Kate Cast Instagram – We grown up in the fairytale of believing that we are a little princess đ¸đź and one day, there will be the Prince Charming coming to rescue us.
Think about Sleeping Beauty or Snow White who wait to be saved by the Prince. When weâre little, each of us secretly wants to be like them â beautiful, innocent, and in love. Each of us wants to be the Princess.
When we grow up we dress up certain way, wear the makeup, play certain games to attract an attention of men, compete with other woman. We behave and do the things we think itâs good for us so we can be the best version of his ideal girlfriend.
From romantic movies, we have learned that we should wait for Mr. Right.
We all love to watch Pretty woman or Sex in the city over and over again.
Every typical romantic movie ends with getting him and being a complete woman for the first time in life. Without him, weâre nothing.
I donât know if itâs just me but I have had enough of these manipulations telling us that thereâs nothing more important in this world then getting the love of man.
They cheat on us, they are not serious and all the âgood onesâ seem to be taken already or become the gays. đ
I call it the Princess syndrome.
Living in this way, you can never start living like your life really matters. You feel incomplete without him, so you donât create the life that you dearly want. You tell yourself that it will come once he marries you. Thus you cut off parts of yourself and put your life on hold.
Do you know what the funniest and saddest thing is? He doesnât want the needy Princess who is envious of other Princesses. He wants a real woman who enjoys herself and her life, regardless of whether he has arrived yet.
But When you focus on yourself, your inner growth, and cultivating your beautiful heart, then miracles happen. Then you can have anything you want because only then youâre in alignment with the Universe.
I believe that itâs time to drop this Princess Syndrome because it doesnât serve you. It only makes you wait for something that is already within yourself.
With love đ
#spiritualbitch | Posted on 28/Oct/2021 21:26:02