I thought, ‘What if my freedom is gone?’ Arvind: “I didn’t know that…” Varsha: “Haa… but then I met him for the first time at a cafe. He opened the door, pulled out a chair & listened to everything I said. By the end, I knew he was the one! So when the date for the wedding was fixed, mujhe koi aitraaz nahi tha…” Arvind: “This was 40 years ago, but I still remember the wedding day like it was yesterday. You know that shaadi waali photo has a very funny story… iski ek cousin iske face ko ghungat se dhak rahi thi – she just wouldn’t stop. The photographer got annoyed & said, ‘Madam hatao isse, yeh nahi chalega.’ That’s when I got to look at her, she was so beautiful…still is!” Varsha: “I was feeling so shy, but he wouldn’t stop staring. He’s still so affectionate – I love that about him!” Arvind: “And I love that she’s always there for me. Once, in an accident, I suffered temporary memory loss. I was in the middle of the road, & everyone kept asking, ‘Naam kya hai?’ But the only thing I could remember was, ‘My wife’s name is Varsha.’ Hours later, when I got my memory back, she was by my side. And once we got home, she got back to her routine of worrying about me: ‘Have your food!’ ‘Have your meds!’” Varsha: “He’s still just like a kid. Ab bhi bolna padta hai, ‘Arvind dawa le lo’ Par ab aadat ho gai hai mujhe!” “40 years is such a long time! What’s your secret?” Arvind: “You just have to keep your ego aside…” Varsha: “You should also know how to be there for each other. When I would be stuck at work, I would think, ‘Bacho ka kya hoga,’ ‘Khana…’ But he’d say, ‘Main sambhal lunga.’ Arvind: “And she’s been there for me! Earlier this year, when I had major health issues, she was there… holding my hand through doctor appointments & tests… So when you ask what’s the secret to these years…Hum bas ek team hai. And we don’t know life without each other…pyaar yahi toh hota hai na?”
This beach inevitably helps finds me spots that make my day, sometimes! Kurta by @chikankarihues 📸 by @humourless_harsh Bubbles by @big.leafy.giant . . #bombay #beach #ootd #shibanibedi
This beach inevitably helps finds me spots that make my day, sometimes! Kurta by @chikankarihues 📸 by @humourless_harsh Bubbles by @big.leafy.giant . . #bombay #beach #ootd #shibanibedi
This beach inevitably helps finds me spots that make my day, sometimes! Kurta by @chikankarihues 📸 by @humourless_harsh Bubbles by @big.leafy.giant . . #bombay #beach #ootd #shibanibedi
Chui mui si hiraniya bhediyon se darr gayi . . . #reels #travel #explore #explorepage #reelsinstagram #shibanibedi #trending
Symptoms google kar liye . . . #reels #shibanibedi #explore #reelsinstagram #explorepage #friend #friendship
Comment if you relate . #mother #son #relatablepost #relatable
Sach bolun, toh 2024 was not my best year. Shuruwat dehshat se hui, aur ant bhi! But sadness, grief and burnout ek beech jo ek sabse important seekh mili woh thi the importance of being in the moment. To claim every inch of joy when you get the chance, no matter the dark clouds. ICUs aur crematoriums jaake woh sab samajh aa jaata hai jo self help books padh ke kabhi palle na pade… zindagi aur usko acche se jeene ki ahmiyat. What is worth wasting time over and what’s not, even if you forget it occasionally, what really matters and what is just noise! 2024 ne mujhe sikhaya comfort aur khushi ko prioritise karna, jab bhi mauka mile… chahe woh ghar pe tha ya kisi aur shehar mein, ya doston aur parivaar ke beech ya phir sirf shaanti se baith ke sunset dekhna. It was the slowest year of my life, but also the most hectic for all the wrong reasons. But it taught me to be here! To take into account all the best case scenarios which we ignore when the worst case scenarios take over. To not take time for granted, to not take anything for granted. It taught me how to surrender to my limitations, and forces beyond. It taught me that I really love my family, and that they really really love me back. It taught me that sometimes the person who deserves our forgiveness the most is us. And it also taught me that not every year HAS to be your year… we can all afford a few years that don’t work out the way we’d like them to… that boring is good, as long as it gets you to bed in time to get enough sleep after a nice timely meal. It also taught me the importance of sunlight and how much I’ve missed walking. It helped me make friends with myself again. To feel enough. I hope 2025 is better, but even if it isn’t I am still enough, and that happiness and contentment does not rely on medals only. Sometimes it’s just as simple as sipping a nice cup of tea in the company of people you love and who love you back, including yourself. Happy New Year, everyone! I am very grateful for all of you!#reels #explore #newyear #2025 #hny #newyear #happynewyear
Will they..? . Vo Afsana jise anjam tak lana na ho mumkin. Use ek khoobsurat mod dekar chhodna hi acha hai. ~SAHIR LUDHIANVI . Inframe: @shibani_bedi ♥️ DOP: @humourless_harsh ✨ . . #relationships #love #cinematic #cinematicvideo #songs #cinematicreels #shortfilm #filmmaking #romantic #explore (Love, heartbreak, relationships, bollywood)
‘You only live once’ bol ke peeth tudwa li guys Pushed to do this and shot by @damnsourabh . . . #travel #adventure #water #reels #reelsinstagram #explore #explorepage #shibanibedi #vietnam (Travel, vlog, adventure sport, vietnam, shibani bedi)
Sunlight ka cost mila ke 75k per month (negotiable) . . . #reels #reelsvideo #reelsinstagram #explore #explorepage #mumbai #shibanibedi
Ek hotein hai extroverts, phir uske upar aatein hai yeh log! . . . #reels #explore #explorepage #reelsinstagram #Indian #shaadi #wedding #weddingseason #shibanibedi (Weddings, Indian, desi weddings, shaadi season)
Dosti, a home away from home❤️ We gave the word ‘Dosti’ to @shibani_bedi in our favorite segment, “keep it honest,” and the wholesome Qissa she narrated while having the yummiest @nicicecreams 🥰 #qissewithkopal
Jal chodiye, phal lijiye!!!! @swiggy_instamart pe fresh fruits aur veggies mil rahein hai, ten minute delivery with ten percent off! Use the coupon FARMFRESH10 aur karo majje hi majje . . . #fruits #foodstagram #food #reels #reelsinstagram #explore #explorepage #shibanibedi #bff (Fruits, food, healthy, friendship, eating)
Aagey se jab bhi kuch kharaab karo, toh mummy ko bina bataye @swiggy_instamart se chup chap naya order kar dena! . . #mom #desi #desimom #reels #reelsvideo #reelsinstagram #explore #explorepage #shibanibedi (Mom, mom videos, funny, desi parents, Shibani Bedi, reels)
